"Family with Children" is the most classic family comedy in all childhood memories. Liu Xing, the lively and lovely second son in the play, is a character who makes people cry and laugh and is very loved.
One episode is about Liu Xing complaining about Liu Mei not giving him an interest class, Liu Xing and Xiaoyu said: "If I was trained from childhood, I would also play the piano, or play the violin, or play the trumpet..."
This made Liu Mei, who has always been proud of respecting children's ideas, very aggrieved, "When I was a child, I reported you this class and that class, I wanted you to learn, but you didn't learn it yourself!" ”
Liu Xing retorted: "I don't want to learn, you won't let me learn?" At that time, I was still young, I didn't understand things, didn't you understand things? You should have educated me from an early age. ”
A few words, making Liu Mei dumbfounded.
Children do not want to go to interest classes, and whether parents still insist on letting their children continue to attend interest classes is indeed troubling many parents.
Because, from the perspective of the child's future, there are still many successful cases of "forcing" children to go to interest classes.
Since the great success of "Young You", the lead actor Yi Yanqianxi has become more well-known to the public for his excellent acting skills, and has been nominated for the Golden Statue, the Golden Rooster, the Best New Actor of the Golden Statue, the Best Newcomer of the Hundred Flowers Award, and other honors.
And the excellent Qianxi has the experience of attending interest classes from an early age.
In 2000, Yi was born in a small village in Huaihua, Hunan.
Qianxi's family situation is very ordinary, and his parents are also the most ordinary laborers, but Qianxi's mother has hoped and cultivated him to be a different person since he was a child.
2-year-old Yi Qianxi has already studied in various art training classes.
After his mother discovered his dance talent, she enrolled him in various interest classes.
Such as folk dance, Chinese dance, Latin dance, modern dance, street dance, etc., and even the interest classes of gourd silk, vocal music, face change, magic and sculpture are all registered.
Almost to the decathlon, Qianxi and her mother took the earliest bus to class every day, and came back with the last bus in the evening.
When I was 13 years old, a reporter asked Yi Qianxi, you learn so many things, you don't have time to play, will you feel very happy?
He replied: Either you are unhappy or you are used to it.
Li Yong also once asked Qianxi's mother: "Do people around you think you are very beautiful?" Because you have a son of scenery. ”
She said: "But there should be few people who have experienced something between me and Qianxi, it's really hard." ”
For the success of Yi Qianxi, in his own words, it is the best interpretation: "There is no overnight fame, but a hundred steels." "Qianxi and her mother's joint efforts have created today's extraordinary Yi Qianxi.
It is also Yi Qianxi's "fierce" mother that has the success of Qianxi now.
However, in reality, not every child is Yi Qianxi, and not every parent can do the same as Yi Qianxi's mother.
Most parents send their children to interest classes, it may not be long, the children are passive and sluggish, unwilling to go, at this time parents should also be very entangled and even have the idea of giving up.
So when the child suddenly does not want to go to the interest class, should the child continue to attend the interest class? First of all, parents should ask themselves the following questions:
When the child chose this interest class, was it my will, or was it the child?
Does the child suddenly not want to go on, or is he not interested all the time?
Has anything happened to me that I didn't know about during the recent interest class?
What is the purpose of choosing this interest class?
Do interest classes really take up too much of the energy of children or adults?
More importantly, how can we help children choose interest classes? How to accompany your child to grow up in the process of interest classes?
Professor Li Meijin, professor and graduate supervisor of Chinese Min Public Security University, once said in a parenting lecture: These three kinds of interest classes are not recommended to report to children -
1. Classes that the child is not interested in
Since it is to choose an interest class for the child, remember that the child must be interested, not you. This is critical.
2. Classes that claim to be able to cultivate young geniuses
Edison said that genius is 1% inspiration plus 99% sweat. Numerous scientific data show that the IQ difference between people is not large. Most of the so-called little genius classes on the market are sensational advertising campaigns, and parents must treat them rationally.
3. Interest classes that are too far from home
The so-called interest class is generally after the child's school or weekend participation, if all the time is wasted on the road, not only consumes the child's energy, the time may not be able to stand the parents.
Professor Li Meijin also said that 2-8 years old is the most important period of brain development in children's lives, and it is also the most important period of logic training.
Before the age of 8, we should pay more attention to the cultivation of children's logical thinking and help children develop their brains, so when choosing interest classes, we should also choose those that are good for the long-term development of children.
However, as parents, we must also be clearly aware of one point - we cannot blindly press our children's education on the interest class.
In addition, when we sign up for the child's interest class, everything is not all right, how to help the child develop interest into a specialty, is also a problem that parents need to pay attention to.
In the process of accompanying their children to interest classes, many parents should not be too "greedy", report too many classes to their children, and give their children more support and encouragement in the process of learning interests.
Only by respecting the true thoughts in the child's heart can the child feel the beauty of interest.
As far as interest classes are concerned, many children who have programming classes in several interest classes at the same time will be more inclined to code classes
Because the programming class combines LEGO building blocks teaching aids, it is taught from the content of life, so that children can feel and apply knowledge in games and hands-on, so that children's imagination and thinking can have a place to play.
Learning to program is helpful for children to cultivate their logical thinking skills, their ability to innovate and their ability to concentrate.