I am 36 years old and have no children. And there is a high probability that you will not be able to have children. Every time I went on a blind date, I would tell the other person that I wasn't going to have children. My appearance and body are all 6 points, monthly salary

I am 36 years old and have no children. And there is a high probability that you will not be able to have children.

Every time I went on a blind date, I would tell the other person that I wasn't going to have children.

My appearance and stature are all 6 points, and my monthly salary is about 10,000. No house and no car.

After a dozen blind dates after divorce, it is basically a clear feeling of inappropriateness when they meet each other. Don't want to put it on...

Later, once desperate, wanted not to get married, has told the parents, unmarried and infertile...

Later, I inadvertently met the current one, and at first glance I felt more comfortable than I had seen before...

Later, I saw each other almost every other day, and I liked some more each time, and we often sighed:

Second marriage And at this age, you can still feel like a young love, so magical...

Meeting is like painkillers, see once can only manage two days, and then the effect of the drug is gone, just scratch the heart and scratch the liver of the irritable feeling...

If we can't make both of them, then there is a high probability that there is no more suitable...

He said: The last paragraph may have been the internship period given to us by God, and now it is officially turned...

He is 4 years older than me, mild tempered and high emotional intelligence, it hurts, mainly because they are really comfortable together, solid, secure, you will know clearly that he will not treat you badly, will not count you...

And he is his ex-wife cheating and divorced, but every time he mentions it, he will say that although she made a mistake, but after all, I can't orchestrate behind my back (all kinds of bad words) people's homes, which makes me think that others are very good, because the people who are dating in front of me must say a lot of bad things about the ex-wife...

I told him at the beginning: The second marriage is most afraid of distrust and calculation, so we must say something openly and honestly in the future, and the two of us will solve it together, especially sensitive economic children, ex-wife and ex-husband, etc., we must be honest, and only honesty can we last. Only honesty proves that there is no ghost in the heart...

He has a son who is 13 years old and brings himself, and he and I are also very good at present, children, good food, drink and fun, very close to the relationship.

And I don't expect much from the child in my heart, I don't expect him to be like my mother, I don't expect him to return much to me, I get along with him as a friend, when his father is busy, we both go out shopping to eat delicious food...

I don't think I'm married much better, but it's a lot better than the first time I did, he has two apartments, two cars, shops... These are all external, mainly the inner comfort is really unattainable.

Of course, no one is perfect, and the biggest difference between the two of us is that he has a junior high school education and I have a bachelor's degree.

At first I thought it was an insurmountable obstacle, but after a few incidents, I found that his habit of reading books over the years made up for a lot, and also made him develop the ability to quickly accept new things, he was very willing to understand what I understood but did not understand, and he would secretly pay attention to what I liked... I appreciate this...

Moreover, there are some things he is good at that I don't understand, so don't force the other party...

Therefore, now that I have found that there is no big problem, I am very relieved...

The date of going to get the license is set, and I have also considered the problems we may encounter in the later stages.

1. His child problem

I never thought about how close the other person's children were to me, no matter who I was looking for, I never thought about it.

Because I don't want to do this kind of impossible expectation, in vain to increase the trouble, the stepmother can never replace the mother.

I am now eating and drinking with my children, they did not give much to their children before, I took him to see more novelty, fun and delicious food, in fact, many of them are also what I want to play.

For now it's fine, no contradictions. I also told my child that your mother will always be your mother, and my appearance is just one more person who loves you.

I said to his dad well, usually study and other easy to contradict the problem of his dad to talk about him, I only give advice, do not advocate, I only pay attention to the key points of the college entrance examination in the later stage to guide it, after all, his parents have no experience.

There is also a saying why I don't have one myself, originally I will not marry again, I will insist on Dink,

And another one, there will be contradictions, the age is also older, raising children energy is not good, do not.

Say find a girl, not to mention!

It's really hard for girls to rebel, and we are all women who naturally understand women's careful thinking. Boys are more simple. Maybe the same sex is inherently repulsive.

I ask the child a little, and in the future it would be best if I walked in front of the old man,

If he goes first, I only hope that the child will sign it when I am hospitalized, and the child can dock when I live in the nursing home. That's all.

And all my property will be given to him in the future, and I won't give anyone anyway.

2. His parental support

His parents are far away, his brother is around to take care of it, and we just go back once a year for the New Year to give some money. Usually do not come and go, which is also a point that I am very satisfied with. Family relationships are extremely simple.

3. Premarital property

Yes, I will buy a house myself before I get my license.

Before the divorce caravan was given to the ex-husband, after all, it is easier for men to find a caravan with a caravan.

I am just starting out in a stable career, and there is a high probability that the economic problems will be better than the current ones in the future, so I never thought of trying to figure out his house and car property. His money can be at my disposal at any time, and nothing else.

As long as you run to something, there will be contradictions, and the second marriage I want is not to live together in a chicken feather, so don't. His is also his hard-earned, I can have it myself, why do I have to make it unpleasant.

4, the problem of whether to obtain a license

Many blind dates, not the right people, and later prepared for infertility.

It was just an accident to meet him, and it was surprising that I liked and went smoothly so much. In the end, a lonely person's life is always not as good as two people to accompany and laugh, and he is a service personality, and he is doing housework, because he has a stable job for a long time, and I am more troubled in the entrepreneurial stage.

I don't want the economy, I don't want children, I want to be comfortable with this emotional value of companionship for the second half of my life!