Recently, a small short drama has caught fire - "Big Mama's World".
Douban score 8.3, several mothers in the editorial department after reading it turned into "tap water".
The life of the big mothers in the play is too wonderful, and the jingjing of the editorial department summarizes in one sentence: your big mother will always be your big mother, and you can't do it. Completely broke everyone's stereotype of grandma and grandmother.
Are you worried that Big Mama will be cheated of money by health product salesman Xiao Li? People's aunts are working for someone, pretending to be deceived by Xiao Li, and it is much cheaper than hiring part-time workers.
Big Mom also loves to chase cp!
But we have to wait for the update to chase the drama, the big moms are 360 ° panoramic immersive bumps, on this pair of eyes that read thousands of sails, what small actions can hide from them?
I have to say that there is also a baby.
Many people hate the elders with babies and only know how to eat and wear, but "Big Mama's World" tells you: Grandma and Grandma are more concerned than many parents now in terms of looking forward to (grandson) Jackie Chan.
In order for their grandchildren to get into a good university, people will visit the former residence of Zhuangyuan.
Collect used scratch paper.
Throw coins in the bathtub of the Yuanyuan bath to pray for blessings.
Of course, don't think that grandmas and grandmothers will only engage in these virtual things, and the hard work of the aunt is also not bad!
Recently we interviewed the mothers around us, and now the old people are all set of plans in terms of taking the baby, and even think that we parents are dragging their feet!
They may not know what a "chicken baby" is, but they often uphold a simple belief:
My grandchildren can't be delayed by their indisputable parents!
And the older generation's action power you do not accept, they are saying to do it!
My daughter's English punch card group was recently taken over by my grandmother.
Every week, the teacher will send out a piece of paper for the children to record and read small videos every day and send them into the group to punch in. But the recent Buddhist mentality has led me to paddle a lot, basically a day or two a week.
This matter was discovered by my mother, because the girlfriend cried that she did not receive the monthly "punch card reward" (you don't want to punch in, what do you do when you are lazy and happy). The old lady immediately instructed to "pull me into the group"!
It must be said that my mother's generation certainly does not know English, but it does not prevent her from completing the punch card first every day. Even if the girlfriend is lazy and slippery, Grandma has a way.
What's more, my mother and mother-in-law change shifts once every six months, and she does not forget to develop her mother-in-law into the next person who punches the clock in the wind and rain. Grandma Yoyo and Grandma Yoyo have become a fixture in our class.
I don't know if it was because of their influence, the group soon appeared Evan Grandma and Oscar Grandma and so on... The speed and quality of the grandma group punch card are so high that a group of middle-aged parents are ashamed of themselves.
And the grandmothers are still communicating in the group how to help children better punch the card: there is a food picture book, my mother is stunned to prepare the food in the picture book, with my baby while cooking while punching the clock, for a while in the punch card group is the limelight ... Just ask you if you are satisfied?
Often, neighbors want to invite my grandmother to sit at home, because she is a famous "young expert" in the community.
My grandmother's famous saying is: My son went to Tsinghua, and my grandson was at least on 985.
She is not talking nonsense.
Since her son went to kindergarten, Grandma has studied various preschool education theories, what logic dogs, He Qiuguang, online classes, are all accompanied by Grandma to learn. After idleness, he also shared thinking, foreign languages, and literacy enlightenment methods in the community education group, and accumulated a group of "fans" in the head of the Tao.
In the kindergarten, Grandma studied the articulation of young children; after going to school, Grandma accompanied her to do homework. The old lady also said that accompanying homework is not the purpose, the purpose is to cultivate good learning habits for children. Raising children must take a long-term view, and good habits benefit for life
Really ~ ~ do not accept no, she pays attention to the education public number in her mobile phone more than I do!
There may be mothers who feel that the threshold for the old man's chicken baby is a little high. This is english and young articulation, no culture of grandparents grandparents where to get?
But don't underestimate the determination of the next generation to bring a baby, education is not a problem, and there are more tricks than you think.
She never felt that her mother-in-law was a person who loved to teach children, she had not read any books, and for many years she was preoccupied with the seafood stalls in her hometown. To be able to come with children is to make a great sacrifice.
