Introduction: My cousin's baby is in the first grade of primary school, and the teacher said that the child can't sit on the bench and is always distracted during class. Writing is grinding and rubbing, and the time to read a book can't last for a few minutes. My cousin is very anxious about this, the child has just entered elementary school, how can there be so many problems.
In fact, parents pay too much attention to the baby's learning, but ignore the child's behavior habits. There are many parents and cousins in life, in the problem of parent-child education, too concerned about the baby's grades and health, but did not cultivate the child's good habits. I always feel that the baby is small, and when he grows up, he will naturally correct it.
The formation of good habits is very important in the growth process of the baby, and it has a great impact on the cultivation of children's abilities in all aspects. Harvard University research found that the education that babies receive before the age of 7 accounts for 80% of the impact on the future.
Psychologists point out that before the age of 1 is the nursing period, 2-3 years old is the infant period, 4-5 years old is the early childhood period, and 6-11 years old is the school age. 4-7-year-old children are the most "plastic", at this stage, baby parents should pay attention to cultivating children to form good habits.
7 years old is the dividing point of the baby's education, when the child goes to primary school, it is like stepping into a small society, the child from the ignorance of the kindergarten, to a primary school student, they will be forced to become independent. At this time, if you want to cultivate your child's good habits, it is already too late.
Mr. Ye Shengtao, a famous educator, said that education is to let children develop good habits. Parents should develop good habits in the early childhood stage before the baby is 7 years old. In this way, parents will have peace of mind and children will benefit.
Habit 1: Form a good habit of independence and self-discipline
When I was young, the conditions at home were average, and it wasn't until I was 5 years old that my parents bought back the TV. I was just introduced to the new thing of television and felt very happy.
Every night I would beg my mother to let me see it a little longer. But my mother said solemnly that when it was time to rest, I had to turn off the TV, otherwise I was reluctant, but also under the strict discipline of my mother, I formed a habit of self-discipline, although I was very nostalgic for the good programs on the TV, and then I took the initiative to turn off the TV when I reached the specified time.
Nowadays, for the cultivation of the self-discipline habits of the two babies, I also follow my mother's practice, I must follow the rules and regulations to do things, since the rules have been established, we must abide by them. Of course, parents should also lead by example and set a good example for their children. Parents can't get used to their children without a bottom line, which will only make the baby willful.
My two children can get dressed by themselves, and my husband and I no longer help, for example, when the children are in kindergarten, they have to pack their own stationery, pack school bags, etc. There is a corresponding life schedule at home, get up on time every morning, eat by yourself, and then clean up the tableware, the baby's independent ability, must be cultivated from an early age.
Habit two: Pay attention to behavior
Once, when attending a relative's school entrance banquet, there was a child of about 5 years old at the table, and when eating, the baby turned the table quickly. He also took the chopsticks and mixed the dishes one by one, but he couldn't catch the dishes himself, and then directly reached out to grab the dishes on the plate.
This baby made a fuss, and no one at the table ate well. Parents sit next to each other and laugh and say, children are small, children are small. But there is no stop to the behavior, although the baby is young, parents should tell him table manners, the most basic can not be on the table with their hands to grasp the dish.
Parents should teach their children table manners early, for example, when they see the elders to greet each other first, they cannot take what they like to eat to their side. In any case, children who understand politeness are the most popular, and parents should cultivate their children's etiquette habits as soon as possible, so that their children's interpersonal skills are also very high in the future.
Habit three: Cultivate the habit of reading
Nowadays, children are very fond of playing mobile phones, often playing games or watching TV, in this era of developed networks, not only children like electronic products, but also adults.
Imagine that parents hold their mobile phones all day to brush paragraphs, and even when eating, they will also look at their mobile phones while eating, and children will naturally follow the parents' practices.
The children of the cousin's family rarely touch mobile phones and computers, etc., because every night, the cousin will accompany the child to read, so that reading is used instead of electronic products. Babies who love to read since childhood have a very wide field of vision and their writing ability is also very strong. Because of good books, children can maintain a positive and optimistic attitude and a smart mind. Parents should put down their mobile phones and read more books with their children.
Habit four: the baby's concentration
Kindergarten is mainly based on play, to the primary school stage, will be based on teaching, the baby transition from kindergarten to primary school is difficult to adapt to the environment. This also makes them distracted during class, can not keep up with the progress of the teacher's lectures, the child's academic performance will naturally not be good, the child's comprehension ability is getting worse and worse, and the score will continue to decline.
Parents should exercise their baby's ability to concentrate as soon as possible, so that children can quickly adapt to the learning atmosphere of the primary school classroom. Parents can take their children to do more puzzle games, carry out some training to exercise hand-eye coordination, and reduce the time children play mobile phones and watch TV.
epilogue:
Parents should develop good habits for their babies as soon as possible, so that they can also shape an independent personality, and parents are more worry-free after going to primary school, which is of great benefit to their children's future.
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