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Sun Guitian: 2 marriages and 2 clean houses, relying on their own comeback, sitting on 300 million courtyards

Marriage is a woman's second choice that can determine the fate of life, and a good marriage can change a woman's life.

Sun Guitian, an actor who played a grandmother in the TV series, starred in Feng Xiaogang's "Party A and Party B" debut at the age of 55, and the 60-year-old fire, of which the most impressive public is the role of Liu Xing's grandmother in "Family with Children".

She had two marriages, the first husband took her to study Peking Opera and entered the troupe, and the second husband guided her in the direction of life, but both ended in divorce, and they all chose to leave the house.

Finally, he spent 26,000 yuan on his own investment to buy a set of courtyards in Beijing, and now the market price has soared and the valuation is as high as 300 million.

Why did these two marriages end in divorce, why did Sun Guitian choose to get out of the house, and how is she living now?

Sun Guitian was born in Beijing in 1942 to a wealthy family, the son of a successful businessman. Her family was also a large family at the time, so her father married a total of three wives.

Sun Guitian's mother is the third wife of his father, although his father married three wives, but neither the eldest mother nor the second mother gave birth to a child for his father. Therefore, sun Guitian, as the only daughter in the family, her parents gave her all the favors.

But the happy life is very short, her mother died when she was two years old, so she grew up with Sun Guitian.

When he was a child, Sun Guitian was also very naughty, once during the Mid-Autumn Festival, tributes were prepared, and adults carefully placed things, and as a result, Sun Guitian secretly ate tributes when adults did not pay attention.

After being found by his aunt in the end, he was beaten up fiercely, and Sun Guitian said that he remembered it clearly so far.

The eldest grandson, Guitian's father, fell ill and left when she was 11 years old. In this way, the family's economic conditions also plummeted, in order to continue to live, the mother sold the family property, the family squeezed in a small and broken rental house, but the mother is very good to Sun Guitian, the family has food is the first to let her eat first, spoil her as her own daughter.

After reaching the age of 16, in order to reduce the burden on the family, Sun Guitian went out early to work and earn money to help the family.

Unfortunately, at that time, I was too young to accept myself in many places.

At this time, Sun Guitian's uncle, who sang in the northeast northern wilderness, wrote a letter saying that his group was recruiting students, so that she could come and try it.

Without the slightest concern, Sun Guitian received the letter, so he packed his bags and went to his uncle.

Because of his outstanding appearance and tall height, Sun Guitian smoothly entered the regiment.

After entering the troupe, Sun Guitian was arranged by his uncle to study Peking Opera, although he was a peking opera actor in business, he basically ran dragon sets in various dramas.

However, Sun Guitian's Mandarin is quite standard, so in his spare time, he also worked as an announcer.

By chance, the troupe temporarily needed to find an actress, just at this time Sun Guitian was broadcasting, the leader of the troupe was attracted by this voice, and immediately asked if he wanted to meet this person.

After seeing Sun Guitian, the leader immediately nodded that this was the person he was looking for, and immediately decided to let her play this role.

As a result, I did not expect that Sun Guitian's performance was rich and layered, coupled with fluent Mandarin, and played this role very successfully.

In this way, he was given the opportunity to enter the Peking Opera Troupe for professional training, and at the same time successfully stayed in the Peking Opera Troupe.

Since then, Sun Guitian has truly embarked on the road of art, and at the same time met her first husband here.

The two were initially partners of mentors and friends, and Sun Guitian affectionately called him Teacher Yan.

Teacher Yan is also from Beijing, so the two are also fellow countrymen, so there are many common topics, Teacher Yan also often takes care of her daily life and pays special attention to her.

The leader of the Peking Opera Troupe also saw Teacher Yan's thoughts, so he found Sun Guitian's uncle and hoped that Sun Guitian could marry Teacher Yan. The uncle thought that there had been no one to take care of her, and Teacher Yan was gentle and cultured, so he and the regiment leader intended to match the two.

Originally, the two had a good feeling for each other under the day and night, and with the help of the leaders, the two soon walked together into marriage.

