Domestic violence is only zero times and countless times.
When a woman has experienced domestic violence, the only thing that can support them is the child. Although they will also lament their bad luck and will ignite the idea of fleeing, they will eventually be defeated by reality.
Some people say that domestic violence is only 0 times and countless times, only this man has moved his hand on you once, then the possibility of doing something to you in the future will rise sharply, whether you believe it or not, this is the truth.
After the mother was abused by the family, she couldn't take care of herself and shouted to her 2-year-old daughter, "Baby run, don't be afraid"
The perpetrator was named Wang Pengfei, and the abuser did not leave his name. We learned what had happened, also through the mother's thousand-word denunciation. Words are limited and simply cannot describe all the harm that a husband has done to himself.
The mother married Wang Pengfei when she was 25 years old, and from the beginning of the relationship, Wang Pengfei and his family puA their wives. Not only is the wife not provided with superior material conditions, but even the most basic life cannot be achieved.
However, the wife followed Wang Pengfei with a dead heart, which was self-inflicted in the eyes of outsiders, but was it not because of love? Because he loves Wang Pengfei deeply.
After getting married, she could tolerate all the unfair treatment of her, but Wang Pengfei hurt her daughter and made her intolerable. The child is innocent, why let him scold?
When the last domestic violence came, the wife's nerves were already numb, and the pain on her body could not make her already dead heart have any reaction, but when Wang Pengfei rushed to her daughter again, she shouted: "Baby run, don't be afraid."
Her behavior was instinctive, and the reason she had not resisted was also because of reality, she had long since lost her ability to work, and she had no financial resources to raise her children alone. But none of this could justify her domestic violence.
Looking back at the history of domestic violence, Wang Pengfei's personality has caused everything
Wang Pengfei's domestic violence behavior can be described as a step-by-step derivation, at first because of his poor family conditions, inferiority psychology, in order to cover up the inferiority of the heart, he added bad words to his wife.
He would often even jump at the slightest incident, and as soon as he felt that his self-esteem was slightly threatened, he would immediately erect a thorn in his body.
After waiting for the work to improve, the personality sensitivity he had developed was still the same as usual, even after the birth of his own child, he was still extremely insecure.
In the face of the distortion of Wang Pengfei's personality, Wang's mother did not react at all, and even supported her son very much, even if she knew that her son had beaten up her daughter-in-law, didn't she still never ask a single cent?
Perhaps because of Wang's mother's arrogance from childhood, Wang Pengfei could not feel the warmth of the family. Perhaps it is also because the living conditions from childhood to adulthood are very difficult, and Wang Pengfei has become inferior and cowardly.
But no matter what, he can't fully vent his misfortune to his daughter, she is only 2 years old, it is the age to explore the world, such a childhood shadow, for her future development is only harmful and not beneficial.
Stopping the loss in time and leaving Wang Pengfei is the top priority
2-year-old children are the key period for social interaction
At the age of 2, the baby will consciously want to interact with the outside world of society, explore the world in his own way, and want to interact and interact with his peers.
Therefore, many parents will send their children to early education institutions when they are 2 years old to help them find a small group suitable for development.
However, if at this time, the world that children are exposed to every day is gray, full of fear and helplessness, it will seriously affect their understanding of the world. Unconsciously thinking that everyone will be so bad.
Over time, children become insecure, they don't know why they are being treated this way, and they stop all their actions so as not to trigger the injured organs.
When it comes to role recognition, such a father cannot play a positive role at all
In the process of the baby's cognitive development, there will be a period of time when the role cognition is very sensitive, they will blindly worship the father, and all the behaviors of the father are regarded as standard answers and imitated.
And Wang Pengfei's daughter faces a demon-like father every day, and she may grow up to be a violent child, because her father treats her like this, and she will treat other people like this.
In the long run, she will not even express her emotions well, and she will feel that she can hit people when she is happy, and she can also hit people when she is unhappy. Gradually disliked and hated by the people around him.
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Do you think that Wang Pengfei's personality has become like this, and should his family education bear the corresponding responsibility? Welcome to share your thoughts!