Teacher's Lecture 丨 Wang Xiaolu: Fortunately, I knew Qing's face and smiled at the wind and rain

Fortunately, I saw Qingqing's face and smiled at the wind and rain

Floating like a dream, for joy geometry?

Looking back on the past, Li Yu, the lord of the Southern Tang Dynasty, cried out bitterly: "How much hate, last night in the dream." Cao Xueqin, a scholar of the Qing Dynasty, sighed: "Full of absurd words, a handful of bitter tears." ”

More than two hundred years ago, the literary scholar Shen Fu also used a self-narrated book to fulfill half of his spring dreams and half of his life. This book is the classic literary work "Six Memories of Floating Life" that was strongly recommended by the famous host Wang Han.

The original six volumes of "The Six Records of Floating Life" and the first four volumes of the existing ones take the life of the author and his wife as the main line, narrating the ordinary and interesting life at home and what they saw and heard when they wandered around the world.

Now that I have the privilege of reading and finding a good opportunity, I would like to talk to you about a love affair on "Six Memories of Floating Life", say a person, and express a little understanding.

First, the love between Shen Fu and Yunniang was a firework in that era, and it was extremely brilliant

Opening this book, the sincerity of Shen Fu and Yunniang that flows between the lines is the most moving.

1. Seeing a gentleman, Yun Hu does not like it

When the thirteen-year-old Shen Fu first saw Yunniang, he said to his mother: "If you choose a wife for your children, you will not marry a sister." "The marriage contract was immediately made.

In the winter of that year, Yunniang's cousin got married, and Shen Fu went to Yunniang's house with his mother, and when he returned from sending his relatives back at night, he was already hungry. The book reads: "Yun secretly took the rest of his sleeve and went to his room." Yunniang quietly tugged at Shen Fu's sleeve and entered her room, taking out the warm porridge and hot dishes that had been hidden. When she was about to eat, Yunniang's cousin Yuheng came in and said, "Didn't you say there was no porridge?" ”

Only for Shen Fu to hide porridge alone, this is Yunniang's preference for him.

2. Ru and song come, I also song to go

Perhaps the most desirable love in the world is to like what you like, to love what you love, and to fulfill your fulfillment.

As far as Shen Fu is concerned, Yunniang is a wife and a confidant.

Shen Fu likes poetry and rhythm, and it just so happens that Yunniang also understands it, and has quite insights. So the tasting of poetry became their boudoir pleasure.

Shen Fu likes to arrange flowers and stack stones, and it just so happens that Yunniang also loves it, and she has a more beneficial lan heart, which is deeply appreciated by Shen Fu.

As far as Yunniang is concerned, Shen Fu is a husband and a mentor and a good friend, conniving at her wayward and lovely life interest, and resolutely supporting her birth as a literati feeling that should not have existed at that time.

Once Shen Fu was invited to the temple fair to arrange flowers, and when Yunniang saw it, she said, "Concubines are not men, and they cannot go to the temple." ”

Unfortunately, I am not a man and cannot show my face. Shen Fu replied, "Crown me with a crown, dress me with my clothes, and also transform a woman into a man's law." Therefore, Yunniang dressed as a man and went with Shen Fu.

Their acquaintance is that I understand your career path and send love to the landscape, and you understand my poetic feelings and yangchun white snow.

Second, it is not enough to cry with the three whites, but also to enjoy with the three whites

1. Happy To be Lucky

The good things in the world are not firm, and the clouds are easy to scatter and the glass is brittle. This messy love fireworks ended because of Yunniang's death, which was heartbreaking. But the hostess of this firework is not only the woman who thinks about it day and night, but also the most lovely woman in the history of Chinese literature in the mouth of Mr. Lin Yutang.

When you mention the word "cute", you may think of Yunniang's personality.

If you read it carefully, you will find that this cuteness also stems from her pity and her respectability.

Yunniang's father died early, relying on female red to support her mother and brother. Later, because of the misunderstanding, the mother-in-law was driven out of the house by the father-in-law, and finally died in another place.

