How to raise a child who loves to work and love cleanliness?
Winter vacation is coming,
Many parents are beginning to worry:
After the child's vacation,
The house is chaotic every day into a "chicken nest",
What to do?
There are also parents who complain:
Baby is 4 and a half years old,
Usually particularly naughty,
Like "rummage through boxes and cabinets",
Always make a mess of the house!
These situations are generally reflected
Children lack of labor awareness,
Will not take the initiative to help parents share the housework,
There may be some of themselves
Problems with bad habits.
So how to raise children
What about good habits of loving labor and loving cleanliness?
We've got it today
Parenting specialists are
Doctor of Pre-school Education
Deputy Director of China Children's Center
Teacher Yang Caixia
Let's hear the experts
What are some tips for parenting!
Parenting experts say
Children aged 4 to 4 and a half years are characterized by curiosity, a penchant for inquiry, a developed hands-on ability, and a sense of self-service. They like to "rummage through boxes and cabinets", but they are actually exploring and learning, and they are not deliberately making trouble.
On the one hand, parents should encourage children to explore boldly and protect their curiosity; on the other hand, they should pay attention to cultivating children's sense of labor and good living habits.
In fact, labor is also a child
Growing up in life must learn
A skill.
Parents may wish to proceed from
These four aspects are to educate children.
01 Cultivate children's self-care ability
In order to let their children learn, some parents have arranged many things for their children, such as washing socks, folding clothes, folding quilts, etc., resulting in poor self-care ability and weak sense of labor. In the long run, it is difficult for parents to be busy with work and want him to tidy up his room and do housework alone.
Therefore, we must boldly let go and let the children know the truth of their own things from an early age.
02 Teach children to take the initiative to do housework
Professor Li Meijin of the China Public Security University once said: "Parents should implant the concept of sharing housework into their children from an early age, even if they let the child help take a pair of slippers and pour a glass of water, they can guide their children from an early age to become a person who will take care of their parents." "Doing housework seems to be a small thing, but invisibly it can cultivate children's sense of responsibility for the family and learn to be grateful to their parents."
In daily life, parents can take their children to do some housework, such as picking vegetables, washing vegetables, cleaning up toys, etc., and give more encouragement and praise to maintain their children's enthusiasm for housework.
03 Teach children some labor skills
Labor is also a kind of mental activity, and the right method can not only complete the task efficiently, but also obtain a sense of satisfaction and achievement. Some children refuse to work, perhaps not knowing how to do it. At this time, parents need to tell their children some labor skills.
For example, learn to "break away", classify items, and discard some things that are not needed in time.
04 Parents set a good example
If you want your child to fall in love with labor, parents must first lead by example and not be lazy. When doing housework, the whole family is in motion, and it cannot be taken care of by only one person in the family. In addition to doing housework, you can also take your children to participate in some public welfare work, such as tree planting activities, winter snow plowing activities, and helping social workers distribute newspapers.
In addition to these,
During the holidays,
Also ok with kids
Make a labor plan,
For the sake of home
Neat and beautiful working together!
Source: CCTV Children