The child is the hope of a family, every parent hopes that their child is the best, the parents are different, the way of education of the child is different, although the starting point of each parent is for the good of the child, all out of love for the child, but some parents are not correct in the way of education of the child.
In the era of big data, people will communicate and attend classes with their classmates and teachers through mobile phones, and primary school students are the same, they also have their own mobile phones, and they will communicate with their classmates and friends through mobile phones.
Many parents are worried that mobile phones will affect their children's learning, and parents should take a look at what their children do with their mobile phones to monitor what their children do with their mobile phones.
When children grow up, they already have self-awareness, some privacy is not willing to let parents know, in order to prevent mothers from peeking at their privacy, many primary school students and mothers fight wits and courage, making people cry and laugh.
The mother from Urumqi, Xinjiang, wanted to know about her child's recent situation, so she secretly got her child's mobile phone, opened the child's WeChat chat box, and found the child and friends chatting in English.
In order to prevent his mother from peeking at the chat history, the child really tried his best.
However, people are not as good as the sky, the child is too naïve after all, he may feel that the mother does not understand English, who ever thought, the simplest English mother of primary school students can still understand, and WeChat long press also has a translation function.
The things shared by this mother are very interesting, making many netizens laugh, but this can't help but make people reflect on the parents' education methods, the child does not want the parents to see, but the parents secretly look at the child's chat history, do not respect the child's privacy.
Mom's friend Aunt Lin has been very upset recently, because Aunt Lin and her daughter Qianqian have a conflict, Qianqian is studying in high school this year, she and her mother's words have gradually become less, every week when she comes home, she takes the mobile phone to play in her room, chats with friends, Aunt Lin is very curious about who her daughter is chatting with, this day taking advantage of Qianqian to go out to buy food, Aunt Lin picked up Qianqian's mobile phone, she tried the password many times, and began to look through Qianqian's chat history.
Qianqian came back and found something wrong, asked Aunt Lin if she peeked at her mobile phone, yelled at Aunt Lin, felt that Aunt Lin did not respect herself, she closed the door, did not speak to Aunt Lin for a week, Aunt Lin felt that as a mother, understanding her daughter's things was not wrong, and she refused to take the initiative to bow her head to her daughter to admit her mistakes.
Parents want to know about their children out of concern for their children, but how should parents understand their children's affairs?
Peeking into your child's diaries and phones is the least sensible way to do that.
Parents should learn to respect the privacy of their children, give their children a certain space, do not overly interfere in the children's affairs, adolescent children are rebellious, parents forced to snoop on privacy will only make them feel that they are not respected, children become more rebellious, affecting the parent-child relationship.
Parents want to understand the child's affairs, you can choose to communicate with the child, of course, do not as a parent to order the child, preach the child, the child's heart is very sensitive, to communicate as a friend, let the child open to you, say their own inner things, this can not only know the child's inner things, but also promote the harmony of the parent-child relationship.
Don't force the child to do what to do, let the child go according to your ideas, love someone is to achieve him with your love, not to trap him with your love and let him be what you want.
To respect the child's personal wishes, sometimes you can give the child appropriate advice, say your thoughts, and let the child decide whether to listen or not, so that the child feels respected and will be willing to share things with you.
The best parent-child relationship is to be with the child like a good friend, the child is willing to say, the parents are willing to listen, the parents and the child communicate happily, give the child advice, respect the child, do not sneak into the child's privacy, sometimes do this, can only push the child farther and farther, to achieve the opposite effect.
To get the respect and love of children, we must first learn to respect children.