Mention the name Sun Guitian, many people may feel strange, but when it comes to Liu Xing's grandmother in "Family with Children", I think almost everyone knows and everyone knows.
"Family with Children" was a big hit TV series that year, which was played on a loop every year, and it accompanied many post-90s and post-00s through childhood.
In the drama "Family with Children", Liu Xing's grandmother is very loving, although the Liu Xing family is noisy and noisy, often there are stories of ridicule, but the family is harmonious and warm, and the love between the family is enviable.
However, back in real life, Sun Guitian's family has not been able to love each other like in the film and television drama.
Sun Guitian divorced twice, and after the second divorce, Sun Guitian worked hard alone and had several properties in Beijing in his early years, plus two sets of courtyards.
In the past few years, the real estate has appreciated rapidly, these properties are very valuable, I thought that relying on these properties can make me live in peace in my old age, but also let my children live a stable life.
But I don't want to, the children in order to compete for property, the quarrel, the eldest daughter and Sun Guitian broke off the mother-daughter relationship.
Sun Guitian remembered these years of ups and downs and family strife, and the old tearful and sad eyes said: "I am a hero of the family, but I am also a sinner in this family!" ”
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Sun Guitian was born in a large family in Beijing, and his father was a businessman and came from a well-to-do family.
Sun Guitian's father married Mrs. Sanfang in the old society, and Sun Guitian's mother, the wife of the smallest fang, died two years after giving birth to Sun Guitian.
The Sun family only has sun guitian such a thousand gold, and the first two wives have no children.
Therefore, it can be imagined that Sun Guitian when he was a child was the only pearl in the palm of his hand in his family, and he must have been held in the palm of his hand by the elders of the family since he was a child, and he was pampered and pampered, and his living conditions must also be pampered and well-fed.
However, when he was ten years old, Sun Guitian's life took a sharp turn due to the death of his father.com.
More unfortunately, the business of Sun Guitian's family had already declined before his father's illness and death, and his father did not leave any property for Sun Guitian after he left.
Sun Guitian went from Miss Qianjin to a fatherless, motherless, and destitute orphan overnight. From then on, she could only live with her father's eldest wife.
The eldest lady has always lived a pampered life, will not make ends meet or take care of the housework, and the two people live by eating up and down.
The kind neighbors looked at them pitifully and would usually give them some food or give them leftovers, and Sun Guitian and the eldest wife barely survived.
This stretched out for a long time, and one day her uncle in Heilongjiang sent a letter to Sun Guitian, telling her that there was a Peking Opera troupe in the northeast that was recruiting actors, so that Sun Guitian could try it.
Sun Guitian seemed to have grasped the straw of life, although she had never studied opera before, she did not hesitate to immediately go to the northeast to join her uncle.
When Sun Guitian was interviewed, only with the memory of often watching opera when she was a child, she learned a little, and was fortunate to be successfully admitted to the Peking Opera Troupe, and since then she finally has a formal job to support herself.
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After entering the Peking Opera Troupe, Sun Guitian met his first husband here. Sun Guitian's first husband's surname was Yan, and everyone called him Teacher Yan.
Teacher Yan is 6 years older than Sun Guitian and pays special attention to Sun Guitian, who has just entered the new unit and also needs a senior to help guide her.
The leaders of the regiment saw that Sun Guitian and Teacher Yan interacted frequently, and the two happened to be single, so they simply matched the two together.
Sun Guitian thought that being in a foreign land, with only one uncle and one relative, it would be a better choice to have a partner to live in the future.
In this way, under the basis of no feelings between the two, Sun Guitian and Teacher Yan vaguely registered their marriage.
After marriage, Sun Guitian and Teacher Yan had a son and a daughter, although Teacher Yan's personality was generous and gentle, he did not understand romance, the life of the husband and wife was dull and tasteless, and Sun Guitian also felt that the days were getting more and more lackluster.
Coincidentally, at this time, the whole country is undergoing earth-shaking changes, and the reform and opening up has begun to engage in economic reform and opening up.
Sun Guitian thought that life could not be a lifetime in the Beidahuang facing the loess with its back to the sky, living boringly, and the idea of leaving the Beidahuang to live in a more prosperous place silently took root in her heart.
At this time, the eldest wife was paralyzed in bed, and she had the opportunity to return to Beijing to visit the sick, and seeing the rapid changes in Beijing made her make up her mind to go to Beijing to make a living.
In order for the children to have a broader world in the future, the two children must also go to Beijing to settle down.
So Sun Guitian and her husband filed for divorce, and she promised her husband that after settling down in Beijing, she would definitely get her husband to Beijing. He also promised that he would take care of him for the rest of his life if he wanted to.
