1. Some defects may seem insignificant and not worth mentioning when placed on others; however, if they are placed on oneself, they are difficult to look at lightly, and even for a lifetime.
2. If you have said or done something that hurts the hearts of others, you may forget it in the blink of an eye, and the things that others have said or done that hurt you are often remembered clearly and unforgivable for a lifetime.
3. When looking at other people's lives, we always like to magnify their happiness and ignore the unhappiness in their lives, so other people's lives feel happy no matter how they look at them. When looking at our own lives, people always like to shrink their happiness and expand their troubles, so we always have too much dissatisfaction with our lives.
4. We tend to laugh at others when they accidentally get ugly in public, and when the same situation arises in ourselves, we often can't get out of embarrassment for a long time.
5. When we see others succeed, we say that they are lucky; when they fail, we say that they do not work hard. When we succeed, we say it's the result of our own efforts; if we fail, we laugh at ourselves that it's all the fault of the environment.
6. Watching others fall in love and pick fat and thin, we secretly say that we don't know what we look like, and we are still picking and choosing there. When it was my turn to fall in love, I always felt that no one could be worthy of me.
7. Who will always be smooth? The shame of life does not lie in losing, but in inability to lose; the glory of life does not lie in never being able to serve, but in being able to rise again and again.
8. If you think too little, you may lose the dignity of being a human being; if you think too much, you will lose the joy of being a human being.
9. If you can gain without guilt, if you can lose without remorse, if you can gain without remorse, let it go.
10. Where the light is strong, the shadow is also relatively dark.
11. The only waiting in life that will not be disappointed is doomed to death, and the only thing in the world that remains unchanged is change.
12. The most difficult enemy to defeat is oneself; the most terrible enemy is the friend; the most invincible enemy is desire; the most deceptive enemy is feelings.
13. Life is an experience and an experience; life is a feeling and an accumulation. Life has no answers, and life doesn't need answers. When life is about to fall out of you, you will find that life is just a process, and no matter how complicated the process, the final outcome is the same. Life is about the process, not the ending.
14. The trick to struggling in life is to manage your strengths. Running your own strengths can add value to your life. Managing your shortcomings is bound to devalue your life.
15. Gain is a low-level happiness, and asking for nothing is a higher-level happiness.
16. A person who can speak is not someone who remembers what others have said, but who can say something that makes people remember.
17. In the nest of right and wrong, man uses his mouth, and I use his ear; in the lively field, man moves forward, and I lag behind.
18. You can also be impulsive, which means that you are still passionate about life, always impulsive, indicating that you do not understand life.
19. He who has never sinned against man is doomed to have deep friendship with him. Too much peace and calmness, but the loss of passion and frankness of being a person.
20. When misfortune strikes others, they are often able to comfort others like wise men, and when the same misfortunes come upon themselves, it is often difficult for them to enlighten themselves in the same way.
21. Don't waste your life, where you will regret it.
22. Don't mix arrogance in your wisdom. Do not make your modesty lack of wisdom.
23. People who often think that others are paying attention to you, or who want others to pay attention to you, will live a more troubled life.