In fact, it is undeniable that contemporary chicken baby parents have lost their minds in terms of chicken baby tracks. Of course, the reason for this phenomenon is understandable, because as a parent of a chicken baby, their daily routine is to work (after all, they need to obtain funds to support the chicken baby), and start working at full speed. But a person's time and energy are very limited, which also means that the parents of the chicken baby have actually lost the right to think. Therefore, for chicken babies, what can be done is to follow the trend and continue to increase investment.
However, no matter how chicken baby, in the context of the general job diversion all over the world, there must be 50% or even more teenagers who are shunted to vocational education - you know, the general job diversion is a worldwide phenomenon, China only started the general job diversion after junior high school is actually very late, many Western countries, after the third grade of primary school began to be diverted.
And the existence of general job diversion also means that no matter how chicken the parents are, there will inevitably be a large number of chicken babies who will still be forced to go to high school in the future. So these parents are anxious about what the future holds.
1. Parental delusions
In fact, the greatest pain in life is to be ambitious, ambitious, unrealistic, and unwilling to face reality.
Many parents can't accept the objective fact that their children have failed in the high school entrance examination, but fantasize about all kinds of absurd ideas:
For example, some parents believe that the existence of vocational education is because the manufacturing industry needs to be maintained, so as long as the state bans the manufacturing industry, vocational education can be banned, so that you can lie down and go to university;
For example, some parents believe that their children are the center of the universe, and their children do not want to be workers, but want to be university professors and scientists, and some parents even intimidate the society, believing that if their children do not study in the general high school, it means that mankind will have one less scientist who will change the world, which is a loss for all mankind. Of course, this kind of crazy talk makes the editor feel funny;
- Some parents believe that it is still acceptable if the general job diversion is postponed until after the college entrance examination. But in fact, even if it is postponed to the college entrance examination, there will be parents who ask to postpone it until after graduating from college, the reason is very simple, because it is difficult for college students to find employment, and some parents of college students have begun to suggest that the college should be changed to a subject, so as to facilitate the employment of their children. After all, there are too many parents of chicken babies, and they belong to the kind that have no ability and do not admit defeat;
-- Some parents believe that there is a hidden conspiracy in the diversion of ordinary jobs, that is, they believe that the purpose of the diversion is to make the children of ordinary people lose the opportunity to enter the "upper class".
In short, the delusions of parents have also made this editor see the diversity of species in human society.
2. Face reality
In fact, as long as parents know how to think independently and face reality, they will not be in a state of blind anxiety.
Many parents are disgusted when they hear about vocational education, and when they hear about the diversion of the high school entrance examination, they think that the diversion deprives their children of the right to continue schooling. In fact, at present, 12-year education is already universal education - that is, even if you can't get into the general high school after graduating from junior high school, there are still vocational high schools, and vocational high schools also have cultural subjects. It is opened to take care of students who do not have a good academic level. After graduating from vocational high school, you can also study for a junior college or even a bachelor's degree, and continue to study for a master's degree or a doctorate. But even so, many parents choose to sprinkle — and even ask why the children of the elite of experts don't go to vocational high schools.
But in other words, when you questioned others, did you ever reflect on why you were so incompetent? can't arrange a bright future for your children, and force your children to become dragons and phoenixes? Don't be too shameless.
For those who can arrange a future for their children, they have the ability to let their children not go to vocational high school. You don't have that ability, and you still fantasize about pulling the children of other conditional families to have a starting line with you? Do you really use the college entrance examination as a platform for the rich second generation to compete with the grassroots?
I can only say that I think too much.