The pressure on different groups of people is different, parents have to take care of their children, to take care of the elderly, not only carrying huge economic pressure, psychological pressure is also not negligible. However, the most important responsibility in the hearts of parents is still the growth and education of children.
According to detailed statistics, children living in modern times sleep for a few hours less than children in the 70s and 1980s, which has a direct impact on the formation of their brains.
Although many people sigh: today's children do not worry about eating and wearing, living in the era of the Internet is very happy.
However, the pressure of further education and education has also become the most powerful pain in their hearts, and the pressure they carry on them is also unimaginable to ordinary people, and the "inner volume" of education alone makes them miserable.
In order to allow children to have eye-catching results and outstanding performance, it is logical to enter a prestigious university in the future.
From kindergarten, parents arrange for their children to attend cram schools, learn various specialties, and even the children's daily dressing, parents make regulations early.
Children lose self-control over life, but also lose the ability to think, in such a reversed environment, the internal driving force is gradually missing, so that they become parents to achieve their ideals and future life "tools".
In order to keep their children's grades from falling, many parents do everything they can, stay up late, brush exam papers, and become commonplace.
As everyone knows, these actions are gradually depleting children's learning ability and pushing them to the brink of mediocrity.
If you want to make your child have a greater possibility in the future, enrolling in cram school is definitely not the most effective way.
Instead of wasting so much time and energy, it is better to work hard to cultivate the child's internal driving force, and everything parents expect will be reflected after the internal demand motivation is available.
【What parents can do to cultivate their children's "internal driving force"】
1. Have the ability to manage time
Increasing the child's domestic demand motivation can fundamentally be boiled down to: a certain degree of management ability is required.
As a parent, if you want your child to have an internal driving force from an early age, you must cultivate your child's ability to manage time.
This is the primary condition for whether the child's internal driving force is in place.
When children are free to plan their time, they can make reasonable plans to understand themselves, what should they do?
When the child has this ability, parents do not need to worry about the child at all, the child's internal driving force has already possessed the cornerstone of construction, and the improvement of the internal driving force is also a matter of course.
2. Pay attention to daily accumulation
To increase the child's internal drive, we must first give them the ability to distinguish between right and wrong.
The accumulation of basic knowledge cannot be ignored, which plays a great role and significance in shaping their three views and cultivating their personalities.
In the daily accumulation, we can start from various aspects such as ancient poetry, the observance of principles and rules of conduct, and so on.
3. Find the most efficient learning methods
In order to improve children's motivation to domestic demand, we must first teach them how to learn.
Children with strong internal driving force have a certain ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and also have a certain self-learning ability.
In the process of continuous self-improvement and learning, you can make yourself stronger.
The learning method is very important, which directly determines their efficiency in learning and the degree of cognition and care about learning.
This needs to be cultivated as early as possible by parents, and the sooner children have this ability, the stronger their internal drive will become.
4, know how to release negative emotions and pressure
Whether it is a genius or an ordinary person, there are certain negative emotions.
Therefore, if you want to make your children have a stronger internal driving force, you must teach them how to release the negative emotions and pressures in their hearts.
Stress is like a double-edged sword, and if in the right state, it can make children stronger and push them to develop and move forward in a better direction.
However, once the pressure is too high, there will also be a situation that cannot withstand the explosion.
Therefore, parents should release negative and bad emotions for them, only in this way can they become stronger and stronger, and the internal driving force can be stronger.
【Author's Message】
Sukhomlinsky has repeatedly said that the attention and love of educators will leave an indelible impression on the minds of students.
Expecting children to have excellent performances, blue out of blue is better than blue, this is the idea of every parent.
However, if you just desperately increase the pressure on your children and do things that are promoted by seedlings, not only will not make your children competitive, but even push them to the other extreme.
In terms of increasing the child's internal drive, these things need to be paid attention to by every parent, and only with these will the child's future have more powerful creativity.
Today's topic sharing: Do you think: On the road of children's learning, what can parents do to improve their children's internal driving force? Feel free to share your thoughts and experiences below.