Author | Fan Deng Reading · Tea ink
Anchor | Fan Deng Reading · Children
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Meet · Meet your unknown self in the book.
Good evening to all book lovers, welcome to the reading column "Encounter" produced by Fan Deng Reading.
Unhappy marriages have their own misfortunes, while happy marriages are always similar.
Shen Fu and Yunniang in "Six Notes of Floating Life" have become a model of happy marriage.
Their love spans two hundred years, still making readers reminisce endlessly.
In the vast sea of people, it is not easy to meet people who love each other, and it is a gift from heaven to know and love each other.
In "Six Memories of Fusheng", Shen Fu recorded the trivialities in he Yunniang's life, and passed down the love of 200 years ago, which made people envious.
Mr. Lin Yutang once commented that Yunniang is the most lovely person in Chinese literature and a woman.
"The Six Notes of Floating Life" shows a yunniang who is full of spirit, kind and beautiful, and whether Shen Fu is rich or poor, she is with him.
Her dream is not big, "cloth food, coke for life, do not have to make a long trip plan." ”
She was lucky to meet a man who loved her and respected her, who knew that she understood her, and whose love touched the heavens and the earth, and had the power to cross the wilderness and come into being to the sun.
What kind of marriage you choose, what kind of lover you choose, what kind of life you choose.
Appreciate each other so that you can easily spend the rest of your life
Mr. Xu Zhimo once said:
"At least once in a lifetime, for someone to forget yourself, not to seek results, not to seek peers, not to have, not even to ask you to love me,
I just want to meet you in my most beautiful years. ”
At the age of thirteen, Yunniang met Shen Fu, the love of her life, in the most beautiful years, but when she first saw it, Shen Fu fell in love with her, and when she returned home, she said to her mother, "I will not marry Yun in this life." ”
Five years later, the two got married as they wished, and on the night of the candle in the cave, the two reunited like friends, looked at each other and laughed, and discussed "West Chamber" together. The white head is as new as ever, and the cover is as old as ever.
The days after marriage, although poor, are sweet and happy.
In the old days of Jiangnan, the city was full of flowers, coarse tea and light rice, hand in hand. "In your spare time, stand with you at dusk, and smile in front of the stove and ask if the porridge is warm."
In my opinion, they had a time when all the couples in the world envied.
Yunniang was initially restrained, in order not to let his wife suffocate, Shen Fu always made her happy, and gradually became cheerful.
In this love, they are like-minded and equal.
Yunniang wrote such poems as "Autumn invades the shadows of people thin, frost dyes chrysanthemums fat", and Shen Fu appreciates her talent. Yunniang embroidered shoes, Shen Fu praised her fertile orchid heart.
Get a good person, your every action, every action, is what I like, you are the best look, for a woman, how rare.
Especially in the era of the Qing Dynasty, when men were superior to women, there were not many men who could appreciate their wives. Even in the open-minded modern era, there are many men who can't do this.
Therefore, Yunniang is lucky to meet her husband who knows how to appreciate her.
Wen class on poetry, taste the moon to evaluate tea, they turned the days of chai rice oil and salt into a vision of spring flowers and autumn moon.
That's the best thing love looks like:
"Softly chant a love word, write a love painting, bloom a love flower, cover a piece of green tile, drink a cup of tea,
Study a bowl of green sand, pull up a veil, see the crescent moon in the sky, love is like ink and blue flowers, why be afraid of the moment. ”
The real charm of love lies in mutual appreciation and mutual admiration, and lovers are like beacons in each other's eyes, guiding each other forward and hand in hand to the other side of happiness.
When people who love each other look at each other, there is light in their eyes. The scenery is in the eyes of the other party, and the heavens and the earth are not as good as the arms of the lover.
Only by perfecting each other can we work together to cross the mountains and ravines
Shen Fu likes to collect broken paintings, and Yunniang loves to collect old books. Shen Fu liked Du Fu, and Yunniang liked Li Bai.
Shen Fu likes to fish, and Yunniang accompanies her to the river to watch the sunset. Shen Fu likes to drink, and although Yunniang is not strong enough to drink, she also accompanies her to drink a few drinks.
Shen Fu is hospitable, Yunniang will study cooking, vegetables, fruits, fish and shrimp once cooked by Yunniang, it has a good taste.
Shen Fu has always been poor, and Yunniang sold herself for her husband to exchange for wine and drink, fulfilling her husband's idea.
Shen Fu loves to drink tea, and Yunniang uses lotus leaves to make tea for him to drink, sweet and delicious, ingenious.
Shen Fu, as a man, was not tied up in red tape, in order to complete Yunniang, Shen Fu found his own clothes, let Yunniang dress up as a man, and took her out of the house to watch the lights together in Suzhou City.
It was her love for her wife.
The two are perfecting each other and changing each other.
Yunniang likes to make rice with tea, accompanied by stinky milk rot and shrimp brine melon, and Shen Fu is "the worst of these two things for the rest of his life", so he ridicules Yunniang.
