A person's life course is easily changed by others!
Last month, a group of young people were promoted, and after the final screening of a key position, there were two people left to compete, and the two people really had their own advantages in all aspects, and in the final small discussion meeting, the spokesperson was required to name a certain shortcoming of the candidate.
After a moment of silence, a spokesperson pointed out that one of the candidates smoked in large amounts, and smoking in non-smoking areas was more common (the candidate himself was middle-level, and others had to say that he was not behaving well). As soon as the verdict was made, the smoking candidate was rejected.
Afterwards, the spokesperson reflected in the small talk in my office: "A relatively good young man, just because of the habit of smoking, may change the fate of his life, and behind it is because the person who decided his fate quit smoking, now do not smoke, is this fair?" "The feeling of self-guilt is palpable.
I comforted him: This is the harsh reality, just like my son wants to have a pet dog, I object, on the grounds that you don't have a pet, you will never meet a neighbor who questions you, "Hey, why don't you have a pet and let it affect my life?!" ”
