A parent who was admitted to Tsinghua University summed up the four experiences of his child's admission to Tsinghua University: a healthy body, innate talent, super anti-stress ability and excellent acquired resources.
What does the acquired resources refer to: teachers, parents, schools, because the child has these four aspects, the child entered Tsinghua University to study, in fact, no matter which child, with these four aspects, will become very excellent, and the more you have, the more excellent.
In all the acquired resources, the role of parents is the largest, parents are the child's first teacher, primary school junior high school, parents will also tutor children, it can be said that in the primary school junior high school period, the child's performance and parents have a great relationship.
But some parents said: in high school, we can not help the child, the level of knowledge is not enough to tutor the child, and even when the child reaches adolescence, there are many problems in communicating with the child, but it is urgent to be close to the child's heart, and they do not know how to be good.
How do smart parents help their children go to high school?
First, pay attention to the physical and mental development of children
Some parents, children to high school, to prepare a large number of nutritional products for children, so that children eat and drink enough, so that they have the strength to learn, parents are right to do this, but pay attention to the child's physical health at the same time, but also pay attention to the child's mental health, so that the child's all-round development.
Parents should often communicate with their children, high school children are in adolescence, they will face the college entrance examination, the pressure is very high, but they sometimes do not know how to relieve the pressure, parents should communicate with their children more, so that children do not have too much pressure, children try their best.
If the child's grades have regressed, he is very remorseful, and parents should also comfort the child and tell the child: It doesn't matter, the next time you try harder, a failure is nothing.
Second, do not put too much pressure on your child
Many parents of high school students say the most to their children every day is: you have to do a good college entrance examination, the college entrance examination is your only way out, when the child reads the third year of high school, the pressure on themselves is already very large, parents are giving their children pressure, children may be overwhelmed by pressure, they feel that parents do not understand them, have been putting pressure on them, they have no way to relieve pressure, these pressures have become a heavy heart, may lead to their grades decline or even emotional collapse, which is also the theorem that things must be reversed.
Some parents want to change the fate of a family through their children, try their best to make up lessons for their children, make children more excellent, parents must accept the child's ordinariness, sometimes, the child tries his best, do not ask the child too much, too many requirements will only become endless pressure, so that the child is breathless.
Third, communicate more with teachers
High school students, the most contact every day is the teacher, parents should go to the teacher every once in a while to ask about the child's situation, whether it is the grade or the child's psychology, we must care about it.
Ask the teacher about the child's recent performance in school and tell the teacher how the child is doing at home, the teacher has many years of experience, has seen all kinds of children, and will also share some educational experience with parents, parents can learn from it.
Parents can understand the child's psychology by reading books, why children are not willing to do this, children are sometimes unwilling to share with parents, parents can understand the child's psychology by reading books, so as to help children.
Parents are a very important resource in the process of children's senior year, parents should also continue to learn how to become qualified parents, how to better accompany their children through the three years of high school, both accompanied by children and helped children, with their own love to accompany children to a better future.