In 1942, Sun Guitian was born in a wealthy family, his father was a famous local salt merchant, and the family was big, so he married a 3-room wife
The mother was the third wife, because the mother was better than Mrs. Dafang at that time, so her mother was also highly recommended by the eldest wife to let her father marry into the door, in order to pass on the inheritance
Because the first two wives did not add a son and a half daughter to the Sun family, Sun Guitian's birth made his father very happy
However, her mother died of illness when she was 2 years old, and her father could only entrust her to the care of the eldest wife, who was called the big mother
She also lost her father when she was 10 years old, leaving her and her big mother to live together
For such a change to make this family a mess in an instant, it is not an exaggeration to describe their family as a tea and cool
After her father left, many former business partners also came to the door to ask for accounts, and the family property was quickly sold out, and finally the aunt could only send her to her uncle to make a living
Her uncle took her to the Northern Wilderness, because she was well-informed and not only loved to sing opera, but also read and write, and soon Sun Guitian joined the local troupe
In the troupe, she met her first husband, Teacher Yan, who was 10 years older than herself, and the two of them came together smoothly under the mediation of the leaders of the troupe, and in the words of Sun Guitian, they got married in a vacuum, and had a pair of children after marriage
Sun Guitian belongs to the practical type, has ideals and ambitions, and does not like to sell cuteness, but her husband is a romantic, because of the difference in culture and personality, they will always be unhappy because of some small things, and quarrels constantly
Many years later, her aunt in Beijing wrote to Sun Guitian that she was paralyzed in bed and had limited mobility, hoping that she could return to Beijing to take care of herself
In fact, this is also a problem she has been considering, for the sake of her child's future, she also wants to go back to Beijing for development, and she cannot let the child face the loess and turn his back to the sky for a lifetime
But the husband for some reasons did not want to go back, and then the stalemate between the two people can only divorce, after the divorce Sun Guitian promised that she will take care of the second half of her ex-husband's life, she did do this, her husband in his later years of illness she did pay for it
After returning to Beijing with 2 children, taking care of big mom and children while going to work, those days were indeed very hard
Soon after the unit colleague Da lin walked into her life, Da Lin liked 2 children very much, usually take good care of them, and from time to time will buy some delicious food for them
The two of them also developed feelings, and later the two decided to live together and gave birth to a young daughter after marriage
However, after the marriage, Obayashi was like a changed person, scolding her and her two children with her ex-husband, and there was no father and husband at all, not only that, she was also outside
Sun Guitian originally wanted to turn a blind eye, but looking at his attitude towards the child, she could not help but feel sad, for the sake of the child and her dignity finally decided to divorce, her two divorces are out of the house
After the divorce, she did not give up the custody of her young daughter, and it was impossible to give the child to a father who had no compassion, and took 3 children and a family of four to live together in a rental house
She was very bitter about the breakdown of this marriage, and ran to the river alone and wept bitterly, thinking that it would not be so painful to jump down
But looking back at her poor 3 children, I immediately dispelled the idea that what would she do if she wasn't in the children
Thinking of this, she said to herself that I would not be a human being in this life, and I did not lack arms and legs, and there was no obstacle that could not be overcome
She said that she would do it, and that she could not support her family at all with that little salary, and that only by doing business would she have a good way out
So I borrowed some money to rent a room next to the Drum Tower and opened a commissary to sell some gadgets
The turning point in her life began in this store
Two out-of-town businessmen came to her commissary, recommended postcards and greeting cards, and asked her if they were selling, and many people didn't know what it was
She is also not sure whether this is good or not, plus there is no capital at all to get the goods, foreign businessmen see that she is honest and reliable, and then sell and then give money
We live in a nearby hotel, you sell it and send the money over on the line, I didn't expect these postcards to sell into Internet celebrity goods, especially best-selling, at that time in Beijing she was the originator of selling greeting cards [Like]
Once a newspaper reporter passed by her house and watched her open a shop with her children, very busy, and chatted with her, when he knew that she was such a great mother
The reporter was also full of emotions, and directly wrote an article about her life and published it in the newspaper, which made people have more respect for this great mother for a while, and many people came to buy her greeting cards
You can imagine how good the business was at that time, every day was a long queue, busy
This is the first pot of gold she earned in her life, and the first thing she thought after earning money was to buy a big house and let the children have a warm home
She only had 6,000 yuan in her hand at the time, so she borrowed money from relatives and friends everywhere, and finally spent 26,000 yuan to buy a courtyard next to the Forbidden City, and her consul at that time was Fu Biao
Sun Guitian and Fu Biao had a very good relationship privately, Fu Biao called her an old mother, and one day Fu Biao came to her house and told her that director Feng Xiaogang wanted to make a New Year film
Mother, do you want to play, Sun Guitian happily agreed, and the courtyard in Feng Xiaogang's movie "Party A and Party B" in 1997 is Sun Guitian's family
Sun Guitian also had a drama addiction in it, and the second aunt she played played this rural woman to life
The white shirt she was wearing at that time was still taken off from the uncle who was watching the liveliness on the side of the road and lent it to her
In order to conform to the image of rural women, she also fought, and she successfully entered the film and television circle with this film, when she was 55 years old
In 2002, a "Family with Children" made Sun Guitian once again known to the people of the whole country, everyone called her the national grandmother, and the most classic line in the play was, my grandson I myself hurt
In 2008, a "Warm Spring" made many people cry and swollen their eyes, and Sun Guitian played vanilla's mother in it, so that everyone could once again see her extraordinary acting skills
More and more of the drama is getting better and better, and later she has bought a lot of real estate, including a courtyard, as long as she has money, she will buy a house, because she feels that divorce owes too much to the children
She could only feel at ease by redoubling her efforts to earn more of her children's inheritance, but it was because of these houses that she was miserable
The 3 children are always trying to find out when she will divide the property, and she is very sad about the children's actions, so she decided to discuss how to divide it together, and in her words, whoever obeys will have more points, otherwise she can only be satisfied with the status quo
The son did not like the bungalow that is, the courtyard, she bought him a 3-bedroom and a one-bedroom apartment, the eldest daughter also bought a 3-bedroom and a shop, planning to give 2 sets of courtyard to the younger daughter, because the younger daughter takes the most care of her
Later, because of the incompatibility between the brothers and sisters in these real estate families, the eldest daughter once had to break off the mother-daughter relationship with her, even if she met on the road, she pretended to turn a blind eye, and the old man Sun Guitian really did not expect his children to be so cruel
Later, Sun Guitian also wanted to open, no matter what, he had to hold the property in his own hands, and he would never let go until the moment he left
In order for her children not to quarrel over the separation of the family property after a hundred years, so she has now made a will, and everything will be distributed according to her wishes
But the weather is unpredictable, the only son died of illness in 2017, the white-haired people sent black-haired people, so that Sun Guitian suffered an unprecedented blow, and now he is slowly coming out
Now that the social pressure is too great, people's desires are getting higher and higher, sometimes think about family affection in front of money is really so vulnerable? It's worth thinking about
I hope Grandma Sun Guitian is healthy and safe!