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As soon as "The Perfect Partner" was launched, it has been spat upon since it began 5 episodes, but I feel fine, after all, everyone plays a different role, and the pressure of life is different, so everyone has every opinion.
The four people in the play, especially the female second Wu Min, have been complained about, I really think that the female second is very difficult, while acting in the TV series, but also have to be ruthlessly ridiculed by the audience.
Originally thought that Wu Min did have some problems pulling a face all day, but then I felt that this was caused by Lin Qingkun, if in life your other half of you love to answer to yourself, take care of other women carefully, gentle and considerate, everything can be thought of in advance, what will you do.
I feel that Wu Min should be too lacking in love, the play learned that she married from college, and then had children, took care of the children herself, life is very monotonous, she did not even want to trouble the neighbors when her hands were burned at the beginning. The heroine sent her flowers, which was not worth anything to her financially, but she was very happy, and she could easily satisfy a very simple mother.
I found out, how old complaining about people, male second Lin Qingkun should not be complained about, do not care about their children but care about a lawyer.
This drama reflects real life very much, a drama of positive energy. The two families in the play are strong women and weak men, and strong men and weak women plus a desire to control.
"The Perfect Partner" gave me an angelic perspective. I will talk about this strength and weakness in terms of Lin Qingkun and Wu Min's family. I think ah, in the life of both parties, such as one party is very strong, or one party is very controlling, this marriage I can not say how it will be, but there is a high probability that it will break, this is not a gender issue.
Just like Wu Min in the play, a woman, a new era woman, you are clear about everything arranged by others, you can do whatever you want, so will you like this feeling?
Lin Qingkun's biggest problem is that he only cares about himself, regardless of his family, he regards the family as a "siege", my siege is a derogatory term, his existence means beyond the level of marriage, does not reach the wife's partner, the child's father's duties, the only thing to give is money.
Of course, many people may say, if I were Wu Min, I would take money every day, spend flowers, and eat, but Wu Min is a character who lacks love, and after graduating from college, she is a housewife, and she has no feelings for people and society.
The child's growth must also need the company of the father, it can be seen that the child is introverted, but after encountering the good friend of Jump, he is cheerful.
Why so fight for the cause, I feel that this person seems to want a sense of achievement, in Shanghai a set of luxury villas, 3 luxury cars, this strength still needs to be so desperate, the identity given in the play he is not a bottom person, why should he have the identity of the upper class to do the things of the bottom people.
In the play, the marriage of Chen Shan and Sun Lei is destined to be much stronger than the marriage of Lin Qingkun and Wu Min. In fact, I think this is a true portrayal of real life, which family always has to have a pay.
In fact, I can understand the situation of Chen Shan and Sun Lei's family, only a house, a car, hard work is still OK, fight for the career, that Lin Qingkun is so rich, do you need to fight like this, then what he wants is a sense of accomplishment.
If Lin Qingkun still has a pure desire for control over Wu Min and has always taken his career as the core, then their marriage is doomed to not last long. Wu Min also understood the words of the eldest sister next door, so where should she go.
This drama I still hope to exchange partners more, because these two families are not a type of person, the name of the perfect partner should be both divorced, and then in this process, slowly find each other's good, and finally get back together, it is estimated that the TV series should also be the original family, or a halfway couple, can not be this kind of separation, and then together.
In a family, strong women and weak men or strong men and weak women can be, but also be properly put down, do not have a desire to control, that is your partner, is your child's mother (father), not your nanny.
A family especially has children there is always a family to pay for the whole family, even if you work hard for each other, it is impossible to become a balance of balance, and you strengthen your own career too much, more is the lack of family companionship, and then what is the use of money, if you have the opportunity, you still hope to have time to accompany your family.