The past 2021 has been an extraordinary year, the epidemic is still not over, and people's lives are not fully back on track.
In recent years, the epidemic has completely changed our way of life, but looking back, we have grown, harvested, and warmed.
Many people are working hard in difficult days, just to let the epidemic end as soon as possible, it is they who shine the road ahead and give us the courage to chase happiness.
As Luo Zhenyu said in his "Friend of Time" speech:
"A small fulcrum in the human heart can hold up a big lever that pries the world." What supports us is not only poetry and distant places, but also the daily life around us. ”
Sometimes, people's happiness is supported by these small things that are within reach around them.
Happiness is hidden in everyone's life.
Happy people are all similar, and they tend to have these three characteristics.
There is a sentence in the "Little Window" that says:
"Don't be shocked, watch the flowers blossom and fall before the court; go to stay unintentional, and look at the clouds in the sky."
Life is full of wind and rain, and only those who are rich in their hearts can not be swayed by temporary honor and humiliation.
There is such a hermit in the Chinese literary world, who has had ups and downs in his life, but he has never forgotten the pursuit in his heart, he is Mu Xin.
Mu Xin is a rich young master in Wuzhen, Jiangnan, and in the war-torn years, he gave up his family's rich life and went to the Mogan Mountains in the barren mountains and mountains to live in seclusion and create.
Outside the window, the cold wind is cold, and the wooden heart in the house reads, draws, writes, listens to music, wanders in the world of art and talks with great people, and builds an inner world that is richer than gold and jade food.
Such a person, whether he has achieved fame or is in prison, can live freely.
Later, in the years when the Muxin family fell and the mud and sand fell, he drew black and white piano keys on paper to play music, and wrote down prison notes with warm words, creating a peaceful heart for himself.
In his life, Mu Xin has experienced prosperity and hardships, but he has always lived a life of books, paintings and music.
People with abundant hearts, let you wind and frost rain and snow, have their own mountains and rivers and the sun and the moon in their hearts.
"In the past, I would only enjoy the sunset of the long river, but after I became rich, I would also appreciate the flowing water of the small bridge.
In the past, I only longed for success and fame, but after becoming rich, I also longed for poetry and distant places. ”
A person's heart can flourish or be desolate.
The American writer Thoreau chose to stay away from the hustle and bustle in the great era of being trapped by materialism.
In those days when he lived alone on the shores of Walden Lake, he watched the breeze and the bright moon as a companion, grew grain and vegetables, boated on the lake, and watched the perch swim.
The days were simple, but Thoreau could feel his heart peacefully.
I like a quote from the writer Mader:
"The world seems to be noisy all around, but it is essentially your own world. If you are clear, the world will be clean. If you are simple, the world is difficult to be complex. ”
Once upon a time, we were so hungry for outside recognition.
After seeing the prosperity of the world, I finally found that happiness had nothing to do with them.
You don't have to live as a scenery in the eyes of others, and the calm and calm of the heart is the most important.
I've seen a question like, "How can I live a better life?" ”
A gaozan replied like this: "People who love life, what kind of life, she can live a lively life." ”
Living a poetic life and living a life as a pleasure is not only an attitude, but also an ability.
Shen Fu and Yunniang are such people, Shen Fu has not been rich and noble in his life, but he has never forgotten to seriously manage his life.
Shen Fu was thrown out of his house to live in his friend's residence temporarily, the light of the house was too dark, he used white paper to paste the wall, and the house immediately became bright.
Without money to build a garden, he picked up the rockery in the mountain, planted white ping, planted adzuki, and the small bonsai was also beautiful.
In order to make the drinking snack more exquisite, Yunniang designed a plum box, which can contain six kinds of dishes, and put it on the desk like a plum blooming.
In the summer month, when the lotus flowers first bloomed, Yunniang put the tea leaves in the lotus buds, and then brewed them with the steamed rain the next day, and the tea was wonderfully fragrant.
An elegant and poetic life does not require too much material support, but a state of mind that loves life whether it is good or bad.
Guo Wanying, the most dazzling celebrity of the Republic of China, is a representative, she was born in the Shanghai nobility and lived a life of a famous lady since she was a child.
Later, when her family suffered a change, she needed to do all kinds of clumsy and dirty physical work, but she still maintained a heart that loved life.
Without a steamer, she used a lunch box to steam cakes; without an oven, she would bake toast with briquettes; without a tea set, she used a rice bowl for afternoon tea.
Guo Wanying can always see the beautiful side of suffering life and tells her children: "This is what people look like when they are alive." ”
I once saw a sentence like this in a book:
"We must tap the good from the things that are commonplace on weekdays, so that we can enjoy life calmly and calmly."
People who love life can always find a beam of light and a touch of poetry in the trivialities of life.
The same day can live a different mood, the same time can have a different mood.
They can knead poetry into chai rice oil and salt, and they can also feel different happiness between coarse tea and light meals.
I don't know if you have noticed such a phenomenon:
When applying for a job, HR tends to favor job seekers who look decent;
No matter where it is, the person with a good image is always the focus of attention;
Walking on the road, we will also unconsciously look at people with exquisite appearances.
Whether we like to admit it or not, the world needs to look at the face after all.
I have seen such a passage: taking people by appearance is actually very fair, the expression hides the state of mind, the eyebrows can know the past, the clothing reflects the aesthetics, and the temperament can know the personality.
People who tend to have a good image are more likely to be treated well and have more opportunities.
In one such experiment, researchers asked the same girl to go to the street in a different image to ask for directions.
When girls appeared in a scruffy image, most of them were perfunctory and pointed in the direction.
However, when the girl asked for directions in a delicate image, the passers-by were obviously much more patient when pointing the way.
Behind a person's image is an attitude towards life.
There was a friend who was very concerned about her own image, and she did not allow herself to become fat, not allow herself to be sloppy, and not allow herself to have bad skin.
Whenever I see her, I always wear the right clothes, paint appropriate makeup, and always appear in the best condition.
Later, in the process of negotiating a contract with a senior executive, there was a sudden accident and her clothes were soiled.
Only to see that she did not hurry to take out the spare professional suit from the suitcase, skillfully defused the crisis, and thus won the trust of her boss and the favor of customers.
Her client put it this way:
"A person who pays attention to any detail that affects the image must also be good at discovering the details of the work." Such partners are trustworthy. ”
In this way, she was able to navigate the workplace with ease, and it didn't take long for her to be promoted.
Image is a kind of patience and self-discipline of time, which is the accumulation of thick and thin precipitation in the years.
Note that image is not a whim to learn makeup and dressing, we also need to remember to pay attention to our skin in our daily lives.
After a day's work, taking a hot shower and lying down on the bed with ease and applying a mask has become our skincare routine.
A mask can draw an exclusive 30-minute "happiness time period" in the impetuous life.
In this time of beauty, we can also do some small beautiful things:
It's nice to go to a book, listen to two songs, or even simply empty and meditate.
Just like a sentence in Luo Zhenyu's speech "Friends of Time":
"Such small things make us feel very good to ourselves, and they also become another psychological support for us to face the world, so that we can move to the next stage."