Entering the winter vacation, the children do not have to worry about learning things for the time being, and usually have a lot of leisure time, so they can go out and play freely.
In addition, the new year is approaching, parents will also bring their own children when visiting relatives and friends, but they need to mention some necessary guest etiquette to their children before going out as guests, otherwise there will inevitably be some embarrassing scenes, which will also affect the harmony of the relationship between relatives and friends.
The girl's cosmetics were destroyed by the "bear child", and netizens were very distressed to see it
A young girl in Xinyang, Henan Province, was angry with the "bear child" of her relatives.
Girls usually have a very delicate life, and there are many valuable high-end cosmetics on the dresser in the room.
Unexpectedly, she returned home from outside on this day, but she was shocked to find that her baby cosmetics were all overturned, damaged, scribbled, and mixed with various snacks and garbage, making a mess, and the scene was very "tragic".
When the girl had a hard time controlling her emotions and asking about the situation, she knew that the 2 boys from the relatives came to play at home, and the girl's mother went to cook, and did not look at it for a while, so that they broke into the girl's boudoir, which caused such a result.
The girl was very angry and posted the messy scene to the Internet, causing many netizens to respond.
Some netizens said bluntly after reading it: "Although these cosmetics are not mine, I already have a sense of substitution, and now I am very angry." ”
Some netizens are also very concerned about the follow-up development of this matter, the girl said that she has sent the picture to the parents of the other party, the other party verbally said that it would criticize the child, but did not mention how to compensate.
The girl's mother advised her to take care of things, after all, "the big New Year's Day", more is better than less, and finally the girl can only admit that she is unlucky.
Netizens are naturally very dissatisfied with such a result, everyone says that "there are bear children have bear parents", children do the wrong thing, parents do not carry out timely education, but lightly skipped things, the result will only make children not recognize their mistakes, behavior will be more arrogant, and eventually will only harm the child.
The "bear child" destroyed the expensive handicraft, and the final outcome was very happy
In fact, things like this are really not a case, there is a netizen in foreign countries who loves to collect various anime handmade, which has spent a lot of energy and time.
Unexpectedly, a naughty bear child in a relative's family stared at these valuable and marketless treasures, taking advantage of the fact that netizens were not at home, secretly breaking into it and causing damage, and tearing a lot of handwork into pieces.
Netizens were very angry and questioned the bear child and his parents, but the parents said: "He is still young and does not understand things, so you can forgive him." ”
"He is still young" and "big New Year's Day" seem to have become the reason for omnipotence, but this netizen does not eat this set, he argues on the basis of reason, insists on compensation, and finally the bear child's family compensated more than 200,000 yuan to the netizens, but some precious handmade can never come back.
Since then, netizens and the family have no contact, and the bear child has also been harshly taught by his parents and never dared to do such a thing again.
These real examples are enough to arouse the deep thinking of the majority of parents. When educating children, we should not only pay attention to the children's academic performance, but also pay attention to the child's personality, conduct, life and many other aspects.
Guest etiquette cannot be ignored, and parents should pay attention to several aspects
Just like being a guest, we should not ignore, but to educate children to abide by the etiquette norms, to leave a good impression on everyone, so that children can also develop good habits, no matter where they go in the future, behavior will be generous, etiquette, and will win people's love.
So, what are the necessary etiquettes for visiting relatives and friends during the New Year that parents should teach their children?
1. Greeting etiquette
When coming to the home of relatives and friends, the first thing the child has to do is to politely say hello to the elders, parents can tell the child in advance, and after meeting, they can also remind the child to use the correct title, which can reflect the quality and cultivation of the family, which will make people feel like a spring breeze.
2. Guest etiquette
In the home of relatives and friends, parents should pay attention to their own children, especially children who are usually more naughty, parents must tell them that without the permission of the owner, they can not enter other people's bedrooms at will, and do not rummage through cabinets, drawers, or take some items at will.
If the child is curious about some small toys and ornaments, he should first ask the owner: "Can I take a look?" "You can't play until you're allowed.
3. Meal etiquette
When eating at the homes of relatives and friends, we should also pay attention to "sitting and sitting, eating and eating", do not compete for food, and do not leave the table casually and run around.
Parents should also tell their children not to make loud noises, jump and sing in other people's homes, but they don't have to be too restrained, as long as they behave generously.
In addition, if there are children of similar age in the family of relatives and friends, parents should also remind their children to live in harmony and avoid conflicts.
Etiquette education is indispensable, it seems that it is going to be the New Year, parents remind their children in this regard, children will behave politely and lovingly, so they must not ignore Oh.