Get up early to brush the circle of friends, found that the friend sent a note stating: do not borrow money do not know that it is difficult to borrow money.
So the private message asked her what was wrong, and she said that her family's dragon and phoenix fetus was going to the first grade this fall, and she was very stressed.
Hearing this, I don't know how to answer the phone, my friend got married earlier than me, but after getting married, I have not had children, and then I successfully had a dragon and phoenix fetus after doing test tubes.
Because of her poor health, she could only be bedridden since she became pregnant, and it was difficult to wait until the production was unloaded, and as a result, her mother-in-law could not help, so she could only take two children alone.
Since I had children, I have never gone out to work since I was young, and the financial burden of the family has fallen on my husband alone.
At first, his husband was also grateful for his friend's dedication to the family, and he felt that she could not work full-time at home for the sake of the children.
But this gratitude and heartache slowly faded with time, and with it, her husband became more and more unaccustomed to her reaching for money, and even felt that she was doing nothing at home.
Among the people I know, XiaoDuo also gave birth to a dragon and phoenix fetus, and Xiaoduo was particularly able to endure hardships, because the family suddenly had two children and resigned to start a business.
Last year, because of an unexpected pregnancy, she gave birth to a little girl, but Xiaoduo was more profitable than before, she said, if a woman does not make money, when life wants to crush you, she will be powerless.
I have to say that Xiao Duo is right, after working, especially after becoming a mother, I have become more and more concerned about my earning ability.
So when the monetization of reading and writing arose, I did not hesitate. Curious friends may ask why?
Because more than ten years ago, I married from the northwest to Henan, and my aunt who was close to me since I was a child told me that I must make good money in my good health, and sooner or later the girl who married far away will use the money.
At that time, I graduated from college and worked for two or three years, and my salary was higher than that of my classmates, but I did not have a correct understanding of money. But when I became a mother myself, I had my own children and more and more found that women really needed to spend money in a lot more places than they thought.
I grew up because I was born poor, always have a sense of crisis, am a very rational consumer, even a little bit of a door, impulse shopping will never appear on me, but there are still many things to spend money.
For example, I have been cutting hair in a more expensive studio for more than ten years, not that I am picky, but the clean environment of the barbershop, the tasteful music, and the bookshelf full of books make me feel comfortable.
I enjoy every haircut, and during the haircut I can exchange many common hobbies with the shopkeeper, such as what bicycle races I participated in, what books to recommend, and even educating children. So I often spend at a premium on haircuts.
Life consumption can still bear, but the most terrible thing is that when the family is seriously ill, it is the test of both spirit and economy. During the time when my mother-in-law was hospitalized in a car accident, I was in the corridor of the hospital and heard many people calling to borrow money to see a doctor.
What makes me sigh the most is that last year my mother was sick to do major surgery, and the doctor asked whether the key medicinal imports were domestic or domestic, and the domestic ones could be reimbursed by medical insurance, but the side effects of imports were small.
My sister didn't think about it or tell me, so she directly told the doctor to use imports. Although I was also in favor of using imported drugs, I still asked her why she hadn't asked me for my opinion.
My sister said that she has the ability to solve the problem of spending money, it is better to use imported drugs, afraid that I know that there is pressure, and does not want me to embarrass myself because of money.
In fact, I know in my heart that if I had strong enough earning power, maybe my sister would not be so worried and afraid that I would have financial pressure. Since then my desire to make money has never been stronger.
If someone had said in the past that women want to make more money, I may not think so, but now I have to admit that women must take making money seriously.
In the past two years, I have always received some background messages, and there are actually quite a few women who do not take making money seriously.
There are some elderly parents who persuade their daughters to find a man with a good economy to marry, it is better to compete in the career; there are young mothers who are married and have children, and their husbands can make more money and make money, and they do not need to work hard; and there are middle-aged women who are old and young after marriage, and they feel that family work cannot be taken care of at both ends, no matter how much they earn and how little they earn.
In fact, I think women really want to make money seriously, because young girls who make more money can talk with the object of their choice on an equal footing, young mothers do not have to ask their husbands to reach out in order to buy things for their children, and middle-aged women can still have the freedom to buy whatever they want.
I'm not a money-first person, but my past experiences have made me think that women making money is the premise of everything going well.
The main thing is that in the process of making money, you will find that your potential and ability are really beyond imagination. My experience has taught me that there are many places where women spend money, and there are actually many reasons to make money.
For example, I, a daughter who is far married, want to make my own money, keep up with the speed of my children's growth, keep up with the speed of my parents' aging, and keep up with the speed of all the accidents in life.
So women, please take making money seriously, because there are many places to spend money, and there are more reasons to make money.