Please eat is a matter of courtesy and can not be reciprocated, who rarely treats you with a meal? To give the simplest example: I attend your wedding with gifts to you in 1888, and I marry you with me for 200

Please eat is a matter of courtesy and can not be reciprocated, who rarely treats you with a meal?

To give the simplest example: I attend your wedding with gifts to you in 1888, I marry you with me 2000, this is the tacit understanding of "social people". Meaning: our relationship has come and gone, and the human relationship is getting bigger and bigger, so that there is a source for continued exchanges.

Many people ask each other to help things get done, so they invite each other to dinner, but eating is only the beginning, and valuable exchange is the core.

Instead of spending a meal, everyone's time is precious.

But the meal should be eaten, the human feelings should be big, don't feel that you invited to eat, the other party also took a big advantage, then this kind of person does not have to make deep friends, after all, it is not a fool to be able to help you.

What they expect is: I'll do you a favor today, and next time you'll be able to help me back.

The landlord's father's connections are super invincible, because he has a lot of emotional intelligence, and he is still very "at a loss"

People with social fear can learn to learn and not be afraid of trouble