But in fact, before the two got married, Sun Guitian also made an ideological struggle, because Teacher Yan was a full round older than himself, and the age gap was also an insurmountable gap.

Finally, after three days of thinking, he decided to marry Teacher Yan, and This year Sun Guitian was just 20 years old.

However, in addition to the need for affection, marriage also needs to face the small frictions of tea, rice, oil and salt and life.

Soon after the marriage, Sun Guitian became pregnant, but at this time, the big environmental impact, the Peking Opera Troupe has been disbanded, and there is also a financial burden.

After giving birth to her daughter in october, Sun Guitian threw herself into work, hoping that through her own efforts, she could alleviate the family's predicament.

But not long after, Sun Guitian became pregnant with a second child, and she was not allowed to quit her job to go home to raise a baby, so she became a housewife.

Originally, the family's economy was relatively poor, and after returning home, Sun Guitian also put all his thoughts on the family and children.

The difference in the concept of life, the oppression of economic conditions, the contradiction between the two people also continues to appear, in the quarrel after quarrel, the feelings of the two people are gradually broken.

With the improvement of the economy, the Beijing area developed rapidly, at this time Sun Guitian proposed to her husband that the family return to Beijing to develop.

However, this proposal was strongly opposed by her husband, and Sun Guitian looked at the family that was strapped in the northern wilderness, and here he could not see hope at all.

Beijing sent a letter saying that The aunt accidentally sprained her leg, which made Sun Guitian determined to return to Beijing.

So Sun Guitian still returned to Beijing, originally thinking that after he did this, his husband would come back with him, but he did not think that his husband did not have the idea of returning to Beijing.

At this time, Sun Guitian understood that the values of himself and her husband were fundamentally different, he just wanted to go through a plain life in peace, but he was still young and wanted to go to see the outside world.

Then, also for the sake of the future of the children, only divorced children can return to Beijing.

Sun Guitian finally proposed a divorce to Teacher Yan, and he could get out of the house, but there was only one requirement, that is, the custody of the child.

In the end, Teacher Yan agreed to her divorce request, and after completing the formalities, Sun Guitian took the two children to Beijing.

During that time, in order to raise two children and two elderly people, the burden of the family's life fell on her shoulders.

At that time, I took over my aunt's job on the street, and occasionally did some part-time work in my spare time to maintain the living expenses of the whole family.

Although life was very difficult at that time, the family could live together, and Sun Guitian was also very satisfied.

It may also be such an independent and self-reliant female charm that deeply attracts the unit colleague Lao Lin.

After understanding sun Guitian's situation, he was even more in love with this strong and gentle woman.

Usually, he will send some vegetables, briquettes and other daily necessities to Sun Guitian, and occasionally bring snacks and food to children and the elderly.

In fact, the Sun Guitian made by Lao Lin is also in the eyes, but the last failed marriage makes her also afraid of walking into the next relationship.

Old Lin also saw her concerns, and this day directly expressed his intentions to Sun Guitian, and at the same time directly said to her: "I see that you have to take care of children and the elderly alone is really hard, or the two of us live together and let me share it for you." ”

This remark completely touched Sun Guitian, plus the big mother in the family also advised her, Da lin is a good person can be considered, so the two finally came together and became husband and wife.

After the marriage, the two lived happily and gave birth to a daughter soon after.

As a result, I did not expect that these happy lives did not last long, and after giving birth to my little daughter, the economy also became tight, and Da lin was always biased that her little daughter had good food and drink, and secretly gave it to her little daughter, and the other two children could only watch.

In addition, the mother-in-law not only harassed Sun Guitian at every turn, but also hated her for being a second marriage, saying that she was not worthy of her son.

If these are only minor problems, then Lao Lin's cheating has made Sun Guitian completely lose hope for this marriage.

Less than a year after getting married, Lao Lin was picking flowers and weeds outside, and these things spread to his ears.

After knowing this matter, Sun Guitian did not hesitate and proposed a divorce to Lao Lin, because she did not want such a person of bad moral character to accompany her children, which would have a great impact on the children in the future.