Sun Guitian knew that she had filed for divorce and taken the child to Beijing, and her husband would be very painful, but for the sake of the future of the child, she still decided to divorce her heart, and when she left, Sun Guitian did not take a penny and left the house.
Later, although he was unable to bring her husband to Beijing, sun Guitian took care of Teacher Yan all his life, and Sun Guitian always kept this promise. More than thirty years after the divorce, Teacher Yan fell ill and was hospitalized, and Sun Guitian helped Teacher Yan pay almost all the medical expenses and take care of everything.
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Back in the long-lost city of Beijing, the first thing that greeted Sun Guitian was not a good life, but a slap in the face of life.
Sun Guitian is a black household in Beijing, and it is even more difficult to find a job, and there are two children waiting to be fed and a big wife who is paralyzed in bed.
If ordinary people were already on the verge of collapse at this time, Sun Guitian would always have a way to survive the hardest days.
Just when Sun Guitian was struggling to support himself, another man named Dalin entered Sun Guitian's life.
Da Lin is a colleague of Sun Guitian's ex-husband Teacher Yan, he saw Sun Guitian pulling two small and one old, it is not easy, and he is both appreciative and caring for Sun Guitian, often helping them.
Sun Guitian saw that Dalin was very good to her and the children and the elderly, and felt the warmth of Dalin, and the two people unconsciously came together to form a family. In this way, Sun Guitian was finally able to live a stable and steady life in Beijing.
Only one year after marriage, the two of them ushered in a new life, and Sun Guitian gave birth to a young daughter. During the day, the two couples work to support their families, and when they return home at night, the children circle around the two adults, and the little life is also beautiful.
When Sun Guitian thought that life could finally go on the right track and continue to be happy, this harmonious life was broken by Obayashi's derailment.
At first, Sun Guitian also intended to endure the "mistakes that every man makes" made by Dalin, but gradually Dalin began to insult the two non-biological children.
This move of Dalin made Sun Guitian decisively divorce, and this time Sun Guitian took his three children and left the house again.
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The failure of the second marriage made Sun Guitian desperate for a while, and he wanted to end his life by the river.
She thought about it again and thought about herself, the three children can still do it. She gave birth to hope again in despair, and made a fierce oath in her heart: "Nothing in this life, not a person!"
At the same time, she made up her mind to devote herself to her career and no longer indulge in the love of men and women!
So Sun Guitian borrowed 2,000 yuan from his friend, rented a small shop, started a business, and bought some bits and pieces of small commodities, and Sun Guitian was 42 years old at this time.
At the beginning, in order to repay the money, the family squeezed into the public housing of the nine-square-meter housing management office. However, not long after Sun Guitian's small shop opened, good luck came.
One day, two Cantonese merchants came to the store, brought a lot of new and exquisite greeting cards to sell, and asked her if she would like to buy their greeting cards at the store.
As soon as Sun Guitian looked at these greeting cards, she knew that this thing would definitely be very popular and become a hot product, but she was suffering from not having the purchase principal.
So, she promised two Guangdong merchants that the payment would be paid on credit, and when the greeting card was sold, she would send the money to the two of them.
The next day, as expected, greeting card sales were particularly good, and two Cantonese merchants stayed in a hotel not far from Sun Guitian's shop, and for several days in a row, no matter how late, Sun Guitian kept his promise and sent the payment to the Guangdong merchants.
Sun Guitian was trusted by others, they gave all the remaining goods to Sun Guitian, and left a phone, although they were out of stock, they would send goods from Guangdong to her.
Greeting cards in Beijing at that time were still novelty items, and they were inexpensive, and they were popular throughout Beijing for a while.
People lined up to buy greeting cards here in Sun Guitian, and every day the business of small shops was so hot that Sun Guitian suddenly went to the road to prosperity.
Through the greeting card business, Sun Guitian finally accumulated a sum of money in her hands, so she spent 26,000 yuan to buy a small courtyard in Beijing, and she and her three daughters lived steadily.
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Near Sun Guitian's courtyard, there was a young single boy named Fu Biao. At that time, Fu Biao was not yet a star, and his life was very poor.
Sun Guitian saw Fu Biao alone, but he could not cook, and often called Fu Biao to his home to eat, and over time, Fu Biao and Sun Guitian's family got along as close as relatives.
Sun Guitian treated Fu Biao as if he were a son, and even Fu Biao's good brothers would often call him to his home to entertain him, and Fu Biao also maintained and loved Sun Guitian's children as if they were brothers and sisters.
Later, Fu Biao broke out of the entertainment industry, and he was featured in many hot film and television works.
Once Fu Biao starred in Feng Xiaogang's "Party A and Party B", the film needed a Beijing courtyard as a scene, and Fu Biao recommended Sun Guitian's courtyard to the crew.
