Taking advantage of the holiday to chase "Beyond" and see chen mian win the championship and defeat Yan Xiujing, it was really too burning and the heart was surging with excitement.
The TV series "Beyond" is a Winter Olympic-themed TV series that focuses on the short track speed skating project, telling the story of three generations of self-made people working together to push the sport to the international level.
The first generation is coach Wu Qinghong, she led the team chen jingye, Zheng Kaixin from 0, all the way to the Pyeongchang Winter Olympics, but unfortunately failed to win the championship, Chen Jingye's daughter Chen Mian with three generations of dreams, impact the Beijing Winter Olympics.
As a descendant of short track speed skaters, Chen Mian's learning process is more tortuous. Because her father believed that Chen Mian did not have the talent for short track speed skating, she "forced" her to give up this road when she was 6 years old, and she followed her mother Wang Haiyan (played by Mei Ting) to Jinan, where there was no ice rink, there was no opportunity to learn short track speed skating, and she learned roller skating until the age of 16.
In 2014, 16-year-old Chen Mian heard that the Qingdao Short Track Speed Skating Team was recruiting players, won the opportunity to learn, stumbled all the way to the national team, and won the championship in the 2019 international competition.
This way, it is inseparable from the cultivation of the coach, inseparable from Chen Mian's own efforts, and even more inseparable from the care of her mother, the mother played by Mei Ting, who gave her the greatest support, and also hid the password of harmonious parent-child relationship.
Good parent-child relationship, what parents have done right?
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Give your child the utmost respect and support when pursuing their dreams
Chen Mian, who no longer learned short track speed skating at the age of 6, although she learned roller skating, she has not let go of her love for short track speed skating in her heart, and when the opportunity comes, she no longer waits.
Concealing that her mother came to Qingdao from Jinan alone to participate in the recruitment of short track speed skating team members, the mother learned that her daughter had not put down her dream of short track speed skating, heard her daughter say "I only like the ice thing", did not blame her daughter for sneaking out, and did not blame her daughter for giving up the national second-level athlete exam, but gently told her:
"Why don't you tell mom sooner, mom will support you"
"Look how honest your mother is with you, she tells you anything, what can't you tell me?"
After Zheng Kaixin, who met the coach when she met her, her mother won the opportunity for her daughter to learn.
Father Chen Jingye did not want Chen Mian to learn short track speed skating, and when the father and daughter were in an awkward situation, the mother persuaded her to win opportunities for her daughter.
Because there is a mother like Mei Ting who always stands on the daughter's position to see the problem, Chen Mian has a particularly good relationship with her mother, and when she is wronged, she will tell her mother that she is confused and does not know how to get along with her father when she takes the initiative to ask for help (her parents have been divorced for many years and has been living with her mother), because she can't play the game because of fever, and she also cries with her mother.
Such a parent-child relationship gave Chen Mian confidence, she was positive and optimistic, bravely fighting for every opportunity and pursuing her dreams.
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Give maximum companionship when your child needs you
In the variety show "Mom is Superman", 5 and a half-year-old Andy was asked "Mom and Dad are usually busy at work and can't accompany you, will you feel lonely", and replied without hesitation: "Not alone".
As for the reason, he said "I'm used to it".
At that time, her mother Huang Shengyi burst into tears. In the "Starry Sky Speech", Huang Shengyi mentioned that after Andy was born, they sent Andy to their grandmother's house and did not let their son be exposed, thinking that it was the best protection for their son.
But when the son said "used to being lonely", when he saw that his son was not close to him at all and even said with disgust, "I don't like you to accompany me", he found that she missed too much, and when the child needed her, she did not give companionship.
Later, Huang Shengyi tried to get close to his son, took his son to the farm, did farm work together, picked strawberries together, and took his son to take the school exam, in the company of time and again, slowly warmed Andy's heart.
Companionship is the longest confession of affection, and a good parent-child relationship needs companionship and a long-term emotional connection.
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When your child encounters difficulties, be his strongest backing
The fairy tale king Zheng Yuanjie told a small story in "Wisdom Teeth", the girl Liang Xin was wrongfully stolen from others in school, when the teacher was still thinking "If you don't recruit from the truth, I will notify the parents", Liang Xin said a sentence, which surprised the teacher "I want to tell my father".
And when Liang Xin's father rushed to school, he really gave his daughter the greatest trust, and worked hard to clear his daughter's grievances and became the daughter's most solid backing.
When children encounter difficulties or are questioned, too many parents lack trust in their children, and children prematurely let go of their dependence on their parents, and when they encounter difficulties, they do not ask their parents for help.
Do a good job of the child's solid backing, the child will trust and rely on you, and will be willing to ask you for help when encountering difficulties, so that your relationship will be more harmonious.
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In daily life, parents must be able to do what they say
The CCTV documentary "Mirror" is China's first true film that deeply explores the emotional education of families, telling the story of three families who are in trouble because their children have dropped out of school, and their parents have no choice but to send them to a special school for "transformation", but they accidentally receive an enlightenment education that touches the soul.
In the film, JiaMing, a high school student living in Wuhan, wants to be a wandering singer and backpacker, and after being blocked by his parents, he drops out of school at home, unwilling to communicate with his parents, and his temper becomes irritable and irritable.
When the incomprehensible parents asked other parents, "If your children want to go to Sichuan to be backpackers, will you agree?", they did not know that all of Jiaming's demands came from his promises, and all of Jiaming's anger came from his words.
Jiaming cried and complained: "They said that after the exam, I could do whatever I wanted, but after the exam, they said that when they had time to take time off, they would take me there, and they didn't count their words, just like teasing children." ”
Jiaming is reluctant to communicate with his parents because his parents don't talk and have long lost trust in them.
We are often used to giving our children a promise, and then often casually saying "next time..." "Wait for the father to have time...", a little bit of disillusionment of the child's expectations, but also a little bit of the child's trust in the parents, and even leave an indelible childhood shadow for the child.
Parents speak the truth, help to establish a close parent-child relationship, enhance children's trust in their parents, give children a full sense of security, and will also guide children to become a person who keeps his promises.
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Parent-child relationship is the foundation of all relationships.
A good parent-child relationship will benefit children for a lifetime.
Give your child more companionship and support, so that your child will be dependent on you and willing to share his life with you.
With parents as their own solid backing, children will have the courage to face life and pursue their dreams bravely and confidently.
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