Recently, Liu Xiaorong, a good man in Jingyang, has been on the list. In the past 6 years, she is not too dirty, washing and cooking, serving tea and feeding medicine, no complaints, no regrets, no abandonment, regard the mother-in-law as her own mother, after careful care, the mother-in-law has been able to walk on the ground, Liu Xiaorong is not afraid of dirty, hard work, and has won the unanimous praise of the neighbors, let us walk into her story together!
The mother-in-law was accidentally paralyzed in bed and she chose to quit her job to take care of it
On January 25, 49-year-old Liu Xiaorong was interviewed by the Reporter of Huashang Daily-Ersanli, "I married here in 1993, and since then I have been engaged in the work of a teacher, and slowly my mother-in-law is also older, she herself has mobility problems, and when she began in 2016, she also injured her arms and legs because of several accidental falls, although the injury is not light, but I can still take care of myself, and I usually do not need to be taken care of." ”
However, in September 2016, Liu Xiaorong's mother-in-law was paralyzed in bed because of a fall, "She was more than eighty years old, and accidentally fell down when she was active in the house, and the doctor said that it was a crushing fracture, the situation was more serious, and it depended on the recovery of my mother-in-law in the later stage." ”
Liu Xiaorong's husband is not an only child, but their brothers and sisters can not take full care of their mother due to economic pressure, "My eldest brother's family is in Xinjiang, too far to take care of my mother-in-law, the sister-in-law's family still has a son who is not married, and now they need to prepare a lot of things for marriage, so they are working hard to earn money for their sons to marry their daughters-in-law, in the words we rural people often say, their tasks are not yet completed, and then take care of their seriously ill mothers, and their economic resources are significantly reduced. It was also a big blow to their families. I have only one daughter in my family, which is less financially stressful in comparison. Under such circumstances, Liu Xiaorong resigned and left the school without hesitation, refused many times from the school, and began to devote himself to the daily life of taking care of his mother-in-law.
When asked whether such a decision has been opposed, Liu Xiaorong said that his mother's family's opposition is the loudest, "They are also for my own good, afraid that I will sacrifice too much, but there is no personal life, in fact, I also understand their kindness, I have a heart, but my mother-in-law is paralyzed in bed I can't ignore it." ”
The mother-in-law could not move, and everything she ate and drank every day had to be properly arranged, and she had no complaints about it. "Sometimes she needs to eat five meals a day, the meal at two or three must be full, if you eat rice side dishes, my mother-in-law is easy to be hungry at night, at eight or nine o'clock in the evening, I give her another steamed bun, steamed soft and a little, she eats it is also convenient, after all, the teeth are not good when she is older." Later, under the careful care of Liu Xiaorong, the mother-in-law gradually recovered from paralysis in bed to being able to walk a few steps on the ground, which made Liu Xiaorong feel extremely pleased.
Liu Xiaorong said that he is a neat person, "My mother-in-law sometimes eats on the clothes, on the futon, I just want to wash it early, plus my grandchildren are also at home, a big son's clothes sheets and sheets I have to wash, usually bare clothes have to be washed once every two days, although it is at home to take care of children and the elderly, but it is not easy." A while ago, Liu Xiaorong also went to the hospital for examination and found that she herself had a herniated lumbar disc, "The doctor said that I was overworked, let me pay attention to the body, I did feel that the waist could not make the strength, but taking care of the mother-in-law, I have not complained." ”
The plan was to bring his father to live with him
Mentioning selfless dedication to the family, this is not unrelated to Liu Xiaorong's family situation. "My mother was gone as a teenager, my father later sought out my stepmother, they lived for thirty years, and then my stepmother died, and my father now lives alone."
Mentioning his father's life alone, Liu Xiaorong couldn't help but choke, "My father is also eighty years old this year, he doesn't want to bother me in the case of movement, if he lives with me, I can still give him a hot meal to eat every day, and now he lives alone, and he can't cook, and no one takes care of him, I am very distressed." "What impressed Liu Xiaorong was that not long ago she went to her father's house to see the old man eating cold mixed white radish leaves, and the steamed bun of the dish was brought by her not long ago, which made Liu Xiaorong even more distressed." I am now coordinating with my lover and trying to persuade my father that I have taken good care of my mother-in-law, and I believe that I can also take good care of my father, in case he is hungry and sick, I want to take him to live with us, I want to take care of him. ”
Villager Cui Dajie said, "Xiao Rong washed her mother-in-law's clothes, cooked, and took her mother-in-law to cut her hair... This is what I saw in front of her, she is particularly filial to the elderly, and it is worth learning from more of us. ”
Huashang all-media reporter Yang Ning Editor Tao Yaxing