Many parents have the good wish of "hoping for a child to become a dragon, hoping for a girl to become a phoenix", in order to let the child take a step ahead, they will not hesitate to start from the prenatal education to cultivate the baby's various skills.
After all, children do not study well when they are young, have neither knowledge nor understand the principles of being a person, and will suffer losses when they are old.
Kindergarten is the place where babies come into contact with formal education for the first time in the world, where they can make good friends and learn under the guidance of enlightened teachers. No matter how old a person is, it is always exciting to think back to their first day of school.
Recently, kindergarten teacher Jiajia encountered an embarrassing thing. In the painting class, Jia Jia helped Zhuang Zhuang to wear an apron and touched a hard bang thing and found that the child's pockets were bulging.
Worried that she would be hurt, she wanted to temporarily help keep it, but the item she took out made her sad, and it was a voice recorder.
Jiajia immediately understood the parents' intentions and privately contacted the strong mother to inquire. Parents said that because the school's camera can not often see the child, worried that the child will be bullied, so they came up with this method.
Jiajia felt very wronged, she has been taking care of her children very carefully, but she did not expect to be so jealous of her parents, so she reflected this matter to the school.
After understanding the situation, the principal believed that the parents' approach was neither respectful nor trusting of the school, and finally made the decision to expel the child, and unceremoniously said to the parents: Quit school.
Many netizens think that the behavior of parents is understandable, and kindergartens make a big fuss. Some netizens also believe that the parents' approach has greatly hurt the teacher's self-esteem, and if they cannot trust each other, no matter how many voice recorders and video recorders are not enough.
In this regard, home-school interaction is inevitable, but the premise of interaction is based on mutual trust. Although many kindergartens now have many negative events, they cannot be generalized.
Parents are the child's first teacher, and their behavior will subtly affect the child. If parents do not trust the teacher, the child will naturally not accept the teacher calmly. We encourage seeking common ground while reserving differences, but correct three-dimensional education is important for children.
What should parents do for the sake of their children's healthy and strong growth?
1. Choose a school with a good reputation and high trust
Schools with good reputations tend to be excellent in terms of both the environment and the teaching staff. Only when it is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, will there be word of mouth praise.
For parents, a good teacher is better than all publicity, which can save both peace of mind and peace of mind; for children, a good teacher will benefit them for life.
2. Actively cooperate with the reasonable requirements of the teacher
Parents sending their children to school does not mean that they can be the treasurer. There are more students in the school, and the strength of the teacher alone cannot pay attention to every baby in all aspects.
Therefore, parents should actively cooperate with the work of teachers, take the initiative to participate in parent-child activities, and cheer for the baby.
3. Treat as equals and communicate sincerely
The relationship between teachers and parents is not a relationship of water and fire. Everyone's original intention is to hope that children will grow up healthily, learn and succeed, and strive for the same goal.
Either party's arrogance will exacerbate the inequality of the relationship, and it will only be the children who will be hurt in the end. Therefore, parents should establish friendly and cooperative relations with teachers, communicate in time when encountering problems, and respect each other.
A healthy home-school relationship will not only create a good learning atmosphere for children, but also help children form a good character of respecting teachers and loving classmates.
Teachers are diligent gardeners, parents are the warmest harbor for children, as long as the two work hard together, children can grow into towering trees.