The relationship between people is always very beautiful at the beginning, and the people who meet each other for the first time always maintain a sense of mystery of a strange place when they are not fully familiar with each other.
Whether it is a friend or a couple, time has passed, they have been together for a long time, they are already completely familiar with each other, and once the mystery disappears, they may not be so beautiful because of the exposure of each other's shortcomings. However, if it is a sincere emotion, it is also completely possible to tolerate and understand and understand each other, and if it is not a sincere emotion, it is impossible to understand each other, tolerate and understand each other.
The so-called know the trees know the roots, and it is difficult to see people's faces. In this real society, in the real era, people are busy for their own interests, and strive for, who can be as good as ever to whom? If there is no value and interest coexistence between each other, it may soon fall apart.
Husbands and wives can not escape such fate, more and more couples, have become completely independent individuals, husbands do not want to be responsible for the life of their wives, only want to use their wives as free nannies. And wives have also realized that husbands cannot be completely relied upon, and their lives still need to be independent, so wives would rather work harder for themselves than reach out to their husbands for money to spend, and do not want to look at their husbands' faces to live.
Once upon a time, one of my girlfriends, because the children were small, took the children at home, her husband went to work in other places, and then the husband and wife lived in two places, often telling each other about the pain of lovesickness, and then later, the husband actually played a rogue, and had to ask his wife to work outside with him, saying who earned money and who spent, he did not want to earn money by himself, his wife did not do anything. At that time, when I heard my girlfriend say this, I was still very annoyed, where is such a husband?
But now it seems that there are more and more such husbands, and if the wife cannot earn money, the husband's face must be ugly, because they do not want to earn money alone, the husband and wife spend it, and even the cost of the child. Unlike in the past, a man can carry the task of making money in a family. Wives now also realize how despised and even trampled on their self-esteem in asking their husbands for money.
If a man tells you to marry him, he will be responsible for earning money and you will be responsible for beauty, you must not believe it, because such a promise is completely impossible to fulfill. After all, it is not easy for people to earn money to live now, men are also people, and they also have their own hardships and difficulties, but what about women who are wives? Once they have to go out to earn money, they have more tasks, not only do they have to go out to work, but they can't leave anything behind at home, and they also have to take care of their children.
For feelings, don't judge the degree of feelings by words, and don't really rely on people you think you can rely on.
I think it is okay for people to get along with each other and maintain independence and their own space, and true feelings are also necessary, and sincerity must be there, otherwise feelings will become thinner and thinner, and hearts will become farther and farther away. The two people got along like this, and almost eventually became the most familiar strangers. Husband and wife get along like this, there is no happiness to speak of.
Couples who have been married for decades are very enviable for couples today. In the era of high divorce rates, people's hearts and feelings are like fast food, the shelf life is very short, and people's hearts are becoming more and more untrustworthy. Feelings are becoming more and more unreliable. Over time, as the days go by, we really know whether the oath is credible or not, and whether the sweet words are short-lived.
In today's era, we need to pay more attention to quality, pay more attention to true knowledge, those false illusions, gorgeous flashiness, are not credible, the road is far away to know how the horsepower is, and the days are long before we know how the people's hearts are.
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