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In this world, there is never a good feeling for no reason, and a relationship can go to the end, which is supported by things.
All those who can go to the end are more because of their own operation and maintenance. Good feelings have always relied on the efforts of both parties.
It is easy to love a relationship, it is difficult to get along, and it is natural to run into it if you want to go to the end. Especially in this fast-paced era, it is even more necessary for both sides to tolerate.
Two people living together, even if the feelings are good, there will be disputes and contradictions, there will be different cognitions and ideas, then it is necessary to treat them calmly.
Therefore, the feelings that can go to the end often have these qualities.
Be able to tolerate each other
In this world, there are no two people who really fit together, and some are mutually inclusive of each other. Even the best feelings will have contradictions and misunderstandings, which is the norm.
Feelings are something that is run-in, mutual understanding and tolerance, and naturally they will slowly understand each other's intentions.
It is said that two people together are composed of two semicircles, which finally converge into a circle, and in this process, the fit of both parties is required.
In the relationship, two people together for a long time will become flat, and even produce contradictions, may not have the original passion and freshness, but the more this time, the easier it is to test a relationship.
The really good feelings are not that there is no quarrel, but that when encountering problems, they can tolerate and accommodate each other, and they will not worry too much.
In fact, the most feared thing about feelings is that the other party is serious, so no matter how much sincerity is meaningless, love needs to be understood and tolerated, and more needs the efforts of both parties to operate.
The three views are roughly the same
Two people together, may start from the appearance at the beginning, but will fall into talent, loyal to character, and ultimately decide that the two people go down is more of each other's cognition and thoughts.
If the ideological gap between two people is too large, it is not a level at all, naturally there is no way to understand, and there is no way to get close.
The person who can really go to the end is because he knows the other person, knows what the other person wants, and identifies the other person himself.
For people who have different thoughts and cognitions, they will eventually disperse, because they cannot understand and cannot enter the other party's world.
Two people who can't understand can't go long, and they will contradict each other because of various small things, resulting in drifting away from each other.
Two people living together, the three views are very important, which determines your cognition and thinking about things, and also determines how far you can go. Only people with the same three views will get along tacitly.
They are evenly matched
A good relationship is never attached to the other party, but two people become better together. In this world, only equally matched love will last.
Love is a game, both sides must compete with each other in order to maintain a state of balance, once the feelings are out of balance, each other will not go long.
People rely on each other for commonality and mutual attraction. No matter how good the feelings, you also need to work hard to keep pace with the other party, so that there will be no gap.
You know, the greater the distance between two people, the farther away they are from each other.
You see those who come to the end are people who are excellent on both sides and can be evenly matched with each other.
The person who walks in front will throw off the person behind, and if you keep stagnating, then the distance between each other will become farther and farther away.
Therefore, the feelings that can really go to the end have always been the efforts and maintenance of both sides.
summary:
Feelings are never a matter for one person, but require the efforts of both parties. How far a relationship can go is more about how the two sides operate.
Good feelings are never one party to rely on the other, but both sides to progress together, get better together, and maintain together.
The reason why two people are together is to compete with each other and become a better one.