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Introduction: Baiwei life, five truths, see through it!
First, the truth about life: There is no one who is not tired, after all, everyone has a difficult scripture.
Life is really hard, we just recognize it. No one's life is always smooth, and no one's life is not tired.
Tired is the normal state of life, this life truth, we can see through it.
Between heaven and earth, everyone has a difficult scripture to read. Some people look at the life bright and beautiful, but in fact, they are not happy, everywhere they have to look at the faces of others, and life is like walking on thin ice.
Some people pretend to be strong in front of others, but hide in the corner and cry behind their backs, some people think that they are married to rich people, but they still live a very humble life, and they still endure the possibility of cheating on each other, and they dare not resist for the sake of their children.
Some people stumble in life, have a bad fate, suffer a lot, but always rely on themselves.
Sometimes you are envious of others, in fact, others are also envious of you, because everyone's life is imperfect, you have others do not necessarily have, and others have, you can not get.
But in fact, everyone's life has its own bitterness, there is an unknown heartache, although we live our own lives in our own world, silently carry everything, live well.
Second, the truth about networking: Don't overestimate your place in the hearts of others.
Remembering Xiao Duo's father in "The Story of Time", seeing that Xiao Duo was about to graduate from college, he was worried that his daughter could not find a good job, so he wanted his college classmates to be executives of the company, so he organized a dinner party to call them out to eat, the purpose of which was to hope that they could take care of his daughter.
At the dinner table, Xiao Duo's father flattered them, drank wine, and delivered cigarettes. They also spoke nicely on the surface, but they didn't take it seriously the day after eating.
Xiao Duo's father went to the newspaper office, looking for his classmates, did not expect to be invited out, Xiao Duo's father was not willing, continued to organize the bureau, spent all his savings, and did not have the opportunity to exchange for his daughter's work.
In the end, it was the daughter herself who entered the TV station by her own strength, and XiaoDuo's father understood that never tell him his position in the hearts of others, and taking himself seriously is equal to others not taking you seriously.
Human nature is actually like this, if there is no mutual benefit between people, no one wants to trouble themselves.
Therefore, the so-called network is actually the transmission of benefits, and without interests, there is nothing to talk about.
Third, the truth about fate: fate is not by people, gathering and dispersing with Providence.
In this life, you may meet many people, but who you can come with and who you can separate from is the arrangement of fate.
Between people, there is a separation when there is a reunion, cherish the days of reunion, and release separation. Everyone has their own way to go, we can't stop it, only let it go.
Just like our classmates, we know each other and live together, but in the end, we will all go our separate ways.
Some people go to big companies as soon as they graduate, some people join the army as soon as they graduate, some people go home to inherit the mantle of their parents as soon as they graduate, and some people go out to run around as soon as they graduate.
Life is hurried, everyone is a passer-by, everyone has their own life and position, maybe we will meet again after many years, maybe never see each other again in a lifetime.
Time is walking, people are changing, relationships are also changing, the fate that can't be retained, the sand that can't be held, will let go of it.
Fourth, the truth about how to deal with the world: it is rare to be confused, and not to care is great wisdom.
In this life, people are dealing with people, between people, learn to get along, learn to deal with the world, in order to live in harmony.
And what happens between people, if everything is calculated, everything must be safeguarded by their own interests, so that they can not suffer a little loss, then it is difficult to get along with others.
People live in this world, to be honest, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and people around them deal well, it is rare to be confused when things happen, don't worry too much, you can help, help each other, even if some things are broken, don't say broken.
Because behind everyone's strength there is only a little bit of dignity left, and learning to leave room for others, seeing through and not saying broken, is the best wisdom in dealing with the world.
V. The Truth About Life: Kindness is the beginning of blessings.
In this life, people must always remain kind, and only by being kind and paying kindness can we accumulate blessings.
Many times, the reason why life can be lucky and meet noble people to help is because they have unconsciously paid goodwill, and it is from the heart, and will not expect anything in return, then in the dark, there are providential arrangements.
Many times, your small act of kindness will get unexpected benefits.
Before doing things, don't always think about the bad, don't always think about gains and losses, think about whether this thing can bring benefits to yourself, the more you calculate, the more difficult it is to get rewards.
And when you go all out, no matter whether it is good or bad, but do good things, do not ask about the future, then your life path will be wider and wider.
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