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On January 20, the name "Wang Pengfei" was on Weibo hot search, and his domestic violence against his wife was a public outrage, which caused netizens to become "keyboard man". For the first time, I felt that "keyboard man" was so righteous, and for a domestic violence scumbag like Wang Pengfei, I should make the online violence more violent.
Why is "Wang Pengfei" hot search? And listen to me in detail.
On January 19, some netizens posted a video to expose that a man in Xianyang, Shaanxi Province, abused his wife, causing concern.
I watched the video of Wang Pengfei's abusive wife and was almost blown up.
Wang Pengfei beat his wife in front of his own child, the child was so small, he kept crying and shouting "mother", he ignored it. When the wife was beaten, she also comforted the child, "Don't be afraid of the baby, don't be afraid." At this time, his wife was still concerned about her children, but Wang Pengfei was already mad, punching and kicking his wife, and slapping more than a dozen times in a row.
In the video, Wang Pengfei's critical blows to his wife's split head and face and crazy fists made people's scalps tingle and their hearts hurt. In the process of Wang Pengfei's violence, an old man also heard the noise and rushed to come, but he only took the child away and did not stop Wang Pengfei's beating. The old man was clearly Wang Pengfei's mother.
After this matter attracted attention on the Internet, some netizens pulled out the domestic violence man named Wang Pengfei, who was also the deputy general manager of Shaanxi Airport New Ideas Trading Co., Ltd. Today, Wang Pengfei has been suspended.
The police also reported the incident, saying that after investigation, on January 18, the husband and wife quarreled over trivial matters, and Wang Moufei beat his wife Wang Moufei.
Just because of trivial matters, he can beat his wife like this, and Wang Pengfei's behavior is heinous.
Domestic violence is not an ordinary housework incident, nor is it a simple quarrel and dispute between husband and wife, but a naked violent crime.
Domestic violence must be severely punished!
The fact that "a senior executive in Shaanxi abused his wife for domestic violence" continued to ferment on the Internet and also attracted the attention of the People's Daily and CCTV, and the Shaanxi Women's Federation has also spoken out: highly concerned and strongly condemned.
My article is mainly based on Wang Pengfei's domestic violence, talking about the psychological characteristics of domestic violence men. After Wang Pengfei's matter was fermented on the Internet, an informed person said: "Wang Moufei usually only promises, I did not expect him to be so scummy behind his back." "Colleagues in the unit also felt that there was nothing wrong with his own performance in the unit, and he did not expect such a thing to happen."
Some men are only promised on the outside, but they are dancing with their teeth and claws to their wives.
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Insiders talked about domestic violence by executives, exposing this psychological characteristic of domestic violence men: inferiority and incompetence.
I agree with this quote I saw in a book: "Men who try to bring women to their knees with violence are incompetent and inferior." They beat women, nothing more than beatings, and think that women are appendages, his private property, inferior, and unworthy to reason with him. ”
So when you watch the video of Wang Pengfei beating his wife, he simply treats his wife like a small animal and lets her punch and kick.
No matter what reason Wang Pengfei had, he had no right or qualification to beat his wife like this. Still beating in front of such a young child, have you ever considered your own child, have you ever thought about what kind of psychological shadow it will cause to your child?
I also saw the voice of Wang Pengfei's wife on the Internet, she said that she was not beaten for the first time, for the sake of the child has always been hidden, but did not expect that her repeated concealment did not exchange for Wang Pengfei's change, but intensified. Wang Pengfei is not only very vicious to his wife, but also to his two-year-old child, "if you don't obey, you will beat him to death."
Tolerance for a violent man will not help him grow, it will only make him more aggressive towards you. The appeasement of domestic violence is equivalent to connivance, and many domestic violence is escalated in the other party's tolerance again and again, which eventually leads to catastrophe.
I especially want to advise Wang Pengfei's wife: get a divorce quickly, don't divorce for the sake of your children, just because you love your children, you must quickly divorce the abusive man. You must know that if your child survives in an unhealthy family environment, the psychological shadow on him will be even greater.
Women should have zero tolerance for domestic violence, and once domestic violence occurs, they should firmly isolate themselves from the perpetrator and stop allowing themselves to deal with dangerous situations.
Domestic violence without self-control can be said to be equivalent to "murder.".
This is also the reason why some domestic violence is absolutely unforgivable.
Because of domestic violence that has no self-control ability, once the abuser starts to go crazy, you are setting yourself in a very dangerous situation. And this kind of domestic violence without self-control is really difficult to change. He is very extreme in his behavior, and once you make him unhappy, he will use violence to make you submit. This kind of person does not respect women, and is very incompetent, psychologically extremely twisted, dare to ask how do you forgive him? To forgive him is to condone.
Domestic violence is definitely not a small fight between husband and wife or couples, but a completely out-of-control violence, even if the victim has been begging for forgiveness with him or ignoring it, such a person is too terrible, how to be pitiful.
Only men with inferiority and incompetence will play a trick in front of their wives, you have the ability to go outside and cross, a big man beats his wife what a man is. You are so horizontal, it is nothing more than that you feel that you can beat your wife, for this kind of person, you have to be strong, the weaker you are, the more you will be deceived.
So I also hope that women can fight back and protect themselves, and stop being patient with the abuser, what can you exchange for your tolerance? Only violence after violence, even you will be in danger of life. Everyone's life is only once, you must cherish your own life, you must have a sense of protection, you know, no one has the right to beat you.
Some people may wonder why domestic violence men have inferiority and incompetence psychological characteristics?
I explained in the words of a netizen: "My mother said that in her life, she really met a lot of humble and obedient men in front of outsiders, and when she came home, she made a mistake." Because the society can not find their own value and desired status, so they can only show the so-called authority and domineering in front of their own women, and those men who are not afraid of anything outside are very painful to their wives. Because in essence, the inferiority in front of outsiders itself proves a person's bottom line and dignity. ”
There is some truth, I hope that this psychological characteristic can also allow some people to identify domestic violence scumbags.
Don't forgive domestic violence, I hope that women who encounter domestic violence can have zero tolerance for domestic violence, and can learn to take up weapons such as law and public opinion to protect themselves. Hurry up the divorce, stop the loss in time, and don't endure it all the time in the unfortunate marriage.
Today's topic: Why do men who are only non-committal outside beat their wives? Welcome to leave a message.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.