Jia Yun is a close descendant of Jia Fu, not young, growing to eighteen years old, not marrying relatives, no job, and dependent on his mother.
When he reached the age of making a living, Jia Yun wanted to find an errand in Jia Province, so that he had the foundation of a stable life, so he began a difficult job search.
Although Jia Fu has a big family and needs to do more things, which also needs more people to do things, but even so, it is not easy to find a job smoothly.
Jia Yun's job search path is not smooth, it can be described as a series of twists and turns, and this also allows us to see the sophistication of those hidden in life.
First, find the right person to get things done
Jia Yun first entered the workplace, just wanted to find a job, mother and son duo to live in this way, but because he could not find the way, so he walked a long detour.
He first asked Jia Lian to arrange an errand for him, and for many people, this road is not wrong. After all, Jia Lian's uncle Jia Zheng is now helping to take care of affairs, and in Jia Yun's view, he naturally has the power to arrange personnel in his hands.
But Jia Yun was too young after all, thinking that as long as Jia Lian responded, he would arrange some errand for him at will, and it was not a matter of words? But in fact, since Jia Lian married his relatives, many things in the family are not up to him.
According to Leng Zixing's words, since marrying Wang Xifeng, Second Master Lian has retreated a shot, that is to say, jia lian does not have the right to make decisions on many affairs of Jia Province. He can go to work, but to arrange things, he still has to Wang Xifeng.
Where can Jia Yun think of this, he looked for Jia Lian two or three times, and Jia Lian could not arrange a job for him.
Jia Yun is also a well-behaved person, when he came to Jia Lian again and asked what could be arranged for him, Jia Lian was not embarrassed, after all, Jia Yun begged him several times, but he could not do it, so he said that there was originally an errand, but wang Xifeng arranged for Jia Qin, and then gave it to him later.
This Jia Yun is not stupid, when he heard Jia Lian's words, it was not right, it turned out that Uncle Lian did not count what he said, so he did not speak until half a day. Here's what he said: If that's the case, I'll just wait. Uncle also does not have to come to the aunt now, mention that if I come to inquire today, it is not too late to say it again.
Jia Yun listened to Jia Lian's reply, why did he meditate on "half a day"? Because he suddenly realized at this time, it turned out that in the matter of arranging work, Jia Lian could not be the lord, and it was useless to find him many times, and it might be useless to directly find Wang Xifeng.
But to do this, you must first stabilize Jia Lian, and then quietly go to Wang Xifeng yourself, so that not only jia Lian's face is complete, but also you can successfully find an errand.
After some twists and turns, Jia Yun finally found an errand here with Feng Jie.
Facts have proved that if you want to run errands in Jia Province, you can't find Jia Lian, but you have to be Wang Xifeng. This is what we often say, find the right person to get things done.
Second, only when you are in distress can you see through people's hearts
Jia Yun heard the sound of the strings from Jia Lian's reply, and arranged to work to find Wang Xifeng, she is the real big boss, but asking for someone to do things, can not be empty-handed, especially this person is still Wang Xifeng.
But Jia Yun was penniless, and if he wanted to give gifts, he could only go to his uncle's spice shop to get some spices on credit, and then return him after he found a job.
To his surprise, his uncle not only did not buy into his situation, but in turn it was a lesson. Saying that he doesn't do serious things, he doesn't know what to do, even if he gives something on credit, he is also a fool.
Bu Shiren's attitude is very clear, he does not pay credit, nor can he do his own nephew, and he does not have money to think about it.
At this time, Jia Yun was at the trough of his life, he had no money, no job, not to mention others, even his own uncle looked down on him, it was really a hot world.
As the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and their own uncles "see death and do not save", but when the neighbor Ni Er heard about Jia Yun's experience, he did not say a word, he took out a bag of silver, and did not want Jia Yun to write a deed of arrears.
The vicissitudes of the sea show the true colors of heroes, and people know the length of their hearts and livers in difficulties. Ni Er's generosity and righteous help are in stark contrast to Bu Shiren's inaction.
On the one hand, his own uncle, on the other hand, there are not many close neighbors, but in the face of Jia Yun, whose life is at a low point and needs someone to pull a hand, the two react very differently.
At this time, Jia Yun must have mixed feelings in his heart, right? Speaking of the blood of the dearest relatives, in the end it is not as reliable as a neighbor who does not have much intersection.
Ni Er was a righteous man, heavy on character, and he trusted Jia Yun, so he looked up at him. And Bu Shiren is a villain who values profit over righteousness, you have no money, and your nephew is not good.
That sentence is well said, when you are proud, your friends know you; when you are in distress, you know your friends. For Jia Yun, when he was in distress, he had already seen through people's hearts.
Third, invest in what you do with half the effort
After Jia Yun borrowed silver from Ni Er, he bought musk and ice chips in the spice shop the next day, and then went to the RongGuo Mansion to find Wang Xifeng.
Here are two details, Jia Yun's uncle opened a spice shop, but after going to his uncle's credit, Jia Yun, who borrowed money, did not go to Bu Shiren's spice shop, and it was inevitable that he would be trained again, and it would be boring for himself.
Of course, he did not choose to send Wang Xifeng silver directly.
For Jia Yun, gift-giving must be thrown into his favor, Wang Xifeng is naturally not bad for Jia Yun's little money, and Jia Yun is a job seeker, directly sending money is not good, and Feng Jie is not good to receive.
Don't talk about money, if Jia Yun said that the spice was bought by himself to honor Wang Xifeng, it is not appropriate, after all, he has to ask for people, he not only wants to ensure that he can find a job, but also has to dispel some of Feng Jie's concerns, so that she does not feel that she is receiving gifts to do things.
Therefore, when Jia Yun saw Wang Xifeng, he did not say that these spices were bought by himself, but a friend who opened a spice shop gave it to him because he wanted to go to Yunnan, the shop was not open, and he kept it useless, so he thought of Lian Er's aunt.
This reason, for Wang Xifeng, naturally has no psychological burden, and she can accept this gift very calmly. In fact, with Sister Feng's shrewdness, can she not see the doorway in it, Jia Yun's intentions?
Gift-giving is also a science, this musk ice chip is not only precious, to fengjie such a figure, is to get their hands on, and at that time was before and after the Dragon Boat Festival, Jia Fu customs, every year this season to buy a lot of spices, it can be said that Jia Yun's spices sent well and timely.
In fact, gift-giving is only one of the things that Jia Yun likes, and being able to talk is the key to his favor. Jia Yun saw Wang Xifeng, and that exaggeration made Wang Xifeng smile on his face, and he was proud and happy, especially useful.
Wang Xifeng's prestige, Jia Yun naturally heard about it long ago. Strong people often do not exaggerate, but they must also pay attention to proportions, too much is false, too little is not hot enough, and from Wang Xifeng's reaction, Jia Yun is very good at pinching.
First of all, the mother and son said that the mother and son praised the feng sister's hard work and outstanding ability, "even the cuisine was thorough and complete", and said that the musk ice chips sent by these friends "only filial piety to the aunt is suitable, and it is not a waste of this thing." "Without these words, if you want to run an errand here with Wang Xifeng, do you think it's enough to give a gift?"
When it was time to send gifts, when it came to the heart, Jia Yun's work was naturally inseparable, and even he later became Wang Xifeng's right-hand man. These, for Jia Yun, who has just entered the workplace, are all people who are worth constantly pondering and learning.
Author: Xi Si Shao, this article is to read less of the original works of the Red Chamber.