Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Life is not easy, sadness and joy are mixed, fortunate and unfortunate often go together!
Each of us, walking on the trajectory of our own lives, is not willing to be bound by all negativity.
Therefore, when we are moving forward the road of life, in order to retain more warmth for ourselves, we always strive to look up and face the sun.
Thinking that in this way, the shadow part behind us, we will not care too much!
However, we are ordinary people, laughing when happy, crying when sad, effortlessly looking up to enjoy the sun when relaxed, and having to bow our heads and endure the cold brought by the shadows when stress is too heavy!
We can't always be in the smooth flow of the sun.
When we are beaten by reality, because of the pain, we can only curl our bodies weakly, in order not to expose our own pain, and the enemy is fast, we can only lick our wounds in a long night!
This life is really too hard! Often luck is an accident, misfortune is the norm! Although the sun is good, you can only close your eyes to it!
As we get older, we seem to know more and more about what we want!
People often say that contentment is always happy, but the source of our increasing confusion is the word "greed".
When the cold window read hard, he thought of the word "retribution", and even threatened to exert the heat of his body no matter where he was in the future. Entering the workplace, but because of salary, interpersonal relationships, and promotions, I put the heat in my pocket safely and did not want to take it out.
Yes, there are always so many people who think about getting it before they give. It's just that it clearly includes you, me, and him, and none of us want to admit it!
At a certain age, I want to have a ta and a home in my heart. I thought that love was just you and me, lang love concubine. Later, in the trivial days, I saw that because of the different frequencies of thoughts, the inconsistencies in the three views, the ta did not understand me, I made ta tired, and I made a chicken feather...
Yes, love can not only be Qingqing me, but also tea rice oil and salt; home is two people who are good at business getting together, transmitting each other's warm and lonely perceptions, never just a nest.
In fact, we are all unsatisfied! So, we often feel unlucky!
In fact, we all don't know how to cherish! Therefore, after being irretrievable, I remembered the beauty of the past!
In fact, we don't know how to live the present well, so we often use past gains and losses, honor and disgrace to disturb the current restlessness, so that the present becomes the future past! In the cycle of repeated deaths, we let ourselves live with misfortune in this way!
Why do we always envy others? Because we are never willing to face our own problems to introspect ourselves, because we are only willing to see the amazing success of others, but we are not willing to face the efforts made by others.
For people or things, success and luck, there is always its inevitable process and reason.
No one is destined to open and hang away from life, nothing, destined to do which person, can just be solved!
The most difficult thing for people to live for a lifetime is not to face difficulties, but how to face themselves!
As a person, we all talk about honesty. However, many people do not know that honesty is more often to themselves!
When a person can be extremely honest in the face of himself, there is no obstacle that cannot be crossed!
Honestly accept your own strengths and flaws, be honest about your desires and failures... In this way, people will gradually mature in a deep self-knowledge and become a truly lucky person!
Luck is not given by objective people or things, but is self-sufficient!
Everyone has experienced a trough of helplessness, and even many people have been repeatedly troubled by negative emotions... Why?
That's because he's not really honest with himself.
After being honest with yourself, you will understand:
What is your own self-control, what is your firm grasp, what is your own as long as you go all out to participate and do not regret...
In fact, what is the specific luck or misfortune?
People live a lifetime, without shame and regret in the past, is the greatest salvation for themselves!
Be honest with yourself and you will understand that some sins are only worth it once. Knowing the answer, facing it frankly, accepting it frankly, and not tangled!
Along the way, everyone hopes that their life will be relatively smooth, but before they want to get such a consummation, they need to understand that the compulsory course to get lucky is actually three words:
Self-control!
Self-control is a sign of a person getting luckier, believe it or not:
Control yourself and don't love anyone too much
Love anyone and don't overload yourself enough to forget to leave yourself blank! Remember, when the water is full, it overflows!
In the relationship, love yourself before lovers, you can get the right person who really matches you!
Someone who doesn't know how to love himself won't be a professional output of the right love. Some people's encounters are robbery or fate, and they are not afraid of emotion, and they are afraid of continuing to consume themselves in the wrong people!
It is said that only those who know how to cherish are worthy of having, but only one person who knows how to cherish has never had a chance to have! Love, always a two-way rush to have meaning and a happy ending!
Control yourself and don't overestimate a relationship
Either it is the mutual entanglement of material interests, or the equivalent echo of spiritual comfort...
The relationship between people, apart from the condition of "equal exchange", is no relationship!
People, born lonely, are also doomed to a hundred years of loneliness! However, although everyone understands this truth, it is still inevitable to find a person who is compatible with themselves to drive away loneliness. However, when the exchange of "value" between people makes people's hearts unbalanced, it is the time when the relationship breaks down!
In particular, when interests are involved, the human heart and human nature will slap the mouth of the person who is convinced of a relationship!
When interacting with people, don't forget that each other is an individual with independent thoughts, do not impose your own ideas on others, and do not overestimate each other's relationship. Interact with each other and keep the right distance to make each other comfortable!
Control yourself and not over-amplify your grievances and misfortunes
Why are there so many people who have experienced something and always can't get out of the predicament? Is it really their pressure, too low? No!
In fact, everyone's ability to bear pressure is very large, but some people are unwilling to stimulate their ability to bear pressure, and amplify their grievances and misfortunes.
When a person excessively magnifies his grievances and misfortunes, his subconscious negates his ability to overcome difficulties. Therefore, in the midst of self-imposed obstacles, he "artistically" erected a tombstone for himself!
Therefore, he has been in his own tomb, self-pity!
Don't magnify your grievances, don't magnify your misfortunes, you'll be able to overcome emotions quickly! When a person is not enslaved by emotions, he can have his own sea of stars.
Control yourself, don't be lazy
People are always willing to enjoy the joy of success, not willing to bear the suffering in the process of success.
No one in the world has ever succeeded casually! When you are in a low valley, don't be discouraged, a person can't withstand the grind, he is not entitled to enjoy success!
Not all efforts in the world can succeed, but without effort, you will not succeed!
Hard work is to create opportunities for success. Hard work is to make your life without regrets!
Or, lazy to the end, don't read the past! Or, go all out and leave no regrets!
In this life, as long as people are down-to-earth and go all out, it is the greatest success!
A hundred years of life is a process of cultivation! Luck and success are a positive self-perception of a person's treatment of life! You are satisfied with the present, satisfied with having, you are lucky! Otherwise, you need to continue practicing in self-control!
Getting luckier and happier shows that the practice is constantly improving, and it is more and more self-controlling, indicating that the compulsory course of luck has truly understood the essence!
As above, encourage the King! For the rest of your life: May all things go well, wish to reach, and bless both!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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