Sun Guitian: 2 marriages and 2 times out of the house, children competing for hundreds of millions of family property, the son died at the age of 76.
She is Liu Xing's grandmother in "Family with Children", and the average person is very unfamiliar with her name.
Liu Xing's grandmother Sun Guitian, in her memory, she has all kinds of pets for her three children, which is completely the ideal grandmother!
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She was once a lady of a large family, her father's family was big, and she said three rooms of wife in one breath, and Sun Guitian's birth mother was three rooms.
Among the three wives, only this three room gave birth to a daughter to the father, so everyone still loved her more.
However, when she was three years old, her biological mother died of illness, and when she was ten years old, her father died.
She went from a lady from a large family to a helpless orphan, but fortunately her uncle took her in and took her to Heilongjiang.
She has loved Peking Opera since she was a child, and she can usually sing a few paragraphs, and after two years in the Northern Wilderness of Heilongjiang, she was selected to study opera in the troupe.
Because she is small, the brothers and sisters in the group take very good care of her.
At that time, there was a teacher surnamed Yan, who was 6 years older than her, and was usually very kind to her, often helping to do some things.
The team saw that the two of them were a good match, so they created opportunities for the two people, and finally the two people got together.
There was no one else in the family, and my uncle also thought that this young man was good, so he agreed to this family affair.
A few years after marriage, they had a daughter and a son, although the two people went farther and farther emotionally, but in that era, divorce was something that most people did not dare to imagine.
In that era of waste and waiting to be revived, Sun Guitian's marriage was not stable.
Not long after the son was born, the father's big room, that is, the big mother, broke his leg in Beijing, and he couldn't take care of himself at all.
Sun Guitian received a phone call and took the train back to Beijing overnight, because when she was young, her aunt took good care of her, so she couldn't bear to leave her mother alone to return to Heilongjiang.
She accompanied her aunt for half a year, and at this time, the contradiction between her and her husband became more and more intense, and she often quarreled on the phone.
After returning to the Northern Wilderness, the troupe she worked for was disbanded, and there was no food for a while.
Husbands who don't have jobs are also sulking every day, and finally say those two words: "Divorce!" ”
On the day of the divorce, she did not take any savings with her, but took her two children back to Beijing as a child.
On the day of getting on the bus, her ex-husband came to deliver, carrying a small mazar in his hand, and told her: "You are not in good health, if you don't have a ticket, you will sit." ”
Little Maza, let her remember to the present.
In fact, she is also good to her ex-husband, who was hospitalized due to illness when he was in his 70s, and she also found someone to take care of him for a long time.
She left her ex-husband and returned to Beijing, where she had little means of subsistence, but she had to raise two children and her mother.
In order to let them have a home, she soon entered into marriage with her colleague Obayashi, who has always taken good care of them.
The children's hukou was quickly resolved, and although their lives were cold, there was no lack of happiness.
In the second year after their marriage, she and Obayashi had another daughter, but Obayashi quietly changed, and her children were no longer the same as before.
Because of this matter, the two people often talked, and finally she had to put the two children in the big mother.
The reason that really got her second divorce was that her ex-husband had nothing to do and came to Beijing, so she had to settle him in with her aunt.
In this way, the ex-husband can also help with the two children, after all, it is the biological father, and she continues to go out to work and maintain the livelihood of the two families.
Two years later, her husband filed for divorce, and she was not surprised by this move.
She just secretly swore in her heart: If I don't do anything in this life, I am not human!
Every time she divorced, she was clean and out of the house, knowing that saving the emergency would not save the poor, and if she wanted to rely on it, she had to rely on herself.
Although she didn't know what to eat the next day, she never worried.
The sense of security can only be given to yourself.
Looking at the three children in front of her, her motivation was ignited again,
Big Mom gave her a little money, and she used that money to open a small shop.
Because of the good management and understanding of human feelings, her small shop is also sound and colorful,
The children's eating problem was solved, but she was not willing to keep doing so.
One of the businesses that really enriched her was selling postcards.
She is a mother with a brain, and when she has money, she immediately buys a house, so that she saves the rent and allows the children to have a stable home.
There are more children in the family, so the house she bought should be larger first, and later she caught a set of 20,000 yuan courtyard, which is not far from her small shop.
A few years later, she bought a second quadrangle and then a third.
When Feng Xiaogang was filming a movie, he chose a venue and saw her in a courtyard, and she was also assigned a role to see her good temperament.
Since then, she has often received film appointments, and the business has no intention of taking care of it.
She did not expect that decades had passed, the land here had risen and the boat was high, and she was worth hundreds of millions of dollars.
At this point, people must think, isn't this the winner in life?
Full of children and grandchildren, successful careers, good health, and a lot of value,
However, she tossed and turned all her life, and finally she could no longer live a peaceful life.
In order to prevent falling into this day, she actually made preparations,
Some on the property are their own names, some are the names of their children,
She knew she had to keep a hand in this matter.
The eldest son and eldest daughter asked to move out, so she bought a property for her two children outside, although the apartment type was not large.
Later, when her son wanted to get married, she bought a new set of large square meters for her son, and also bought a set for her eldest daughter.
The younger daughter was always with her because of her young age, so she also lived in the courtyard, and later when she got older, her mother let her go to another courtyard to live.
Seeing that both children had real estate, the little daughter still had nothing, so she decided to give a small courtyard to her little daughter.
Because of this incident, the eldest son and the eldest daughter did not find trouble with her, and they all felt that they had suffered a big loss, and the mother did not have a bowl of water to be flat.
The daughter did not return home for many years because of this incident, and later even broke off relations, and the eldest son died when she was 76 years old.
She did not compromise with fate all her life, but in her later years, she was made uneasy because of the real estate matter, which is really lamentable.