But since last year, my husband and I have often come home from work to find new skills for our son to get:
"Mom, wrong, big mistake, wrong plus wrong, typing a word, what is it?"
I couldn't answer in a daze, and my son was proud, "It's cool!" ”
There are also all kinds of slips, tongue twisters, children's songs, what "picking beans", "counting dates", "stealing oil", I found that the son who was not good at words before had a stronger and stronger desire to perform.
One day, I saw the douyin attention list on my mother-in-law's mobile phone, and found that the old lady was concerned about what kind of children's eloquence and puzzle enlightenment. She said that she felt that the baby was a bit introverted, and she didn't know what to do, so she searched on the Internet to learn.
I was a little touched in my heart, although the old man did not have much culture, but the heart for the child is warm.
This year, the child is about to enter elementary school, and Grandma's attention list has been updated to a young child. Yesterday when I came home, I began to memorize the multiplication trick. Thanks to My grandmother, my husband and I were able to steal a little laziness after a day of moving bricks.
Some children came to play at home and brought rubik's cubes and magic rulers.
Grandpa saw that this thing developed intelligence, and happily bought two for the baby. But the granddaughter can't play, and can only watch the little friend's operation.
Grandpa couldn't stand it and started studying while sleeping at night. If you can't study it, you can search on the Internet. Every night, you can see Grandpa put the mobile phone on the sofa, sit on a small bench and twist and turn against the video, and then teach the child by hand during the day.
According to Grandma, Grandpa learned Kuaishou, Douyin, and Volcano Videos all over again! "I haven't been so concerned about anything in my life!"
Soon, my daughter became the most skilled child in the community who could turn the Rubik's Cube.
The above is still the category of subject education and puzzle enlightenment, but if you think that grandparents and grandparents will only do this, it is simple. In the field of literary enlightenment, they are also quite domineering beings!
Let me start with the picture.
This is our grandfather directing the ballet of his daughter.
When we applied for ballet classes, we wanted to let the baby exercise so that she could go to bed early when she went home. Because of low expectations, daily practice is not very attentive. As a result, Grandpa went to send the baby to class, looked at the list of performances selected for the training class, and the child failed to be selected, and he was in a hurry.
"Never practice when you go home, which line?" You guys are so irresponsible! "Looking at me and my husband still not bothered to look at the look, Grandpa decided to go on his own."
Grandpa, who didn't even dance the square dance, said he would do it. Every day, I accompanied the baby to class, recorded the teacher's movement essentials through the glass window of the classroom, and asked the teacher for various dance videos.
When I came home at night, I practiced with my baby on the tablet.
You say this elegant finger movement, where like no foundation, at least square dance level 8 ah!
After 3 months, my baby was selected for the team that could perform on stage, and my grandfather was indispensable.
My mother practiced calligraphy when she was a teenager, and when I was a child, my handwriting was particularly bad (of course, it is also rotten now), and my mother sighed when she saw my homework, but only sighed.
Now to my daughter, being a grandmother has changed.
She not only picked up the basics of calligraphy from 50 years ago, but also feared that the children would not be interested, so she deliberately studied hieroglyphs and found a small seal similar to hieroglyphs to practice:
First tell the story of the ancient people who wrote on the shell of the turtle, and then give the text and the physical object to the child one by one.
She finds it interesting, listens carefully, and is willing to practice with her grandmother.
From summer to winter, the two of them went from painting turtles to being able to write simple words such as big, small, people, and grass, and they slowly got on the right track.
Here I have to say that Grandma not only taught her granddaughter, but also practiced herself for a day. She said: "You have to be an example for your children, you can't give up halfway." ”
I was a little sour, and if I had invested 1/3 of that year, my words would not have been written like this. Who is the biological child?
Watching the elders do their best in the education of the baby, and still live to learn from the old, it is actually a little touching.
What are they for? It's not to make it easier for the children and make the children grow up better.
If there are such grandparents and grandparents in the family, they may not really have to go to the training class... With loving and hard-core family education, no matter how expensive the training class is, it is not as expensive as it is!