In the traditional concept of the public, the most difficult thing to deal with in married life is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
We have a saying that "mother-in-law is like a cat and a mouse, and has been a natural enemy since ancient times".
This is a headache for many people,
It is also reflected in many film and television dramas,
There are countless TV dramas around the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law,
"The Belle Epoque of Daughters-in-Law" is one of the most representative works.
The drama is starred by the "national daughter-in-law" Hai Qing and the old drama Bone Baihan,
As in previous works such as "Double Sided Tape",
Haiqing plays a daughter-in-law from a privileged family,
And Bai Han plays a suspicious and unreasonable mother-in-law,
In the play, the two are all kinds of tit-for-tat confrontations between you and me, a posture of you and me,
However, the two people outside the play are "forgetful friends" who have a good relationship.
The relationship is like a girlfriend and like a family, even after the death of Teacher Bai Han due to illness,
Haiqing also raised her son Han Qing as his own brother...
In 1955, Bai Han was born in Beijing to an intellectual family.
His father was a university teacher and his mother was a court recorder.
Her name Bai Han is taken from the famous phrase "Years cold, and then know the pine cypress after withering." ”
Parents want their daughters to have the qualities of perseverance, and remain optimistic and hopeful in the face of adversity.
It may be that the expectations of the parents have played a role, and Bai Han has always done so when he grows up.
When Bai Han was young, he caught up with the special year, and his parents were treated unfairly.
Her parents were both highly educated cultural people.
But they were sent to the countryside to do rough and stupid work,
He was also retaliated against by people with ulterior motives,
Bai Han's mother was high-spirited, and she could not bear the humiliation of emotional collapse,
Since Bai Han's father left, he has been insane,
From then on, Bai Han had to take care of his mother while studying.
Despite the very hard life, Bai Han still did not give up hope,
In school, she studied hard and her grades were always the best in her class.
Returning home to serve her mentally unstable mother, I hope she will get better as soon as possible.
However, fate did not take care of this lonely child,
When Bai Han was 14 years old, his mother died unexpectedly.
She had to come to her father, whose body had been exhausted.
He could no longer do heavy work and left when Bai Han was 16 years old.
The early death of his parents is a pain that Bai Han can never let go of.
Having experienced the family's breakdown prematurely, Bai Han's mind became particularly sensitive,
In her most painful time, it was literature that saved her,
She read a lot of Chinese and foreign masterpieces, and saw that many people had experienced the same suffering as her.
The grievances and unwillingness in my heart have become much lighter,
Since then, Bai Han has fallen in love with literature and art, hoping that he can also engage in literary and artistic work.
Help people who are as desperate as they once were, and warm more people with literary and artistic works.
After the death of his parents, no one can read for Bai Han,
She could only be forced to give up her beloved studies,
Fortunately, she is usually notoriously versatile,
Because of his literary and artistic expertise, he was recruited to the Power Supply Bureau,
The salary is not high, but the good guys can support themselves,
In her spare time, she often performs programs for the workers in the workshop.
Sometimes it's singing, sometimes it's dancing,
Even the leaders praised Baihan for his literary and artistic talents, which should be cultivated with emphasis.
At the leader's place, Bai Han knew that he could pass the exam
The art school specializes in learning the art you love,
She tried to enroll in several art schools.
Bai Han's cultural class results are no problem, and he passed the exam very smoothly.
While she was happily waiting for the acceptance letter,
However, he was told that he could not be admitted because of his special family composition.
The bumpy experience did not erase the hope in her heart,
Bai Han has not given up the exam in the few years of working in the Power Supply Bureau,
She knew that even if she knew that she had been admitted, she might not be able to go to school.
However, I still look forward to the day when the clouds will open and the fog will dissipate,
Be able to go to your favorite school without being influenced by history.
In 1979, Bai Han took the admission examination of the Chinese Opera Repertory Theatre as usual.
This time the competition is extremely fierce, almost one of the best standards,
With a solid foundation, Bai Han was still admitted,
The kind Bai Han is afraid that he can't afford to waste a place in vain,
Just find a teacher and ask if your quota can be given to others,
After the teacher learned about The situation of Bai Han, he told Bai Han that he was worried about it, and the times had progressed.
Now Bai Han can be unaffected by the results of the admission,
Later, When Bai Han recalled that day, he said:
"At that moment, I knew what Fan Jinzhongju's mood was.",
She was ecstatic, and the spring of that year was a turning point in Bai Han's life.
She was finally admitted to the Drama Theatre to learn professional acting.
At the beginning of the school year, the teacher will arrange professional training according to the image characteristics of each person.
The instructor felt that Bai Han had a bitter face,
It was arranged that she learned a lot of tragic acting,
Later, there was a shortage of people in the comedy group, and many female students did not want to dress up ugly and did not want to go.
