With the development of social economy and the change of the concept of marriage and love, the traditional concept of "men should be married, women should be married" has also been forgotten by many young people, people are getting married at a later age, and even more and more people are not married, especially the elderly young women in big cities have a growing trend, there are as many as 800,000 in Beijing alone, it is reported that there are tens of millions of elderly leftover women in China, which many are unmarried.
Why don't they want to get married? What do you really think?
First, do not want to be bound by the family.
Modern women are more and more educated, more and more independent in thought, they have a strong independent living ability and economic income, most of these people are highly educated and high-income people, do not have to rely on men to survive, rely on themselves can also live a taste of comfort and wonderful, do not want marriage and family to bind their own free life. They feel that the quality of life after marriage will drop several notches compared to before marriage, so why use marriage to add to their own blockage?
Second, it is better to be absent than to be indiscriminate.
Now women have also risen, both in terms of academic qualifications and income, and the requirements for marriage are getting higher and higher, and the requirements for men's income, body appearance, personality and family background are also getting higher and higher. The reality is that there are very few high-quality men, whether it is A class women or B class women want to marry A class men, more monks and less porridge, they are not willing to settle, nor do they want to make up, then they can be left, helpless to advertise as "unmarried".
Third, the fear of marriage.
Now the society is full of red and green, there are many temptations, there are many violence, often there are some negative news in the marriage in the media newspaper, and there are signs of being magnified, can not handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, can not deal with family and family disputes, coupled with the current divorce rate is high, so that those women in a wandering state of marriage is discouraged, do not dare to easily enter the palace of marriage.
Fourth, for the career career.
Most women who do not want to get married are mostly career-oriented, and take the career as the biggest happiness in their lives, as we all know that women belong to the vulnerable groups in the workplace, marriage means having children, to pay a lot of time and energy to deal with family problems, in the workplace will also miss many opportunities, the career will stagnate, and lose the capital of fair competition with other people in the workplace, and finally disconnected from society can not keep up with the pace of the times, in order to maintain their competitiveness for a moment do not dare to stop, even the time of love, How to get married. And these career-oriented women are busy with work, small circles, narrow contact areas, and unwilling to go on a blind date, and even very repulsive, so they miss a lot of suitable, slowly get used to a person, they don't want to get married, don't want to become housewives, and also resist chai rice oil and salt, concentrate on their careers, and focus on careers.
Now that there are more and more elderly leftover women, it has become a cityscape, an epidemic that prevails throughout the country. Marriage is a way of life, not the whole of life, and it is not a necessity of life. No matter how many tribulations there are in life, it is your own choice. Therefore, choosing to get married or not getting married is a person's attitude towards life. Many women are reluctant to cross the threshold of marriage and live with their favorite lifestyle, which is also a kind of happiness. (The picture comes from the Internet, if there is infringement, please contact the must delete). This article is original by Youtaobang, welcome to pay attention, take you along with long knowledge! Xiaobian throws bricks and leads jade, welcome everyone to express their opinions in the comment area, thank you!