There's a video of a mom holding a 5- or 6-year-old girl sitting on the subway. There was a black man sitting next to the mother, and the little girl seemed to see the black man for the first time, staring at him curiously.
The black man also noticed the little girl's gaze and took the initiative to "say hello" to the little girl, but the little girl did not move or stared at him.
Then the black man's behavior became more and more funny, and he did everything in his power, one would smile at the little girl, the other would wave to her, but the helpless girl did not respond. The contrast between the girl and the black man amuses the passengers.
In real life, many parents have encountered this situation, how should we guide children not to be afraid of birth?
First, encourage and praise children
Children do not dare to talk to strangers, parents should encourage praise, the tone should be calm, do not have a sense of urgency. Praise more, and over time the child will overcome fear and timidity and become more confident.
Second, parents should set an example for their children
Parents should set a good example for their children in normal times. If the child is too introverted, shy and timid, parents should subtly influence the child through demonstration. For example, in ordinary times, I met other parents who took the initiative to greet.
When the child sees the parents' demonstration, he will think that taking the initiative to say hello is not a difficult thing, but it is relaxed and pleasant, reducing the psychological pressure, and he will also be willing to play with strange children and gradually overcome his timidity.
In short, children are afraid of birth is a very normal thing, each child's personality has its own characteristics, parents do not be too anxious, learn to gradually guide children in life, I believe that children will gradually overcome their shyness and timidity.