Bai Han took the initiative to apply to join, where she learned professional comedy knowledge,
The acting skills are wider and more exquisite.
In the drama theater, Bai Han is engaged in his favorite profession, and he feels that life is extremely comfortable,
Step by step, she survived from the dragon set to the position of female number one,
The heroine who got several scripts,
It has been valued and cultivated by the leadership, and the love has also landed.
BoHan's boyfriend is a loyal audience of hers,
Every day I would come to the theater to watch her perform, and I always went backstage to chat with her after the show.
Bai Han liked his carefulness and gentleness and came together with him.
When Bo Han was 26 years old, her boyfriend proposed to her:
"Xiao Han, now your career has improved,
It's time for us to think about starting a family.
You have suffered too much today, so please let me take care of you. ”
Bai Han was completely touched by these words and decided to marry and start a family with her boyfriend.
Bai Han desperately wants a warm and warm little home,
At the end of the year of their marriage, their son Han Qing was born, and Bai Han took care of the children.
I slowed down my career and became a housewife at home.
The husband is an ordinary person who goes to work with a dead wage,
It is difficult to maintain the livelihood of a family of three in Beijing.
The child is too young to be separated from the mother, and life is very difficult.
After marriage, the husband also seems to have changed as a person,
No longer as considerate and gentle as before,
He prides himself on Bai Han and his children to feed on him,
He yells at his wife every day and has no respect at all.
At first, Bai Han put up with it,
But as the children grow up day by day, the husband's temper becomes worse.
When Han Qing was eight years old, Bai Han finally couldn't help it:
"Didn't he hate me and the children and only spend money as a burden to him, then we wouldn't drag him down."
Bai Han left her husband's house with her son and decided to find a job to support herself and her children.
At that time, Bai Han was no longer young, and could only take on some older female characters.
Not playing someone else's mother-in-law or playing someone else's mother, starring in a family life drama,
The most challenging is "The Belle Epoque of the Daughter-in-Law", she has to play the more negative mother-in-law.
And the antagonist with her is the already famous actor Haiqing,
Although the two people pinch each other in the play, but in private they are very good,
She and Haiqing are both powerful actors,
When the line is said, there is a laughing shot that can be "seconds into the play" as soon as it is turned on. ”
Bai Han is many years older than Haiqing, and often gives her answers to life's problems like a confidant sister.
What doubts haiqing have in acting skills, it is also Bai Han who points out to her.
After the scene was filmed, the two already had a deep love affair,
Haiqing admired Bai Han and treated her like his own teacher.
Knowing that Bai Han has been single and living with his son Han Qing after divorce,
Haiqing introduced the director Han Xiaolei to her,
Under the mediation of Haiqing, Bai Qing and Han Xiaolei really achieved a good marriage.
Bai Han also loves Haiqing, and always pulls Haiqing out to eat and go shopping when she is in a bad mood. The plays they have acted together have won awards, and they do not compete for the position,
Applaud each other's nominations on stage.
When you are tired of filming, you will go out on a trip together,
Along the way, we witnessed a variety of beautiful views... Like a mother and daughter is also like a girlfriend.
His son Han Qing always joked with his wife:
"Our mother is not worse for the daughter-in-law in the play than for the daughter-in-law outside the play."
Bai Han answered: "Yes, we should not play mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it should be mother and daughter.
Find a good script for the next play, and we will play the two women. ”
Before the right script was available, the bad news came:
The 55-year-old Bai Han suffered from a tumor disease and was life-threatening.
Haiqing knew and immediately rushed from the crew to the hospital,
I heard the doctor say that Bai Han's disease is a rare disease,
It's already late treatment, it doesn't mean much.
Tears poured down her face, and she ran to Bai Han's bed and said:
"No, I'll find you the best doctor with the best technique,
It will be fine, and I am still waiting for you to shoot the scene. ”
Bai Han was already very weak, she said:
"Life and death are not up to people, I have nothing to complain about, but there is only one thing that cannot be put down,
Han Qing's acting has never been a famous performance, and when I am old, I have to entrust it to you. ”
Haiqing wiped away his tears and assured Bai Han, "You can rest assured, Han Qing will be my brother from now on." ”
Despite the lengthy treatment,
But Bai Han still could not survive and died in February 2012.
In accordance with her will, the body was donated to a medical institution for study.
At the memorial service, Haiqing was so sad that he could not say a word.
Refused any interviews and cried all the way home.
Bai Han left, she and Han Qing were like brothers and sisters,
Han Qing graduated from Nortel and acted for many years without being famous.
Haiqing introduced him to the director to pull resources, and he would also show his face with him at the awards party.
Han Qing's script will always be handed over to Haiqing to see, and he will also go to dinner together after the work.
Although not related by blood,
But more intimate than relatives, this is the fate of Pingshui meeting,
But it can develop such a deep emotion,
In the complex entertainment industry is really rare, who can not say a touch?