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The so-called decency of matter is not resistant to time scrutiny.
In "Dream of the Red Chamber", Rong Guofu is a symbol of decency, and Grandma Liu is the image of a peasant household with a ruined family.
The first time Grandma Liu entered the Rongguo Mansion, she "saw the magnificent stone lions on both sides of the door, the sedan horses full of doors, and the janitors with chests and stomachs folded, which made her tremble and tremble and call her grandfather when she saw people." ”
The second time I entered the Rongguo Mansion, I saw a family feast of crabs - "The silver of this meal is enough for our crops to spend a year." ”
However, when I entered the RongGuo Mansion for the third time, I could no longer see those doormen with chests and stomachs, nor did I have to rub them with a belt, but "once I came to the back door" and searched for half a day to find a person. When she saw Sister Feng, the feng sister with sharp corners of her mouth and noble dress was no longer graceful and luxurious, but had become "skinny and mentally confused.".
In the end, the jia family's downfall confirmed that the materially rich decency could not withstand the erosion of time. No one can foresee the rise and fall of the next second, and finally the decency of money piled up is more like the so-called bubble.
A decent life is to maintain a unique taste and interest no matter what the external situation is.
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In fact, a decent life has little to do with the amount of money or status.
The real decency is that in the era of material scarcity, you can still be comfortable, experience the fun of the subtleties of life with your heart, and live a full texture.
Although Yunniang and her husband Shen Fu in the book "Six Records of Floating Life" lived a life of poverty, the two lived together all their lives and lived a tasteful life.
Yunniang, who has a skillful mind, is a true aesthetician of life. Even in the days of embarrassment, he is still good at fun and knows how to be emotional.
There are many places in the book that also mention that she is a master of life: "Yunwei placed a plum blossom box, with six two-inch white porcelain plates, one in the middle, five external, and painted with ash, and its shape was like a plum blossom." Place it on the desk like a plum covering the table; open the cover, like a dish in the petals. ”
There are also the living flower screen, the living flower box, the old bamboo curtain reuse, these in her hand to play, is full of flowers, insects and fun, poor but not mediocre, pour out the beauty and texture of life.
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True decency comes from inner abundance and wealth.
Mr. Yang Dai, a life of twists and turns, suffering is frequent. At the end of the 20th century, her daughter Qian Zhen and her husband Qian Zhongshu died one after another.
The white-haired man sent the black-haired man, Mr. Yang was alone in the qinglan ancient book, with a strong and abundant heart, he overcame the great sorrow, 20 years, lived a solid and decent life.
After suffering from overweight, torture, blows and all kinds of unbearable, you can still cover the deepest loneliness of life with a rich and powerful heart, and only a rich heart can be alone.
Those who are in power and spend thousands of dollars do not necessarily live a decent life, they live a good life, but they often have a furrowed brow, a gloomy face, full of sorrow, and maintain a high degree of vigilance and defensiveness.
Their decency, guided by desire, has fallen into a lonely and heavy shadow in the world.
In contrast, those laid-off couples who earn money by working part-time and scavenging for waste, and who support their children for college, are truly decent, because they are sunny in their hearts and respected.
People with abundant hearts are never afraid of the ordinary life, and love life from beginning to end.
Maybe they don't have much clothing, not a brand, but they are neat and decent; maybe they only inhabit a few feet, but there are a few good books at the head of the bed, and life is full and full.
"If the inner butterfly never wakes up, the life of the dead leaf butterfly is nothing more than a wordless dead leaf." If a person's heart is full of haze, no matter how strong the sun is, it will not shine in.
People with brilliant hearts are like quietly brewing a large altar of fine wine, fermenting and cellaring in their hearts. Their transparent philosophy of life, familiar life skills, and a wide and detached state of mind can always save life from want and avoid despair, so that the world is leafy, sunny, clear and bright, and the mountains are windy.
A decent life has always come from the abundance and wealth of the heart, not impatient, everything is fine
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