Li Bai once wrote, "The one who is the master of heaven and earth, the anti-journey of all things; the one who is time and yin, the guest of hundreds of generations." And floating like a dream, for the joy of geometry? This was a sigh that Li Bai let out in the face of the long time and space. Shen Fuhua of the Qing Dynasty used the sentences in it to name his articles after the "Six Records of Floating Life", and he recorded the bits and pieces of life with the daily life of the husband and wife of "Heavenly Happiness".
A "Six Memories of Fusheng", some people saw the romance and beauty of their love, and someone in modern times created the song "Sending Yun" according to the bits and pieces recorded in the "Six Memories of Fusheng", one of which was "No one stood with me at dusk, no one asked me porridge to be warm" caused a strong resonance.
Some people are touched by their "idle quiet place, and the poetry and wine are rampant, singing a song before it is too late to return, and the song is a tune of the lake and the sea", and envy their interest in ordinary life. Some people read out the hardships of life and see the joys and sorrows of life from the ups and downs of the second half of their lives.
Through the author's warm and romantic memories we see a nearly perfect Yunniang, Lin Yutang said that she was "the most lovely woman in the history of Chinese literature", and said "who does not want to marry her", Yunniang is intelligent, when she first learns to speak, she can recite "Pipa Line", and when she is thirteen years old, she has such verses as "Autumn invades the shadows of people thin, frost stains chrysanthemums fat".
Shen Fu admired her talent and thoughtlessness, and swore that she would not marry. Yunniang not only knows poetry, but also embroiders and makes clothes. Pick up a small rock on the ground at will, and you can use it to pile up a pot of rockery. When making bonsai, you can also add specimens of small insects, which is more realistic. When the summer heat is compelling, the skillful Yunniang can use vines to make a living screen, which can not only cover the sun with the wind, but also have green shade to fill the window. Any melon, vegetable, fish and shrimp, through the hands of Yunniang, has an unexpectedly good taste.
Shen Fu likes to party with literati and scholars, Yunniang picks the season when the rape flowers are in full bloom, hires someone to pick up the burden and bring the fire, cooks tea and warm wine for them to cook, this dry person is wearing the fragrance of flowers, blowing warm wind, bathing in the spring sun, drinking wine and drinking tea is too happy. In order to satisfy Shen Fu's hobby of drinking small wine, Yunniang specially created a plum blossom box, six plates, five around the middle one, the bottom cover has a concave edge, there is a handle on it, and the box is placed on the desk, just like the ink plum covered on the table, two or three confidants can eat.
Such a wise woman, rare in the world, she tries her best to create a comfortable living environment for her husband Shen Fu, so the wife is so, the husband should do her best to give her a decent life, in order to be worthy of her virtuousness, but what kind of living environment does Shen Fu provide for her?
Shen Fu is of course versatile, but he is poor and depressed, he ignores the meritorious name, has no intention of career, has taboos when gathering with friends, avoids talking about official promotions, avoids talking about official current affairs, and avoids talking about eight shares of Shiwen, which is a bit like Jia Baoyu in the dream of the Red Chamber, but he does not have the strong family behind Jia Baoyu as a support, life is quite poor, when the party drinks, you also need Yunniang to sell the plutonium on her head to have the cost of selling wine. Cao Xueqin also wrote in the dream of the Red Chamber that "my cousin's eyebrows are not as good as the skirts" and blamed herself, I don't know if Shen Fu was calm and happy in his heart when he watched Yunniang sell her own rings, and whether he felt a little guilty?
When Shen Fu asked her father to write a letter to her father-in-law on behalf of her mother-in-law, it triggered a small gossip, and Yunniang no longer wrote letters for her in order to take care of her mother-in-law's emotions, thus offending her father-in-law. When Shen Fu asked Yunniang to find a concubine for her father-in-law, she completely offended her mother-in-law, disgusting her father-in-law, and soon because of a small excuse, Yunniang was driven out of the house.
After being expelled from their homes, they could only live in a friend's house, and Shen Fu could not make a living, so he had to open a calligraphy and painting shop in the temporary home, but three days of income could not cover the expenses of one day. In the middle of winter, Yunniang, who was wearing a single dress and shivering and coughing up blood, no longer spent medical money in order to save expenses, and even insisted on embroidering people with illness to earn money to supplement the family, and the tired Yunniang added the problem of waist acid and dizziness. After several days of tiredness, Yunniang's life has been unable to take care of herself, and what is worse is that Shen Fu gave people a guaranteed loan, and as a result, the borrower fled with money, and Yunniang and Shen Fu were saddled with debts.
Every time I read this, I always think of a sentence to describe Shen Fu as "a useless student", he not only can't support his family, but also often adds chaos. The family is poor, don't call friends to drink and drink tea, the family has no money, you should find a way to supplement the family, how can you put the burden of the family on the head of this weak woman. Especially for friends, lack of judgment, beyond their own ability, to others to make a guarantee, gratuitously provoke a body of debt.
He gave Yunniang a life, not only poor, but also need to live in hiding in Tibet, poor Yunniang dragged her sick and weak body, and on the fifth day, she wore thin clothes to the country friend's house to hide debts.
The woman is afraid of marrying the wrong man, Yunniang is the one who married the wrong one, although she is very satisfied with the love that Shen Fu gave her, and she will be husband and wife in the next life, but the beauty of love cannot hide from the reality of chicken feathers. Love is not only the embellishment of the wind and snow, but also the daily need of chai rice oil and salt.
In poverty and helplessness, they sent their daughters to other people's homes as child bridesmaids, married a person who knew that they would not be a tool, and their son went to work for people at a young age.
In the midst of the upheavals, Shen Fu realized how important money was for a family to better maintain, he realized a little late, all he could do was find his brother-in-law to borrow money. But he painstakingly borrowed money to get home, Yunniang was already terminally ill, advised him not to do ineffective waste, "wisdom will be deep, deep love is not longevity", in love, Yunniang only said a sentence "In the next life..." and then passed away.
As the author said, although Yunniang is a woman, she has the mind and talent of a man, and after marrying him, he is only busy running for food and clothing every day, and he is always short of money. Yunniang also left because she was short of clothes and food, working hard for days and had no money to treat her illness. Although Shen Fu's heart ached to the point of "a lone lamp, no relatives, empty hands, and heartache to pieces", was not the driving force behind the Tragedy of Yunniang caused by Shen Fu?
Although in love, people like to pursue spiritual purity, the economic base determines the superstructure, and romantic love, which is divorced from the material basis, is destined to be sad. Behind the veil of romantic warmth, fusheng six memories show the cruelty and truth of life.