Most of the days yunniang and Shen Fu spent together were homeless and displaced, and Shen Fu called himself a "poor man". But Yunniang can always make the days a little poetic in the cold.

There are many details in the book that particularly touched me.

There is no good tea to drink, Yunniang will use a small yarn sac to pick up a little tea leaves in the summer when the lotus flowers first bloom, put them in the lotus leaves, take them out the next morning, cook them with spring water, and Shen Fu praises the excellent fragrance of the tea.

She does not care about gold and silver jewelry, but cherishes the fragments of calligraphy and paintings; she carefully serves flowers and plants, and she also sheds tears for the cats to overturn the pots; she makes the bamboo pitch black into a railing, and designs the burrow room as a elegant house; her husband's friends come, she pulls out the wine; there is no money left in the family, she can also embroider to earn money to support the family, without half a complaint...

2. Live a life and sing a song

Yunniang is like a mountain flower rooted in the mud, inconspicuous, but when it bursts with full power, it will set off a wave of life. If the ups and downs are a light, shining on Yunniang's body, it has become a kind of strength, there is the firmness of "living in the dark alley, and not changing the joy of returning", and there is also the indifference of "walking to the end of the water, sitting and watching the clouds rise".

Therefore, such a lady is also respectable.

Reading this, I am reminded of the words of the writer Liu Yu: May you have good luck, and if not, may you learn compassion in misfortune. Now I want to say, may you have all the best, and if not, may you treat it calmly and learn to live poetically.

Close the book and think about it.

Rather than falling in love with this book, it is better to understand the joy and happiness of the world; rather than envying a woman like Yunniang, it is better to say that she wants to live like Yunniang, sweet and salty, with tears and laughter.

Third, in this way, floating life, embracing the four seasons, modern Yunniang abounds

From this, I thought of Meng Wanzhou, who was imprisoned in Vancouver for three years but still smiled gracefully, and Thought of Li Ziqi, whose father died early, even if he was misunderstood, still loved me, did what I did, and transmitted positive energy.

I think of the group of people's teachers who have been rooted in rural education all their lives, who are meticulous and conscientious in their work; in life, they operate with heart and exquisite collocation. Teacher Li Jianzeng, who is more than half a year old at Shiniu Middle School, shouldered the burden of the class teacher, and in 2021, at the entrance ceremony of the middle school entrance examination, she and her husband, Teacher He Zhuangping, made a robe for the Tang monk with a red cloth and made a pair of burdens for the sand monk with a cardboard box. A play called "The Western Heavens" was staged in the playground of our school, which eased the mood and inspired people. In life, make a good dish and boil a good bowl of soup. With his own strength, He was sent to the top of the list of the happiest men in Shiniu Middle School.

They see flowers in obscurity, expand the pure land in mortal dust, and contain themselves in the world.

I also thought of myself, although I can't drink tea and wine in spring like Yunniang, chant poetry in the water in summer, admire chrysanthemums in autumn, and watch the snow in the winter, but I can also do my work poetically and romantically. The simple classroom can be decorated with flowers and plants; the yellowed walls can be decorated with students' reading works; the obscure ancient texts can be integrated with self-made dramas and knowledge grabs. Working poetically and teaching the language poetically is also a great blessing in life.

Floating and fleeting, grass and trees in autumn. Fortunately, I saw Qingqing's face and smiled at the wind and rain. Thanks to "Six Memories of Floating Life", we met a poignant love, let us know that there was once such a beautiful woman, in the midst of the world's troubles, the mediocrity and even the tribulations lived so abundantly and beautifully. I am also very fortunate to be able to cultivate on the pure land of rural education, to keep Yunniang in my heart, to do everything calmly, to occasionally use a little cleverness, to sow some seeds of beauty on the hearts of children, and then with a little excitement, a little trepidation, a little expectation, and a little pride, listen to the sound of the ——— blossoming.

Dear friends, these are the contents of my book, a little shallow insight from me at the age of thirty-three, and some of the energy I have drawn from the book.

May you open this book on a warm afternoon. Go meet Shen Fu and Yunniang at that time, taste the unique romance of that era, and carve your feelings at that moment in your heart. Thank you!

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