"Six Memories of Floating Life": Living with people who are comfortable with each other is the best marriage

At that moment, Yunniang was gone.

There is no longer a "twilight with you in your spare time, laughing in front of the stove and asking if the porridge is warm".

Shen Fu was unaccompanied and heartbroken, so he wrote this hatred and thousands of thoughts about it in this book.

This is the love story of Shen Fu and Yunniang - "Six Memories of Floating Life".

First, all encounters in the world are the fulfillment of Providence.

Time back to 1763 AD, that is, more than 200 years ago in Suzhou.

Thirteen-year-old Shen Fu and his mother went back to his grandmother's house and met her.

Only to see her shoulders shaved long, thin and not explicit, eyebrows bent and beautiful, Gu Pan Shenfei.

She is Yunniang, the daughter of Shen Fu's uncle, and the two little unsuspecting people meet today, which makes Shen Fu unable to let go.

Shen Fu immediately said to his mother, "If you choose a wife for your children, you will not marry a sister who is not a lady."

Some people say, "All encounters in the world are providence," and fate is so wonderful.

The mother also liked Yunniang's gentleness and obedience, so she immediately took off the gold ring and concluded a marriage contract.

Time is fast, they meet again, and in the blink of an eye it has been five years, that is, when the two are married.

After the acacia drink, sit side by side, Qingqing me and me, the cave room flower candles, do not know the east is white.

Second, dare to let go, is the real love

A month of brief marital pleasure is followed by separation.

Shen Fu received a letter from his father, and he wanted to go to the Shogunate as soon as possible to plot things, and the return date was uncertain.

Yunniang packed her bags for her husband, she did not give up, but she understood that she could not indulge in willfulness, she understood that staying together was only the beginning of feelings, and daring to let go was the real love.

Before leaving, she forced a smile on her husband and said, "No one is in charge, go to your heart."

At this moment, just like Liu Yong of the year, "holding hands and looking at each other with tears in his eyes, he was speechless and choked", "This past year, it should be a beautiful scenery of good times, even if there are a thousand styles, let alone who to say."

These thousands of words, countless tears are condensed in the sentence "No one cares, go through the heart".

After the separation, Shen Fu was also a soul that did not guard the house, "such as the forest birds are lost, the heavens and the earth are different, every day is also the scenery of the people, the dream soul is reversed", so that the difference between March is like ten years apart.

Third, each other's fulfillment will make love last

As a literati and scholar, Shen Fu often drank and tasted poetry with Yunniang, and tasted flowers in the moon.

Shen Fu liked Du Fu, saying that "Du Fu's poetry is the great achievement of poets, and the scholars are many sects", and Yunniang likes Li Bai, saying that he "has a kind of fun of falling flowers and flowing water, which is cute";

Shen Fu likes to fish, and Yunniang accompanies her to the river to watch the sunset and sunset;

Shen Fu likes to drink, and although Yunniang is invincible, she will also accompany her to drink a few drinks...

In order to fulfill his wife's liveliness of the Narcissus Temple, Shen Fu found his own clothes, dressed his wife as a man, and went together. The two swung around in Suzhou City, flowers and lights, Baoding incense floating, the temple people came and went, met acquaintances to ask each other, they replied that this is their cousin, Yunniang is also naughty, learning to return the salute with a man's appearance.

Yunniang likes to make rice with tea, likes to eat mustard marinated curd milk, shrimp brine melon, Shen Fu was very disgusted at first, said "these two things are the worst in the rest of their lives", but under the guidance of Yunniang, slowly also liked, commenting on the shrimp brine melon said "seems to feel crisp and beautiful, open nose and then chew, even into a foreign body, since then also like to eat."

This is his wife's love for him, and it is also his love for his wife.

The two completed each other and changed each other, so all the cumbersome chai rice oil and salt turned into spring flowers and autumn moons.

Fourth, mutual understanding can go to the other side of happiness

The reason why Shen Fu and Yunniang went far, in addition to love at first sight, is also a high degree of spiritual fit.

Your romance, just I understand, your words, just I understand.

On the wedding night, Shen Fu saw that Yunniang was still as thin as before, and learned that she had insisted on fasting for several years, and the reason why Yunniang did this was because of her own chicken pox, which made Shen Fu deeply moved and remembered.

Yunniang was worried that her in-laws said that the bride was lazy, sorted out the housework every day, cleaned up everything in an orderly manner, honored her in-laws, and was kind to the younger generations, Shen Fu got up early with them, and the two of them were grinding and inseparable.

On the Qixi Festival, Yunniang laid out incense candles and melon fruits, and Shen Fu worshiped the Vega actress in the "I Take" Xuan, the two sat side by side, lightly fanned, watching the waves in the river like practice, Shen Fu also specially carved the stamp of "May life be a husband and wife", Yunniang said, "I don't know if today's world, there is also such a love between the two of me."

The two of you and me, as the candle embers sink, withdraw the fruit and go back to bed, so unhappy.

During the Mid-Autumn Festival, Shen Fu thought that Yunniang had been married for half a year and had not yet been to the Canglang Pavilion next door, so he was ready to take her once, and they took a blanket and spread it in the pavilion, and everyone sat on the ground.

At this moment, the wind is born at the bottom of the sleeve, the moon is in the heart, the common worries are dusty, the relief is refreshing, and the pleasure of traveling is enjoyable.

The two can be described as gods and immortals, envious of others.

Fifth, accept the ups and downs of life, laugh at life

No one can go smoothly, and Yunniang is no exception.

Shen Fu went to Haining with his father, and Yunniang ghostwrote a letter, but the mother-in-law suspected that Yunniang's narrative in the home letter was inappropriate and did not allow ghostwriting;

So the father-in-law suspected that Yunniang was lazy, and Yunniang had no complaints and did not let her husband explain;

He offended his mother-in-law for his father-in-law's concubine, and then made a guarantee for his uncle, which caused his father-in-law to move away from the Shen family in anger.

But Shen Fu has never abandoned, heartache Yunniang, accompany her, understand her heartache and pain, get this husband in her life, Yunniang is also blind when she dies.

Sixth, floating like a dream, know how to cherish

Yunniang's words before her death made people cry.

"Remembering the concubine singing with twenty-three years, the king is wrongly loved, and all the people are sympathetic, do not abandon them with stubbornness, know themselves as kings, and have a son-in-law like this, and the concubines have no regrets in this life!" If the cloth is warm, the vegetables and rice are full, the one-room Yongyong, the youyou spring stone, such as the Canglang Pavilion and the Xiao Shuang Building, are really fireworks gods.........";

"A hundred years of life, in the end of death." Now that the Middle Way is separated from each other, it is impossible to finally serve the broom and witness Feng Sen marrying a woman, and this heart is really geng geng."

How can the last sigh of a lovely woman who is traditional and advocates freedom, kind and affectionate, not be moved?

"Because I understand, I cherish it."

However, we will no longer see the lady who "stands with you at dusk in idle time, and smiles in front of the stove and asks if the porridge is warm".

7. Write at the end

Li Bai said, "Floating like a dream, for the joy of geometry?" ”

Yes, life is like a dream, count how many happy times there are, but it is just a big dream.

Since life is short, I wish that everyone can find their own love in the complicated society, and find her who "stands with you at dusk in his spare time, and smiles in front of the stove and asks for porridge to be warm".