After the film began, the role of a second aunt was missing, and Feng Xiaogang saw that Sun Guitian was not just right, and then the 52-year-old Sun Guitian started his acting career by chance.
She also did not expect that after becoming an actor, the road became wider and wider, and then film and television dramas such as "Family with Children", "Household Names", and "Upside Down Door" threw olive branches to her.
Sun Guitian became an actor that the audience liked to hear, and also received evaluation from his grandmother's professional households.
However, in 2005, Fu Biao unfortunately died of illness, Sun Guitian was as sad as the loss of his relatives, after Fu Biao left, Sun Guitian often dreamed of him, Fu Biao treated Sun Guitian more intimately than her own three children before he died.
After becoming popular in the entertainment industry, his feelings with Sun Guitian have not changed, and every time he returns to Kyoto from other places, he will visit Sun Guitian's courtyard, and if he does not go home, he will also call Sun Guitian to greet him.
Looking back at Sun Guitian's own daughter, she and Sun Guitian made a big fuss because of real estate problems, and the whole family fell apart.
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After Sun Guitian bought the first set of courtyards, she saved some money in her hands, and she planned to buy a second house, and when she didn't have enough money, she borrowed money everywhere.
People are not as good as heaven, and Sun Guitian did not expect that the small courtyard bought back from the east and west could bring such a big profit to himself in the future.
Later, when her son got married, she bought a three-bedroom apartment in a unit building and married her son to start a family.
Her daughter also grew up, and she was afraid that her daughter would blame her for being eccentric, so she once again paid for a property for her eldest daughter.
A son and a daughter have moved out to live, leaving only the younger daughter to accompany Sun Guitian for many years, and she lives in the courtyard she originally bought, so Sun Guitian and the younger daughter have a closer relationship.
Sun Guitian is getting older and older, and she knows that the journey of life is getting shorter and shorter, so she made a will in advance.
Sun Guitian had already given the eldest son and eldest daughter a place to settle down, so in his will he said that he would give the two courtyards to his younger daughter, who had been by his side to accompany and take care of him.
The two sets of courtyards are worth hundreds of millions of dollars, and the eldest daughter and son know the way their mother distributes their property, and they are not happy, so they come to Sun Guitian theory.
The three sons and daughters quarreled, and no one let the other, and the family became a chicken feather. The eldest daughter even severed the mother-son relationship with Sun Guitian from then on, and traveled with the same traveler.
Once Sun Guitian met the eldest daughter on the road, the eldest daughter saw her mother without saying a word, passing by, this scene made Sun Guitian feel distressed and dripping blood.
She said, "Only when you're a mom know what it's like."
After the storm over the property, Sun Guitian's son was suddenly diagnosed with cancer, and only two years after his diagnosis, Sun Guitian's 49-year-old son died.
She went from the Northern Wilderness to Beijing all her life, and then resolutely chose to divorce and struggle alone, all the rushing and laboring was for the children, and she did not expect that the deepest thing that hurt her in the end was also family affection.
In the past, a large family of people who were lively and lively, now only the younger daughter occasionally chats with her to relieve the boredom.
Having raised three children, he could not rely on them for old age and enjoyed the joy of having children and grandchildren.
Maybe life is like this, like a roller coaster, wave after wave.
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Many people have advised Sun Guitian to find another wife to live with, but Sun Guitian does not plan to enter the marriage relationship again. She has been single for many years, but she also enjoys herself.
In one show, the host asked Sun Guitian: "You are not going to find a partner?" ”
Sun Guitian replied: "I don't plan to look for it, I have come over for so many years, and I didn't look for it when I was young."
The host asked, "Then don't you feel lonely?"
Sun Guitian said: "I am not alone, I do not feel lonely at all, and ah, I think time is particularly tight, today here, tomorrow there, the day after tomorrow filming, various social activities, and friends gathering, my divorced wife, now also my friend." ”
Sun Guitian is nearly 80 years old, can still feel the vitality of life from her, she has never given up her career, on the big screen, you can occasionally see her figure, when there is no drama, she will party with friends and talk about the world.
Smile optimistically at life, life is naturally sunny and beautiful.
Not long ago, Xia Donghai played by Gao Yalin posted a photo with Sun Guitian, which caused a wave of memory killings from netizens.
In the photo, Sun Guitian has a kind and bright smile, and it can be seen that Sun Guitian's body is still hard, his mental outlook is also very good, the whole person is full of joy, and his state is much better than many old people who are nearly 80 years old.
Here, I wish Sun Guitian good health and evergreen pine cypress, and hope that in the future, she can bring more masterpieces to the audience.