The national grandmother Sun Guitian, the most regrettable thing in this life is to spend 26,000 yuan to buy the courtyard next to the Forbidden City.
For the sake of this quadrangle, the family affection is no longer and falls apart. Sun Guitian still has tears in his eyes when he talks about it.
Sun Guitian's life has been full of twists and turns. Before she became a "national grandmother", her experience had nothing to do with acting.
Sun Guitian's father was a well-known wealthy businessman in Beijing, and Sun Guitian's biological mother was his father's third wife.
When Sun Guitian was two years old, a serious illness took her mother's life, and she was handed over by her father to be raised by the eldest wife, who also regarded her as her own.
It's a pity that when Sun Guitian was 7 years old, his father died unexpectedly when he went out to inspect trade routes, leaving only a few women in the family, and no one knew how to take care of the family property and make a living. The family has to live by pawning the family property.
The days went by and the poorer and poorer, and later, Sun Guitian and his adoptive mother were reluctant to buy two portions even to drink a bowl of bean juice; I bought a fire spoon, felt fragrant, brought it to my grandmother, and had to wrap my arms around my grandmother's waist, stuff it into the old man's mouth, and cry while eating.
Poor children are sensible early, and Sun Guitian is no exception.
When he was 16 years old, his cousin in the Great Northern Wilderness wrote to him, saying that the local Peking Opera Troupe was recruiting students and encouraged Sun Guitian to apply for the exam.
At that time, in the Great Northern Wilderness, food was scarce, and the sky was full of dust, for the sake of his family and his future, Sun Guitian still bid farewell to his adoptive mother and came to the Great Northern Wilderness.
This Beijing girl who speaks fluent Mandarin was admitted to the local Peking Opera troupe, and she is very popular. Her arrival also attracted the attention of a teacher surnamed Yan.
Mr. Yan was the oldest teacher in the troupe, and he was in his early thirties at the time, much older than Sun Guitian. At first, Sun Guitian didn't pay attention to it, and regarded Teacher Yan's concern as a pure teacher's concern for students.
With the increase of time together, everyone else in the troupe saw that Mr. Yan had a special meaning for Sun Guitian, and Sun Guitian felt a little bit of understanding.
At that time, she was too young to feel that there was a person who knew cold and hot and felt sorry for herself, thinking that this was love. Coupled with the enthusiastic matchmaking of his colleagues, Sun Guitian and Mr. Yan became a family, and soon gave birth to a son and a daughter.
Shortly after the birth of his daughter, Sun Guitian received a telegram from Beijing saying that his adoptive mother was seriously ill and needed to be taken care of.
At this time, she had been separated from her adoptive mother for more than ten years. Sun Guitian discussed with her husband whether her adoptive mother could return to Beijing for development.
Teacher Yan resolutely refused, unable to let go of the stable foundation that had been laid in the Northeast, and was unwilling to give up.
Sun Guitian had no choice but to return to Beijing with a pair of children to raise the children and take care of the adoptive mother.
She fulfilled the responsibility of adopting her daughter, but because of the long-term separation between the two places, she separated her family and fell in love with Teacher Yan.
Her hard work was also seen by another person. His name is Da Lin, and he and Sun Guitian have known each other as early as the Great Northern Wilderness.
Dalin fell in love with Sun Guitian and started a pursuit, Sun Guitian was still hesitating, and Dalin told her that he would definitely treat her two children as his own.
Sun Guitian entered his second marriage. She thought that the bitterness would come to an end, but as a result, married life knocked her into an ice cave.
Dalin is revealing his true colors more and more, not only loves to drink, but also loves to find women. Sun Guitian had a daughter with Dalin at this time, Dalin didn't care about his family, and she was dragged three times at home, and the hard work can be imagined.
Faced with the unrepentant Dalin, Sun Guitian made another decision: divorce.
This time, she left the house again, alone with three children.
The family was crammed into a small house, and every morning, Sun Guitian carried a big basket on his back, squeezed the bus to the suburbs to buy fresh vegetables, and then took them to the corner to set up a stall. The rest of the time, I do laundry and housework, and I break a penny in half and spend it.
It wasn't until later that she spotted an opportunity: the greeting cards in the shops near the school were popular with the children. She was also really decisive enough to take out all the money she had saved over the years and order greeting cards with novel patterns. These greeting cards were all snatched up at once.
This money really became a big savings for Sun Guitian back then.
In 1980, 38-year-old Sun Guitian finally saved enough money, she wanted to improve her living environment, and bought a courtyard house near the Forbidden City for 26,000.
This is the hard-earned money that a single mother has accumulated for many years, and she and her children finally have a real home.
But she never expected that this courtyard house had laid hidden dangers for the future of this family.
Back then, Fu Biao was also Sun Guitian's neighbor, Sun Guitian was a righteous man, and the two families had a good relationship.
In 1997, when Feng Xiaogang was filming "Party A and Party B", he needed a clean and suitable courtyard for filming. Fu Biao thought about it, isn't Sun Guitian's family suitable?
Fu Biao pulled the strings in the middle, and the courtyard of Sun Guitian's house not only became the filming location of the movie, but she also played a small cameo role in the movie.
This cameo became a turning point in Sun Guitian's life. She already had a foundation for learning Peking Opera, and from this time on, Sun Guitian entered the showbiz and participated in the filming of many plays.
In 2004, "Family with Children" was a great success, and Sun Guitian was called "Grandma Liu Xing" wherever he went.
Seeing that the days are getting smoother and smoother, gradually, there are conflicts at home.
At first, Sun Guitian helped her son and eldest daughter buy a house each, and a few years later, she wanted to leave the courtyard house to her younger daughter, but her son and eldest daughter strongly opposed it.
The son and eldest daughter ran to the house and quarreled with Sun Guitian, Sun Guitian was also angry, and he had no contact with them for a long time.
In 2017, his son was diagnosed with cancer, Sun Guitian felt sorry for his son, and resumed contact. She was bent on taking her son back from the hands of death, but unfortunately, her son's life still couldn't be saved. The bitterness of a white-haired person sending a black-haired person was pierced in her heart.
She thought that her eldest daughter's anger should be dissipated at this time, but who knows, the eldest daughter still resents her mother and blames her for not having a bowl of water.
Sun Guitian said, "Don't make any noise, I'll help you buy a suite." The eldest daughter refused, and she is still a stranger to her mother.
Today, 81-year-old Sun Guitian lives alone, only his youngest daughter, and often goes home to see his mother and chat with her about family life.
Sun Guitian's reputation has always been very good, and he is kind, upright, and righteous. Unexpectedly, after suffering in the first half of his life, he finally relied on his own strength to pull the eldest 3 children, but in his later years, he ended up in such a situation.
It is difficult to read, it is difficult to cross, it is a blessing to have many sons and many daughters, but it is not peaceful, and it has become a disaster.
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