Children who love vanity regardless of age.
The word comparison, in different ages, will have different ways of expression, will not be because the child is young, and will not be light, nor because the child is old, and behave heavily.
This may be the magic of the comparison, quietly lurking in the child's heart, once it is entered, it is difficult to leave. The slightest discomfort can be worse.
"Mom, why do other people wear Nike and I wear cheap shoes without names?"
Xiaomi's mother sent Xiaomi to a private aristocratic kindergarten, all the teaching in the kindergarten is bilingual, although many babies still can't understand English, but this operation is really popular with parents.
Many parents would rather have a harder life than send their children to this kindergarten. For example, Xiaomi. Xiaomi's mother works in a private company and does not exceed three thousand yuan per month, which can only be counted as a middle and lower level in the city's income.
Every month, in addition to xiaomi's mother's salary deducting xiaomi's tuition fees, the remaining money is not much, and it cannot be saved in eating, so it can only save a little on dressing.
One day, after Xiaomi came home, his face was full of unhappiness, and how his mother teased him, he didn't react much. After my mother repeatedly asked about it, Xiaomi finally asked my mother very seriously: Why do others wear Nike, and I can only wear cheap shoes without names?
Hearing Xiaomi's question, the mother was very surprised, how can such a small child know the comparison? Usually I haven't told him about Nike shoes, how does he know Nike shoes?
Subsequently, when Xiaomi's mother asked again, who told you this? Xiaomi has never seen Nike shoes! Xiaomi replied: When I went to bed at noon, I heard Teacher Yuanyuan and Teacher Tingting say that my shoes are very cheap, saying that Minmin's shoes are Nike shoes, and their family must be very rich.
Hearing this, the mother knows that the culprit is the kindergarten teacher, who first endured his anger to comfort his son: Although Nike shoes are more expensive than your shoes, your shoes are more beautiful. Next time mom takes you to see Nike shoes, if you like, we'll buy Nike shoes to wear, okay?
Hearing his mother's answer, Xiaomi seemed to understand and said yes. Then it's time to play with the building blocks happily. But Mom lost sleep that night.
The words of the kindergarten teacher always impress the children even more
Babies are born with a reverence for their teachers
In kindergarten, the identity of the teacher is always "high", they are the rule-maker, but also the punisher, even the well-behaved baby will make mistakes, once they make mistakes, they will receive punishment from the teacher.
Therefore, even if the teacher shows more kindness to the babies in normal times, the babies' reverence for the teacher will never be forgotten. Everything the teacher said, they obeyed.
Moreover, the baby's ability to distinguish between right and wrong is not very perfect, and it is impossible to distinguish between the teacher's jokes and serious words, and sometimes even the words of ridicule between teachers will be remembered by the babies.
Kindergarten teachers like to evaluate based on the baby's dress
Teachers understand the students' family situation, which seems to be a job, but gradually given a new definition, that is, the child's family situation can become their own tool.
When the parents of students can help themselves solve any problems, it is naturally the best, even if there is no help, being prepared can also play a psychological comfort.
Of course, kindergarten teachers are no exception, and they know better how to make good use of their parents. After all, kindergartens are the first time for children to go to school, and parents who are too young are afraid of their children being wronged, and they can obey the teacher's requirements.
Alpaca mom has something to say:
Even if these two kindergarten teachers are unintentional and do not want to hurt Xiaomi, they should not discuss it behind their children's backs, after all, today's children are more precocious, and they can understand what we think they don't understand.
Therefore, what awaits them is only the "sanction" of Xiaomi's mother. Because their words have caused harm to the child's soul, but also to the heart of Xiaomi's mother, whether there will be more serious harm in the future, we do not know.
I can only advise all kindergarten teachers not to talk nonsense in the face of children, even if they are sleeping and playing, they can always pay attention to the teacher's movements. So the teacher should be careful in his words and deeds!
Today's Topic:
Do you think Xiaomi Mom is doing the right thing? If your child asks you that, what is your answer? Welcome to share!