In the evening, my son and I fought the "plush toy war", and the two women were full of energy, physically and mentally comfortable, completely relaxed, and unrestrained.
I also play with my children a lot, but they are all the kind of "majestic parents playing", and today this kind of complete selflessness and dedication is the first time for me. This is the first time I've been so involved in a skin war with my child.
He threw me with a toy, and I threw him with a toy. Make a good decision in advance, try not to throw it on other fragile things, and don't throw it in the face of the other party.
In the process of coming and going, the laughter became more and more cheerful, the body became more and more relaxed, and the distance between the two of us became closer and closer. I also understand why a child's first task is to play, why it is said that skin kiss.
Before, he used to play with his grandmother and his father, so the child has always been closer to his grandmother and father.
Especially his dad. His father often played such games with him, and although his father often killed him, he was closer to his father. Two years ago, the child's wish was to "be like a father."
But, unlike me.
It made me think again, "What is love?" ", reminds me of a nursery rhyme again.
Between parents and children, love is very simple, love is the kiss of the skin, love is the affinity of the son to relax and truly be themselves.
The more relaxed a child is, the more his brain develops and his body and mind become more sound.
The more relaxed the parents are, the more authentic and rich the love presented.
After tonight's play, I asked him if you liked this "crazy" mom or the "gentle mom" before. The child's answer did not hesitate, the former.
Indeed, I know that the gentleness I had before was only superficial. Because, there are many knots in their hearts, they often can't feel love, obviously surrounded by love, but they often don't feel love, let alone love themselves.
Therefore, I always feel that I am not close enough to my children, and I always feel that I am not close enough to my parents.
My mother-in-law is the wisest, and she has joked before that she feels like I am a stepmother.
I used to be super blind, but I can't forget this song as soon as I hear it. It is a nursery rhyme heard on a spring evening.
"If you love me, you hug me, and if you love me, you kiss me." If you love me, you praise me. If you love me, you will accompany me. ”
Love is a silent language.
Love, very simple.
Love is like a child, playing crazy with children.
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