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Recently, there is a popular saying on the Internet: "So love will disappear, right?" ”
The helplessness of life is that some people scatter when they walk, and some love disappears when they love...
When a man completely lets go of a relationship, no matter how vigorous it has been, he will have the following performances.
At this time, instead of struggling and pestering, it is better to let go and complete each other!
No blocking, no contact
In a relationship, the opposite of love is not hate, but indifference.
Therefore, those who have broken up but "hold a grudge" have not actually let go of each other.
As someone said:
"Blackening a person is because you can't put it down, and there is hatred in it;
Delete a person because it is too cold and there are grievances in the heart. ”
And the real letting go is to no longer have expectations, no longer with hatred, and no longer have unwillingness.
Even if you still retain the other party's communication method, you will no longer call or send WeChat.
It's not that you don't want to contact, but you really don't want to contact.
Therefore, it does not matter whether to delete or not to delete, and whether to pull black or not.
Don't love anymore, so don't care anymore;
Put it down, so it doesn't matter anymore.
Like a lyric in the song "Let Go":
"Heaven and earth, rivers and lakes, sun and moon, do not stay, do not read, do not speak."
Since then, one and two wide, do not disturb each other.
Don't miss, don't bother
Someone said:
"The real end of a relationship doesn't start the moment you two say you're going to break up.
But suddenly one day, you find that you will never think of him again, and the relationship is really over. ”
Deeply.
If a man still loves that woman, even if he breaks up and deletes each other, he will always remember her in his heart and want to know her recent situation and everything about her.
And whenever the night is quiet, he can't help but recall the scenes that happened in the past, and his heart will be full of sorrow and mixed feelings because of his thoughts.
But if he really puts it down, he will no longer remember, no longer miss, and his heartstrings will not fluctuate because of the other party's smile.
Even if he overhears you from a mutual friend, he won't show great interest and enthusiasm.
Because he has adapted, adapted to life without you, and you have become his passer-by.
No expectations, no looking back
Someone asked:
"At what moment do you think you really let go?"
One of the answers goes something like this:
"When I stopped expecting from my previous relationship and could love someone generously, I knew I was letting go."
Yes, it is often seen in life that some men can't let go of the past after breaking up.
Although she had to leave her, she still had expectations, thinking that maybe one day, the woman would be able to change her mind and come back to him again.
So, he sealed his heart, didn't accept the love of other women, and just foolishly waited for her to come back.
But once this man no longer has expectations and no longer has illusions, it is the beginning of his choice to let go.
In his heart, he will not look back when he lets go, he will leave the position of love in his heart to a new love, to accept a new lover.
For the rest of your life, you are you, he is him, each has his own life, each has its own joy.
As the saying goes, loving someone cannot be hidden.
In fact, it is not love.
Men who have put you down, these manifestations are usually obvious.
Therefore, women should learn to look away, learn to be strong, may wish to sort out the broken mood, but also try to let go of the past.
After all, only by bravely letting go of the past can we gain a new life!
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Author: Yue Yue
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