In 1989, Zheng Kaixin's skating talent was favored by coach Wu Qinghong, who came to Zheng Kaixin's home and invited him to join the Northeast Short Track Speed Skating Team.
Zheng Kaixin's mother was very happy to hear it, because after joining, there was a stable salary, so that her son should seize this opportunity.
However, Zheng Kaixin did not look at it at all and was unwilling to join. As soon as the mother saw that her son was unwilling, she began to scold him and beat him out of the house.
In the evening, Zheng Kaixin came home, and her mother said that everything was packed up for you, and she would go to the sports team tomorrow.
Zheng Kaixin was very angry, said that he would not join, his mother said how can you be as mixed as your father, outsiders call you a street slip, you are not ashamed?
With that, he threw a bag of electronic watches that Zheng Kaixin took home to sell money into the pool and drove him out of the house.
Zheng Kaixin's mother does not know how to respect the child, nor does she care what the child thinks, as long as she feels good, let the child follow her own will.
As long as the child is disobedient, he will resort to violence to solve the problem, and the communication is also violent communication, and the child is never asked about his inner feelings.
The timeline came to 2014, obsessed with skating Chen Mian, gave up the roller skating exam, came to Qingdao without his mother, and wanted to join the speed skating team.
Her mother rushed to Qingdao to find Chen Mian and said that she was very angry, not angry that Chen Mian gave up the roller skating exam, nor angry that she had come to Qingdao without herself, but angry that she had a thought in her heart and did not tell her mother.
Chen Mian said that she liked skating, and her mother helped her analyze it, saying that she had never forced her to do anything, and if she liked it, she would try it for a month, and she had convinced the coach.
Say no, go home, your mother is waiting for you at home, and after saying that, she took Chen Mian to eat delicious food.
The bullet screen said that Chen Mian's mother was really good and the education method was awesome. Indeed, Chen Mian's mother knows how to respect and support her children, and is also the strongest backing for her children.
There is a kind of parent who lets their children pursue their dreams, and when their children are frustrated, they will always be a warm harbor for their children.
There is a saying that what kind of parents there is is a person's greatest destiny, and I hope that we can all be the latter kind of parents and help our children have a good life.