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If, in this life, you haven't talked about 100 men, then you can't say you know love.
This is a movie bridge that has been very popular lately.
Although it was a movie a few years ago, it reflects the current women's communication demands.
Today's women are more independent and have a lot of life opportunities to choose from.
When faced with feelings, it is not as obedient to the orders of parents as before.
Most women will want to pursue love, to experience love.
And women with a rich history of love, because they have seen thousands of worlds, so it is really difficult for them to fall in love with someone.
Most importantly, women have more contact with the opposite sex after that.
They are no longer simple, and they can see their feelings much more clearly and thoroughly.
They gradually learn to be independent and no longer desire to live dependent on others.
They know that the only thing they can rely on in this world is themselves.
They don't indulge in a relationship and always stop at the right time.
Love is love, and never stick to the formal and worldly vision.
Most of the women who have interacted with many women of the opposite sex will also leave these three details on their bodies.
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Not gullible
When in love, a man's rhetoric is easy to break through a woman.
They will be immersed in love, wrapped up, like newborn babies, emotionally supreme.
But women who have experienced and seen different opposite sexes can always see through the purpose behind each other.
Yang Yang is a North Drifter, and this year is her seventh year of work.
Thirty years old, but there has never been a person who knows cold and heat to accompany him.
The family was anxious, and all kinds of tensions wanted to introduce her to the object, and she never refused, and accepted all the orders.
It's just that after most people meet once, they will say that they are not suitable for her.
It's not because she's ugly;
On the contrary, Yang Yang has a good education, a good figure, a good personality, and his appearance can definitely be regarded as a beautiful woman.
It's just that she has experienced too many fruitless feelings and somewhat does not believe in feelings.
Even if she did meet the right person later, she didn't want to be gullible.
Sometimes, she also envied people who had partners and could have loved ones in this strange city.
But there are also a small part of the time when she looks back on her past emotional experiences and then smiles at them.
Hurt women, it's not that they don't want to start a new relationship over;
It's just that the pain of the past is still vivid, and she naturally won't start easily, after all, no one wants to repeat the same mistakes.
It can be seen that most of the women who have seen countless landscapes do not easily believe in the opposite sex.
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Not dependent
Once a woman has taken the upper part in her mind, then she will really become an independent individual.
In relationships, women often take their true feelings as the primary reference target.
So as to judge whether this relationship is really worth pouring out.
But women who have already gone through some emotional experiences are just the opposite.
Perhaps it was her experience that made her understand that interests and feelings could not be mixed together.
Not only are they financially independent and do not need the relief of men, they are also independent in their thinking.
In the hearts of these women who have had some emotional experience;
She still retains a beautiful vision of the future, but she does not easily pin her emotions on a man.
They deliberately cultivate their ability to survive on their own and think in advance about how to deal with danger.
Experienced women, when danger comes, will have a sense of self-preservation.
Because they have experienced parting, they have experienced the pain of love and not being able to do so.
The more you know that you love, the more painful it is to lose.
Therefore, they never pin their emotions on men, but live strongly and independently in this world.
Non-dependence, independence and autonomy are the strongest labels for these experienced women.
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Not addictive
If you don't love, you will leave decisively, and you will not give the other party any room for maneuver at all.
This is the experience of their countless failures, summed up.
Countless times they fell in love with a person, but experienced the pain after many separations, so they also learned to reason.
In the face of the person you like, you will no longer be addicted, but constantly alert yourself, even if you love again, you are also an independent individual.
Nor will they put all their energy into emotion.
Because they understand that when love is gone, life is still there.
In the eyes of these women, they are not fully aware of life;
Instead, he used his own personal experience and experimented to get a correct solution to emotions.
Love is nothing.
The reason why people are willing to believe is because love can make people feel the beauty of the world.
Even if they love again, they will give each other freedom, and they will give themselves the determination and courage to keep moving forward.
These efforts have allowed them to cope with the dilemmas they face when they lose an emotional relationship.
Not easily trusting others, not plunging themselves into the swamp of love, they are independent and no longer dependent on anyone.
But they still believe that there is love in this world.
It's just that in the face of true love, they may spend more effort on testing than others.