Text/Dahui
Figure / Originated from the network, the infringement contact is deleted
Life will forge a person, but also change a person, we are all under the sweep of life, gradually growing, changing.
A person's fate has always been decided by ourselves, a person's early efforts, as well as the way of dealing with the world, directly determines the fate of the second half of her life, and how her fate is, but also invisibly affects the way this person behaves in the world, these are closely related.
Looking at a person, often do not need to go through much in-depth relationship, only need to contact her for a short period of time, you can make a general judgment of the person's situation, her words and deeds, are affected by the living situation.
A woman who has been nourished by happiness for a long time, her face is often full of red light, her mouth is a smile that cannot be hidden, she speaks softly, treats people gently and generously, and she does not see a trace of hostility in her body, and some are just enthusiasm for life.
On the contrary, a woman with an unfortunate life, her eyebrows are always shrugged, always looking listless. As soon as you open your mouth full of complaints and complaints, you don't need to stay with her for a long time, you just need to simply communicate with her, listen to her voice and tone, you can guess what her life situation is.
What kind of state a person is external can reflect her life on the side, and some characteristics are difficult to hide at all, which can be seen at a glance.
As soon as you open your mouth, you are full of complaints, and your speech is not listened to, and your temper will become very bad
The happiness and misfortune of a person's life can be fully seen through her mouth.
Those women who have been in misfortune for a long time, their hearts have long been polished by life full of negative energy, completely devoid of warmth and enthusiasm.
Just like Xiang lin's sister-in-law, she tells her grievances every time people, which makes people feel bored.
Wu Qian in the recent hit drama "The World of Man" also has such a performance, because her husband's family has repeatedly had a situation, resulting in a very poor living condition, so that her whole person has become a complaining woman, and every party always likes to say some complaining words, making the good atmosphere very stiff.
Cao Qiqiao in "The Golden Lock" is even more typical of this. She was born in a small family, although life is not very rich, but it is not miserable, at that time she was also a gentle and understanding woman.
Her life changed from marrying to jiang mansion, and her brother and sister-in-law married her to her husband with hypochondria for money. The people in the mansion also looked down on her, and in the long run, she became a person with a very bad temper, the whole person was completely filled with negative energy, and as soon as she opened her mouth, she complained about life, and her mouth was very vicious, so that the people around her were unwilling to get close and became a lonely person.
A woman with an unfortunate life, they will spread such misfortune to the outside world, get along with people, speak viciously, full of anger, it is difficult to communicate with people calmly.
Jealousy is strong and will pass this jealousy on attacks on those around you
Those who live happily are actually not much better off than others, but they know how to be happy and keep their eyes on their own lives, rather than always staring at the strengths of others, so as to complain about themselves and not see the sunshine in their own lives.
And those who live unfortunately, they will always stare at the lives of others, always can't help but envy others, once the people around them have a good life, they will be full of jealousy, and will infinitely enlarge this jealousy, passed on to the attack on others.
We must have met such people in our lives, and once someone has achieved a certain amount, they will be full of sour tones, full of jealousy, and dissatisfaction with their current situation.
Some people will transform this jealousy into their own motivation to move forward, forcing themselves to work harder, benchmarking the achievements of others and constantly improving themselves, such jealousy brings positive effects, while some people will turn this jealousy into negative energy, because jealousy becomes vicious.
They will spread some slanderous remarks behind their backs, take advantage of their words, and thus fill their own dirty hearts. They may even do something to hurt others because of jealousy.
Because of their own unfortunate life, so they can't see others well, don't allow others to live better than themselves, such a woman is like a sharp blade, at any time may stab you.
Getting along with people is preoccupied, and he is always full of defenses against the people around him
Those women who are wrapped in happiness, they always have a generous look, they are happy to share their joy with others, and they are willing to spread their warmth to the outside world and pass it on to the people around them.
They are always very gentle with people, especially to the people around them, but also unconditionally accept and give, helpful, not full of calculations, and will be very willing to bear, in the relationship with the people around them, will be very generous, take the initiative to bear some costs, when the people around them are in trouble, will take the initiative to help.
On the contrary, a person who has lived in the shadows for a long time will not want to bring warmth to others at all, but will be full of vigilance, distrust of everyone, be preoccupied with people, be too scheming, and will try to take advantage of others, but will not allow others to contaminate themselves.
We can understand that those who can't take care of themselves have no leisure to take care of others, but if they are always too calculating, then they are driving away the people around them with their own hands, and it is difficult to have the true feelings of the world in the end.
Women who live unfortunately will make their hearts become distorted, it is difficult to put themselves in the shoes of others, and people will become very selfish, just staring at their own interests, and will not care about others at all.
A person's living conditions can affect the way she behaves externally, that's for sure.
If her own life itself is very tight, then it will be very restraining and very picky to the outside world, and a person who is not nourished by love will also affect her getting along with others, and it is difficult to pass on the warmth to others.
It's just that sometimes we can't change the status quo of our lives, but we can change the way we live, be full of kindness and positive energy for life, and the mood of the whole person will become better.
And the way you treat life may also affect your life state in reverse, a person who complains about life for a long time will drive away good luck, as long as we are full of kindness to the world and do not give up on ourselves, life is likely to become better. And if you are completely overwhelmed by misfortune, you will end up eating its own consequences.