Text/Flying Fish
Life, in fact, is mysterious, controllable and uncontrollable.
In fact, fate is still in their own hands, the key is to see their own attitude.
Are you a person who accepts your fate as soon as you encounter something, or will you continue to fight for it, to work hard, until you have never seen any effect before you feel that this is fate.
Having worked hard is actually not the same as not trying.
There are some things that you don't try to fight for from the beginning, then fate will never take care of you, and you have been working hard, trying to move yourself, working hard to be powerless, then your biggest gain is that you have no regrets, because you have tried your best.
However, fate is often like this, when you have been working hard and not giving up, you feel that you have taken ninety-nine steps, or you have not seen good results, and you hesitate whether to give up or continue to walk.
And the person who gives up, is to admit the fate, sure enough, there will be no result, and the person who does not give up, or the firm step towards the hundredth step, do not want any hope, but did not think that not far away, there will be good results waiting for themselves, the fate has since been reversed.
Fate is still up to you to fight, what kind of life you want to live, in fact, rely on yourself, can not count on others, can not be arranged by others.
Remembering the story of the two little characters in "Dream of the Red Chamber", it is a completely different fate.
One is Yingchun, whose fate was to die of humiliation by her husband, very desolate, and also determined by her character.
Her mother died early, her father was unreliable, she was often looked down upon, and she also developed a flattering personality, would not know how to resist, nor would she take the initiative to fight for it.
But if she could be braver, she would not end up with such a fate. And she is not, do not want to change the status quo, let others laugh and bully, just like Xianglin sister-in-law, and finally fell into begging on the street, instead of trying to live by herself, get by, she has no light in her heart, how can life be brilliant.
People with bad fate are actually always resigned to fate, weak and afraid of things, without any fighting spirit and backbone, so in the end they all end in tragedy.
Yingchun is like this, she was sold by her father to the Sun family to pay off the debt, after marrying, still did not change herself, and finally was humiliated by her husband and died.
There is a saying that says, "Fate is the most impermanent, and it is used to net all sentient beings with an unbreakable net." However, there are no absolutes in the world, and there are always some fish that are not willing to be mediocre, interpreting a very different life under the impermanent fate. ”
The weaker your personality is, the more you don't want to try to change, the more you will be treated as a "soft persimmon" and can only be bullied.
We can't change the starting point of fate, but the end of fate actually depends on ourselves, and what kind of height we can stand on is what we strive for.
Don't complain about fate, you have to change your destiny, don't easily admit your destiny, so that life will be reversed.
If Yingchun is the least likely lady in Jia Province, then Jia Yun is the family that is the least like the young master in Jia Province.
Jia Yun, who also came from a humble background, died early in his father, leaving him to rely on his mother for his life, relying on helping people to do some odd jobs to maintain the family.
Jia Yun is actually smart, although he runs into walls everywhere in Jia Province, he knows who the real idea is. He wanted to find a serious errand in Jia Fu to live, but in the days of the poor, there were chicken feathers everywhere.
He went to see if he could give him some work, but he had been perfunctory, and later he realized that the person who could make the decision was not Second Uncle Lian, but Second Aunt Fengjie.
He didn't have the money to ask Sister Feng, thinking of going to his uncle's house to see if he could get some help, but when his uncle saw that his nephew was coming, he pretended to keep him at home to eat, but he was crying poor, so Jia Yun also saw it, when people are poor, don't count on others.
In the uncle's house was wronged out, in the street was tripped by a drunk man, the mood was already very bad, wanted to break the mouth and scold, did not think that this drunk man knew himself, he was willing to lend money to himself, but also told him not to have pressure, because this is the exchange between friends.
So he finally had money to buy gifts to please Sister Feng, and after spending some words, he finally got the business of planting flowers and trees in the Grand View Garden.
Having a job means having an income, so he sees the hope of life and always lives in a low profile.
After he got the project money, he left some for himself to turn around, and the rest was given to his mother to take care of the family, and his life was slowly improving.
Therefore, the starting point of a person's destiny is nothing, it depends on whether we are willing to suffer and whether we want to try to change the status quo, so that life can be reversed.
In the days when there is no umbrella, you must learn to run, always maintain a good attitude, face the trough, face the difficulties, always grit your teeth and stand through, so as not to become a shrimp bound by fate.
As long as you don't easily admit your fate, then fate will always take care of you.
How did Jia Yun's fate turn around? That is to work hard to pay, work hard, act calmly and low-key, so that people will see their ability.
Because a strange thing happened in Jia Province, Feng Jie and Jia Baoyu were unconscious, and the whole Jia House was uneasy, so Jia Mu felt that there was no one in charge at this time, and she had to find someone who could be relied upon.
I didn't expect that someone mentioned Jia Yun, saying that he was very stable in the project of daguanyuan and was a person who could be reused.
When the trajectory of fate comes to themselves, in fact, they are caught off guard, but in the final analysis, they are still won by themselves, if it is not their own efforts, not their own people, they will not be appreciated by others, and they will not gradually change the trajectory of their fate because of this.
Every time Jia Yun receives a task, no matter what he does, he will take it seriously and do things reliably, so in the end, he has won a lifetime of happiness.
He met Xiaohong, and took her with him to leave Jia Fu, and then lived a plain and fulfilling life, after the later fall of Jia Fu, they were not affected, and they would also lend a helping hand to the noble fengjie and Baoyu who had given him a chance, and also repay the favor.
People who know how to be grateful, people with good hearts, and hard work, serious life, will always be favored by fate, because they do not give up, because of their own mentality, as long as you do not admit it, then fate can not trip you.
There is no absolute fairness in the world, most of us are ordinary people, and if we accept our fate because of this, then the rest of our lives will only be more poor.
Therefore, don't easily admit your fate, strive to go upstream, and change your situation, which is the most important attitude in life.
There is no need to complain about living, carrying the past is rebirth, when you survive, life begins to reverse.
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