On January 1, 2022, the "Family Education Promotion Law" was officially implemented, family education rose from "family affairs" to "state affairs", parents should start to "bring babies according to law", and the discussion on how to bring babies on the Internet has become a hot search topic. Today we will relive the "colorful" story of Liu Xing's family in "Family with Children" and see how the national father Xia Donghai and the hot-tempered mother Liu Mei are fancy with their babies.
NO.1
Parenting
Strengthen parent-child companionship
The composition of the liu xing family can be regarded as complicated, the father Xia Donghai and the mother Liu Mei each had children before marriage, after the two reorganized the family, they immediately took Xia Yu abroad and Xia Xue, who was raised by his grandfather's parents, to live together, plus the clever and eccentric Liu Xing, the father and mother with three bear children with different personalities and distinct personalities, and the family life of the family of five officially set sail.
Companionship is the best love that parents give their children
It is also the most basic requirement of education
Accompany behind this simple act
The core beneficial values are a sense of security and trust
NO.2
Participate together
Play the role of both parents
Father Xia Donghai and mother Liu Mei have different temperaments and different ways of education, but the common characteristics of the two are loving, concerned about the growth of children, and expect to "integrate" the love and wisdom of the two to cultivate the next generation of happy life, so when the children have problems, they can have a business, can cooperate with each other, and jointly do a good job in educating the children.
"Mother's love is like water, father's love is like a mountain"
The role and influence of parents in the development of children
is different and irreplaceable
Family education requires the participation of both parents
NO.3
Camera and teach
Edutainment in daily life
Three eccentric children often make their parents mess around. Liu Xing whimsically wants to go to Mars, Xia Yu said that he was wearing invisibility clothes, Xia Xue makeup and mature clothing, the father and mother did not have the idea of killing the children with a stick, but at the same time, they gave correct guidance and education, so that the children could find right and wrong.
Education is a normalized process
Education is for all
They are all taught a normal child in the most ordinary way
NO.4
Subtle
Words and deeds are combined
In order to win the investors and producers, Xia Donghai's colleague Lao Shang let Xia Donghai make up some experiences that he did not have in front of the media, Xia Donghai sternly refused, saying: "I have always educated them (children), be honest and honest, what it is like, can not talk nonsense, I am now taking the lead in making things up, how do I educate them after this."
Parents are the best role models for their children
Children will naturally imitate their parents' words and deeds
Teaching by example is the most natural guide
It also has the greatest impact on the teachings
NO.5
Strict kindness
Care and care are equally important as strict requirements
The grumpy old mother Liu Mei is a "strict mother", the good-tempered Xia Donghai is a "loving father", the naughty and mischievous Liu Xing is not useless, the mother is always more severe with Liu Xing, and the father will give affirmation and encouragement in time, "Tiger Mother and Cat Father" with perfect cooperation, always let Liu Xing understand the right and wrong relationship of his behavior, let Liu Xing see the advantages of his own body.
Growing up is a trial-and-error process
If your child is doing it right, give him encouragement
Let him move in the right direction
If your child is doing something wrong, please remind and help in time
Let the child correct his or her own pace
NO.6
Respect for differences
Scientific guidance according to age and personality characteristics
The three children in the family have very different personalities, and there are often contradictions and problems between children, and daily life is often "chicken flying dog jumping". For Xia Yu, who has a foreign reading background, Liu Xing, a lean Beijing boy, and Xia Xue, a good student with a strong personality, the parents have different educational methods and methods, whether it is strict word training, sincere seduction, and inspiration, all of which are in line with the physical and mental characteristics of children.
Every child is a different individual
Every family has its own way of getting along
Be good at spotting the sparkle of each child
NO.7
Communicate on an equal footing
Respect, understanding and encouragement
The aunt wants to come to the house to live for a period of time because of the loss of love, the father and mother held a family meeting to tell the three children about this matter, the father and mother discussed with the three children how to appease and take care of the aunt's emotions, the children expressed their opinions, the atmosphere was very warm.
Maybe try to change your relationship with your children
From a preacher to a listener
Children are also part of the family
He can have no right to decide
But there should be the right to participate
NO.8
Mutual promotion
Parents and children grow together
In order to prevent Xia Xue and Liu Xing from making mistakes, the father and mother let Xia Yu be a "little spy", Xia Xue and Liu Xing "bribed" Xia Yu in order to avoid being taught by their parents, and Xia Yu began to "double-sided spy" in order to get more benefits. The father and mother reflected that they thought that they had done wrong, should not let Xia Yu be a spy, could not encourage small report behavior, so that Xia Yu could not distinguish between right and wrong. Afterwards, Mom and Dad apologized to the children for their actions.
Good children are taught, good parents are learned
There are no perfect children and no perfect parents
Education is a two-way street
Children are also the best teachers for their parents
(Jiangxi Anyuan Procuratorate)