Unexpectedly, over time, Shen Fu's preferences will also change because of his wife, and he sighed, "The beginning of evil and the end of good, the reason is incomprehensible." Yunniang replied, "The love of love is not ugly." ”
Two people who love each other together are nothing more than to complete each other, to accommodate each other, to seek the same and to save the small differences.
Shen Fu does not like to eat stinky curd milk and shrimp and melon, but he can watch his wife eat around, and is willing to endure the taste he does not like for his wife, which is for true love.
And Shen Fu was slowly changed by Yunniang, and liked her preferences, which can be described as loving Wu and Wu, which is the embodiment of the depth of love.
There is a girlfriend who has complained about her husband, the girlfriend likes to write brush words, the husband feels that the ink smells bad, the girlfriend likes to play the piano, the husband hates the silk bamboo and messes up the ears, let her not play at home.
Over time, the two people also became estranged.
Many couples eventually break up because they can't complete each other, blindly ask each other to do things according to their own preferences, and finally break up unhappily.
Two people have walked together through a lifetime, where is it so smooth?
Love is altruistic, and in the process of working hand in hand to cross the mountains and ravines, only by embracing each other and considering each other can we reach the end.
As long as they have the courage to complete each other, two people can fight against thousands of troops and horses, no matter how high the mountain they encounter, how wide the sea, they can get by, as long as the love is still there, the mountains and seas can be leveled.
Only by understanding each other can we reach the other side of happiness
"The acquaintance of people is valuable in knowing each other, and the knowledge of people is in the knowledge of the heart."
Shen Fu and Yunniang can go far, not only relying on the original intention of love at first sight, but a high degree of spiritual fit.
Two people together, in a dull life, also need a little surprise and small romance to put on. Your romance, just I know how to appreciate.
On the day of the marriage, Shen Fu saw that Yunniang was emaciated, learned that Yunniang was vegetarian, and after asking about the date, Shen Fu could calculate that it was because he had chicken pox Yunniang that she was vegetarian, indicating that Shen Fu was delicate and was extremely attentive to Yunniang.
Yunniang is afraid that her in-laws are lazy and lazy, and gets up early every day to take care of housework, Shen Fu is also very understanding, giving up the bed for her, and also getting up early to accompany Yunniang, inseparable.
The feelings of the two have not faded because of time, and when they meet indoors or narrow-circuit encounters at home, they will also hold hands and greet each other, and they will be affectionate.
On the Tanabata Festival, the two of them arranged the melons and fruits together in the "I Take Xuan" near the water, they sat side by side, looking at the bright colors and enjoying the river scenery, and Shen Fu also specially carved the stamp of "Wishing to live as husband and wife in the next life".
During the Mid-Autumn Festival, Shen Fu took Yunniang to canglang pavilion, spread blankets in the pavilion, sat on the ground, and enjoyed the lake light and moon shadow in the evening breeze.
Together, the two of them watched the flowers blossom and fall, the clouds cirrus and the clouds, and enjoyed the full moon and the lack of the tide, which can be described as a god and immortal couple.
A person's life cannot be smooth, and Yunniang's life is no exception.
Shen Fu went to Haining with his father, and Yunniang ghostwrote a letter, and the mother-in-law suspected that Yunniang's narrative in the home letter was inappropriate, and did not let Yunniang ghostwrite it;
The father-in-law suspected that Yunniang was lazy, but Yunniang said that she would not let Shen Fu defend herself.
He offended his mother-in-law for taking concubines for his father-in-law, and because his uncle made a guarantee, he was angry and had to move out of the Shen family.
Shen Fu has never abandoned, heartache Yunniang, accompanied by her side, considerate her bitterness and pain, a confidant in her life, I think, Yunniang can finally be blind.
In love, the most touching words are not that I love you but that I understand you.
Understand your romance, understand your bitterness, understand your joy, understand your sorrow, understand your every look, understand your little stubbornness and your pretense to be strong.
You know my joys and sorrows, I know your joys and sorrows, you know my implications, I understand your desires and words.
Such a heart-to-heart love, how unattainable it is.
One room, two people, three meals, four seasons.
This is the simple happiness of Shen Fu and Yunniang, mutual appreciation, mutual fulfillment, and mutual understanding.
Because I understand, I cherish it.
"Only when you understand the heart can you resonate spiritually; only when you know how to care, there is heartache in companionship; you know how to cherish, and there is eternity in love."
Floating like a dream, for the joy of geometry.
Click "Looking", may each of us find our own love in the complicated world, and taste the precious happiness in the chai rice oil and salt.
That person, idle time with you to stand at dusk, in front of the stove laughing and asking porridge can be warm, through the four seasons, years and years, no matter when you look back, the lover shallow smile Yanran.
Author | Tea ink, tea is also intoxicating why drink, ink can be fragrant I do not need flowers. Record life with words, and decorate life with pen and ink.
Column Director | Come slowly
Typography | Zheng to the north
Music | Lin Hai's Pipa Language
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