Everyone is pursuing happiness, but they rarely think that happiness is the result of their own deliberate management, and what they get is also based on giving.
Women want to get the favor of men, and hope to be able to go on with men for a lifetime, but how to make men inseparable from themselves and how to manage each other's feelings is an art.
Women in the feelings must remember not to love the brain, can not blindly pay, begging to win the feelings with a flattering posture, it will be a defeat.
Feelings are not your princess disease, everything requires men, otherwise it will be sprinkled and rolled, and it will be like glue.
True feelings, rely on attraction and management, you only insist on doing yourself, continuous improvement, maintain attractiveness and competitiveness, men will have a sense of crisis, will know how to cherish you.
You only have to read a man's emotional needs, be a supportive partner in many ways, infiltrate his work and life, let his subconscious rely on you, and have long been accustomed to your existence, he will be difficult to give up on you.
In fact, men also need to be cared for and guarded, need to be firmly chosen, need someone to be the harbor of their own soul, but the requirements of the outside world for men are very high and serious, and men will not easily show it even if they are sad.
Men also have fragile moments, but also sensitive moments, need people to understand, need people to support, know how to give spiritual understanding and support, often with half the effort.
If you want a man to be reluctant to leave you, you must know how to be a supportive partner and make him mentally dependent on you.
Read his psychological needs and be a supportive partner
If you can easily read what I want, always meet it in the right details, this tacit understanding of the mind will make us closely connected.
Women in love may also express their needs in a playful way, but men are much deeper and more mysterious, even if he also needs love and attention, but it is really difficult to open his mouth because of his face.
At such a time, the woman must read the meaning of his words, but also to understand the potential needs of his unopened mouth, to meet, he will feel surprised, there is a feeling of flattery.
There is also a level of wit and courage in love, timely detection of men's emotions and needs, to meet, no matter when, stand on the side of men, be a qualified supportive partner.
Such you are really impeccable, because of his psychological needs, you are always well satisfied, working so tired outside, but when you think of you understanding him, he will be full of confidence.
A woman must live as a man's spiritual dependence, let him be inseparable from you in his soul, and be his supply station.
When he is upset, know how to explain him, when he suffers a blow, you can give him confidence, when he is tired, give him a good rear, so that you really have no pickiness.
Dare to insist on being yourself
Two people together, is a process of mutual influence, if the boundary is too clear, not willing to accept the influence of others, not willing to change for each other, over time, two people will be estranged.
And if the boundaries are not clear, always willing to give in, in order to retain men, at the expense of completely becoming what men want, losing their own principles and bottom line.
If a person is getting farther and farther away from his true self, he will live a very confused life and lose his attraction.
When a woman gives and takes in her feelings, only promises, does not dare to insist on being herself, and becomes a vassal of men, in fact, it is really not attractive.
Feelings are also a process of mutual game, the man you love is also very realistic, will weigh the pros and cons, in fact, everyone is eager to find someone who matches themselves in the relationship, which is also true.
If you are more and more afraid to be yourself and become a complete love brain, in fact, it is only a matter of time before you are abandoned.
Women who can make men look up to them are very individual, have the courage to be themselves, dare to show their style, do not want to imitate others, only want to be true to themselves.
Others have actually done it, and you are unique, dare to insist on being your own person, in order to be full of attraction.
Constantly enrich their own connotations and create their own attractiveness
After all, feelings rely on attraction, your temperament and conversation, your ability and charm, these things are not taken away by others, but also your confidence.
Don't give up investing in yourself for a love affair, and don't lose the maintenance of the circle and other interests for a man.
What men like is you, you are unique, you are always full of vitality and love life.
In the process of falling in love, even if you like each other, you can't indulge too much, but you must constantly enrich your own connotation and enhance your attractiveness.
Actress Aya once chose to study abroad during the rising period of her career, and once she was very noisy in the variety show, blindly echoing others, making her more and more distant from herself.
After experiencing the death of her father, she began to reflect on her life, and finally chose to give up the great future at that time, go to study, and try unknown fields.
During this period, she met her current husband, gave birth to a cute baby, and the whole person became delicate and had an intellectual beauty.
Aya really became a very beautiful person, and it was precisely because of her continuous cultivation of herself that she had the way she is now.
Keeping men, after all, is their own charm, if you are strong enough, men will only be dead to you.
Emotional Message:
Allowing yourself to be happy is also an ability that needs to be deliberately maintained and managed.
In order to win the hearts of men in the relationship and make men reluctant to leave, they must know how to exert wisdom, read men's internal needs, and do a good job in the role of his supportive partner.
In addition, it is to continue to do a good job of yourself, constantly enrich your connotation, and make yourself radiant, which is the basis for retaining him.