Education is the improvement of children's abilities, but also the release of talents.
Respect children, although their current achievements are not necessarily very eye-catching, but their future creativity and learning ability must be outstanding.
A few days ago, a primary school student gave a very high evaluation by the teacher with only 15 words.
The teacher commented on the 15-word essay.
The child's writing is not only very similar to Zhu Ziqing, but also a few words can create a powerful visual feeling, and I have to sigh: the child's language skills are very powerful.
This scene stimulated many parents: why their "baby" became so weak.
Could it be that their own children do not have any talent?
Are they bland ugly ducklings in learning?
In fact, every child's talent is the same, but the environment for growing up and learning is different, which makes the child's ability to learn in a different state.
In the child's learning and growth, parents who know how to respect and protect their children's talents can often cultivate better children, and the above children can show a sense of loneliness that cannot be ignored in just 15 words.
【Parents should learn the importance of respect and protection】
1, the child's talent, there is a place to bloom
Today's parents can't teach their children well because of a lack of respect for their children.
Always take it for granted and impose your own mental inertia on your child.
This kind of "taking it for granted" education, which has been experienced countless times in the process of each child's growth, will stifle the child's imagination and creativity, and completely kill the child's talent in the cradle state.
Only when parents know how to respect their children and know how to protect their children's creativity can they protect their children's talents, and at some point in the future, the talents will be able to bloom effectively.
2, the child's creativity, will not be erased
The respect of parents is extremely beneficial to the future growth of children.
Especially in the process of mathematical learning, the presentation of rational thinking is to some extent inseparable from the creativity and imagination of early childhood.
Parents know how to respect and protect their children's desires and imaginations, so that they can take fewer detours in their future studies.
However, in the process of children's growth, in the face of children's education, most parents are very nervous, how to do respect and protection, is what parents need to think about and face.
In the face of children's education, how should respect and protection be implemented? 】
1. Respect your child's whimsy
Hidden in every child's mind is a world that "adults can't understand", and countless wonderful ideas emerge every day.
In the fixed thinking of parents, such ideas cannot be implemented.
Such ideas and practices discourage children's enthusiasm and creativity, and gradually make them become ordinary people.
Therefore, if parents want to let their children have stronger creative ability, the most important thing is to respect their children's whimsy, even if they know that they can't do it, but they must also retain the only innocence in their children.
2. Pay attention to children's expressions and feelings
In the process of children's growth, if parents want to give their children more room for growth and let them have more powerful actions in the future, they must respect their children's expressions and feelings.
Whether their ideas can be realized or not, wild ideas can make their thinking more active and open, and will have a more powerful boost to their future learning and talent.
3. Create an open environment for children
If parents want to create a better learning and growth environment for their children, they must first create an open growth space for their children, not set up various rules and regulations for their children.
Encourage children to express more in each thought and communication, only in this way can they make their hearts healthier and form self-perception and judgment, even if the idea cannot be realized.
However, after trying, their gains will far exceed the imagination of parents, and they will certainly have a positive and effective role in promoting their future growth and learning.
【Educational Insight】:
Gorky said: Every book is a small ladder. So many parents complain that their children do not have talent and mediocre grades, but they do not know that it is not that they do not have potential, but that parents do not understand their needs.
Most children are very creative and imaginative in their early years, and these abilities gradually disappear under the repeated frustration and suppression of their parents.
In the education of children, parents can only give more respect to their children in order to make their abilities bloom continuously, rather than being in a state of constant competition.
In children's education, if parents can do it, it must be very beneficial to the growth of children, and it will make parents very amazing.
Talk about the perspective of education: What should parents do to respect and protect their children and let them grow up healthier? Feel free to share your thoughts below.