The commissary opened at the entrance of the school is definitely related to the school, and what is earned is the children's money.
Attentive parents have found that there will be a commissary at the entrance of the school. And the commissary is basically related to the school. Even if the market is sluggish, these commissaries can run well. There is a group of students, and there is no business in the commissary.
Some places have introduced policies that do not allow primary school students to bring pocket money, and children do not understand things and always like to spend money indiscriminately. Therefore, not allowing pocket money is actually protecting parents, and some parents are not appreciative.
In Shaoguan, Guangdong Province, a father found that his child had stolen the family's pocket money, so he took his child to the police station, hoping to use the police to scare the child, but instead was taught by the police: don't always scare the child with the police.
In Shaoguan, Guangdong Province, a child stole money from his family and was taken to the police station by his father to be educated
It happened in Shaoguan, Guangdong Province, when a pair of parents discovered that the 7-year-old had stolen two yuan from the family. In order to educate him, his parents took him to the police station, and the police communicated with the children.
For the children, the police uncle is the one who makes them afraid, the father intends to take him to the police station, the child is crying the whole time, perhaps aware of the mistake, but the father does not compromise.
This is the second time that a child has stolen the family's money, not that the family does not give him pocket money, that the school is not allowed to bring pocket money, and the child steals pocket money, always going to the commissary opposite the school to scratch the lottery. It has an impact on the values of young children.
It's just that after the police have educated the children, they have also educated the parents, believing that there is a problem with the parents' education and should not use the police to scare the children.
It is certainly not right for children to steal money, and they should not go to scratch card lottery. If you develop such a habit when you are a child, you will be very troublesome when you grow up. May go gambling, will do illegal things.
Fathers are right to educate children, but children steal money twice, it may be that parents usually do not pay enough attention, parents are in business, may be busy, should pay more attention to the child's inner thoughts, rather than looking for the police to scare children.
Educate your child that you can't always scare him with the police
From this incident, it can be felt that parents have a bit of a problem with their children's education methods, and they should not always scare children with police cars, and children are timid and sometimes leave psychological shadows.
Parents' approach is also a helpless move, they should first educate their children, or work together with teachers to help children establish correct values.
Pocket money is not allowed in schools, just so that children can develop good habits. Parents should also transmit the correct concept of consumption to their children. Children do not understand the meaning of scratching awards, and parents should tell their children that this is not what a child should do.
Parents are the best teachers for children, and their daily words and deeds will affect their children's behavior. Therefore, whether it is learning or cultivating the three views, parents should lead by example, rather than looking for the police to scare their children.
The police is a symbol of justice, if you always scare children, it will make the children feel that the image of the police is not good, not only can not play a role in educating children, but also may denigrate the image of the police in the hearts of teenagers.
The three views of man are definitely not formed when they were young
Although the matter is very small, but can not be neglected, the child has made a small mistake, if the parents do not realize, no one tells the parents, such mistakes gradually accumulate, and finally develop a big mistake. At that time, it was too late to correct it.
However, the three views of man are not entirely formed when they were young. When I was a child, it was only my parents who made a guide, and the real three views were changed by the things that a person experienced, the roads they walked, and the people they saw, which changed with the changes of time. It could be twenty, it could be thirty, and everyone is different.
A child does not understand what the three views are, they only know that the parents let them do and do not let them do, even if there are really three views, the child's three views and the parents are not exactly the same.
Children don't know too much, they don't know that the behavior of taking money is stealing, parents can do, just tell them that this is the wrong behavior, rather than on the line, must develop their own think of the correct three views. It is even more impossible to use your own extreme thoughts to affect your child's life.
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