At first, Lao Lin did not agree to divorce, and at the same time would not give up the custody of his daughter, in order to get the man to agree to divorce and earn the custody of the child, Sun Guitian once again chose to go out of the house in exchange for his freedom and the custody of the child.

In this way, Lao Lin agreed to her divorce request, and Sun Guitian's life after the divorce was quite difficult, and the family of five was crammed into a room of less than 20 square meters, and the bed was temporarily replaced with cardboard.

After the divorce, Sun Guitian also fell into depression for a period of time, but for the sake of her children, she knew that she could not continue to be so passive.

Fortunately, Sun Guitian is skillful and is doing the handicraft of rag dolls when he is with Lao Lin.

Because he did a good job, he was still favored by the factory director and was willing to accept the rag dolls he made. In this way, Sun Guitian led more than a dozen workers to make rag dolls for the factory.

Raising a few children is indeed very stressful, in order to earn more money later, Sun Guitian found a friend to borrow a sum of money, rented a small shop and began to do a small business.

Although he can't make a lot of money, he can barely maintain the basic living expenses of the family.

Sun Guitian did inherit his father's business acumen and investment vision, when the rise of greeting cards, not only cheap but also very good to sell, so the loan purchased a large number of greeting cards.

I didn't expect to be on the shelves, the people who came to buy were endless, it was completely the current Internet red shop, and the popularity was really bursting. Finally, Sun Guitian earned his first huge amount of 20,000 yuan by selling greeting cards.

She added the 20,000 yuan to the 6,000 yuan she had accumulated before, and bought a courtyard in Beijing, just to give her children a home in Beijing, but she did not expect that the current valuation of the courtyard was as high as 300 million.

Not only did the investment in the courtyard appreciate, Sun Guitian also met the guide who took her into the entertainment circle here, and this person was Fu Biao.

At that time, Fu Biao was not yet famous, and his life was quite difficult.

Sun Guitian knew that Fu Biao lived alone, so he always called him to eat at home together, and anyway, one more person would have an extra pair of chopsticks.

Kung Fu pays off, and after Fu Biao starred in several movies, he finally opened up his popularity.

At that time, Feng Xiaogang's movie "Party A and Party B" was preparing to be filmed, and he needed to find a small courtyard, so Fu Biao recommended Sun Guitian's family.

Coming to Sun Guitian's home to shoot, just missing an actor who played the second uncle, Feng Xiaogang took a look at Sun Guitian.

In this way, the 55-year-old Sun Guitian also accidentally entered the show business circle because of this shooting.

After that, Sun Guitian successively received many invitations, and the basic roles were all grandmothers, so everyone gave her the title of "grandmother professional household".

In 2004, the sitcom "Family with Children" was popular all over the country, and the grandmother of Liu Xing, who she played, was well known to the public.

After her own efforts, she finally let her family live a rich life, and the family could live happily together, but she did not expect the sudden death of her son, which made her psychology suffer a great blow, but she had not yet come out of the pain of losing her son, and the child was in a fight for her property.

Originally, he had already written his will, in order to be afraid that one day he would suddenly leave, and the child would turn against each other because of his property.

Seeing the children's practice, Sun Guitian was angry, so he sent his will to the notary office for notarization, and if he continued to make trouble like this, he would also donate all his property, so that none of you wanted to get it.

Because of Sun Guitian's approach, the eldest daughter directly severed the mother-daughter relationship with herself, and now only the younger daughter accompanies Sun Guitian.

Sun Guitian, who has now passed the age of ancient rarity, will occasionally appear in TV dramas, continuing to play the role of grandmother and bring works to the audience.

Perhaps Sun Guitian's life is not perfect, bereavement in early years, lost his son in middle age, and his children broke with him in his later years and divorced twice in his life. However, she was still able to climb out of the quagmire of pain and rely on her own efforts to get to this day step by step.

It can be said that the happiness of a woman's life is not pinned on the hands of others, what we need is to pin all our hopes on our own hands, as long as we are strong enough, we can definitely break out of our own piece of the sky.

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